Reddit reviews Attached: Create Your Perfect Relationship with the Help of the Three Attachment Styles. by Amir Levine, Rachel Heller
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"The only time i feel sparks is when it's not reciprocated"
Go and read up on attachment styles.
There's a Great book
I could have written your post. I'm in my 40's. I wish i'd figured this stuff out 20 years ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartache.
After reading the book and a bit of trial and error, i'm seeing a man who i have a great spark with sexually, but the rest of the relationship is calm and easy and comfortable.
Read about attachment theory. You seem Anxious attached and your girlfriends are Avoidant attachment types. The theory will explain a lot about attachment in relationships and how to improve on it in the future and pick a right partner that fulfils your needs in a relationship.
Read this book and it will cool down your attachment system and allow you to think clearly. It did for me