Reddit reviews Broken Toys: Submissives with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction

I personally wouldn't punish her for something out of her control. I have a disability and I know how shitty it is to feel like a failure for that. Add on her depression and its a bad combo.

Mastering Mind and Broken Toys by Raven Kaldera will give you anecdotes on how mental condition and kink can breathe the same air. Half of each is also from the POV of partners which is invaluable. I got his two on physical disability and kink and they really helped me.

https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Mind-Dominants-Neurological-Dysfunction/dp/0990544109

https://www.amazon.com/Broken-Toys-Submissives-Neurological-Dysfunction/dp/0990544117/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1478209313&sr=1-4

Hell on Wheels for physically disabled Doms and Kneeling in Spirit for disabled subs. I recommend both so you get the most info plus each book is again half from able-bodied partners which will also help you.

https://www.amazon.com/Hell-Wheels-Dominants-Raven-Kaldera-ebook/dp/B013CGV8H2/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1478342504&sr=1-1&keywords=hell+on+wheels+disabled

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B013CGVAHA/ref=pd_sim_351_1?ie=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B013CGVAHA&pd_rd_r=JSNM9RVKNW51MCSMHFAA&pd_rd_w=mP7wL&pd_rd_wg=AmwgD&psc=1&refRID=JSNM9RVKNW51MCSMHFAA

Paperback or e-books available.

I compiled a list of some of my favorites for my TNG group. Which I'll past here, hopefully the formatting is right.

Ties that Bind
A very easy to read collection of essays about BDSM, Leather and relationships. There is a lot of good general advice in this book and a lot about Leather. If your interested in Leather and incorporating BDSM into a relationship. I would recommend this book.

Master/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of concepts, approaches, and practices
Probably one of my favorite books, this is all about Master/slavery and what those words and that type of relationship mean. Keep in mind that this is just one of many different ways to do M/s and this book is just one of many. If your interested in Master/slave relationships I highly recommend this. (Note: This is the updated version which I haven't read. But I really enjoyed the original.)

SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools
A book about slavery from a slave's perspective. Very easy to read and very informative. I highly recommend anyone interested in dominance or submission. Especially people who are interested in being a slave.

Hell on Wheels:Disabled Dominants
Mastering Mind: Dominants with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction
Kneeling in Spirit:Disabled Submissives
Broken Toys: Submissives with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction
Master Raven Kaldera's series on Dominance and Submission with Mental Illness and physical disabilities.

Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path
Another book by Master Raven Kaldera (all of his books should probably be on this list. Spirtuality and BDSM are usually not discussed a lot and this book goes into a lot of ways that BDSM can be used in Pagan/spiritual practices. I found this book very enjoyable

My slave is a human trafficking victim. She barely escaped with her life after hundreds of rapes. This October we celebrate our 9th year together.

She shares a lot of similar problems that you have. Do they frustrate me sometimes? Absolutely, I'm human after all. However, this is what I decided to take on. I walked into this eyes wide open, and that helps me a lot when times get tough. I can safely assume your dominant feels the same way.

No one is too broken to love, or to kink.

This is a book that has helped my slave a lot with not feeling like she's the only one. Maybe it'll do the same for you: Broken Toys: Submissives with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction https://www.amazon.com/dp/0990544117/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_g84FDbKQPBV5C