Reddit reviews Confessions of the Other Mother: Non-Biological Lesbian Moms Tell All

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Confessions of the Other Mother

She Looks Just Like You

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I think with our oldest it was harder. By the time we had the second, she already knew that the bio-mum/boob obsession doesn't last forever. From talking to my straight couple friends, it's not too different to how it goes with them - the baby is more mum-focused for the first few months and dad can feel a bit left out. But really it's only a very short time in the scheme of things. I'd be lying if I said it was never ever an issue, but it's a distant memory now. Honestly that first few months of having a baby can be pretty world shattering, and we ended up a bit sensitive and cranky with the sleep deprivation etc anyway, so little things were magnified. It's good you're thinking about this stuff now. I liked the book Confessions of the other mother, which is a compilation of stories by non-bio lesbian mums, it helped me understand her feelings better.