Reddit reviews Dinosaurs Divorce (Dino Tales: Life Guides for Families)

My parent's divorce. It happened when I was five and basically, they just sat down and read my brother and I this book. We didn't really understand how big of a change it would be, except that we thought it was cool that we would have two houses.

Unfortunately this is pretty typical.

There are a lot of great books about parents badmouthing each other that might give you some strategy tips:

Divorce Poison

Divorce Casualties

Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome

There are also some books for young kids to help them handle divorce like Two Homes, Dinosaurs Divorce and The Invisible String. Kids really need examples of other kids in their position to understand they're not alone, and books can help with that.

I know this is really hard, but it's also a relatively short time since they split up (year & a half, right?) and there is a definite adjustment period. Just stay positive and don't bash her dad in return. You can respond with things like "I'm sorry your dad feels hurt" or "I'm sure it feels like that to him" or similar neutral statements, but you don't want to put her in the middle by saying he's a liar.

Most of all, you cannot change anyone, no matter how shitty he's being, so make a plan that doesn't involve him suddenly starting to respect you. You have to work around that and find other ways.

The best thing you and your wife can do is lead by example. Stay positive, change the subject, show by your actions that you're good people who are not doing whatever he's accusing you of.

In the meantime, DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. If you end up in court, you will need to show a history of his negativity. One of the custody factors judges weigh is which parent is more likely to foster a positive relationship with the other parent. If one parent is repeatedly bashing & badmouthing the other, the judge will not look kindly on that.

You may also consider family counseling for you & your wife & daughter.

Good luck. I've been there, and it is no fun whatsoever.

::internet hugs::

Here's a good book I used with my kids. There is also an app from Sesame Street that covers the topic well.

Book - http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0316109967

App - https://www.google.com/search?q=sesame+street+divorce+app&oq=sesame+Street+

Wrestlemania (or Wrestlemainee as my brother and I called it) was when my dad would have wrestle time. I remember mostly just jumping off the couch and he'd catch me and spin me around and stuff.

Also, when my parents got divorced my dad was really worried that we'd feel responsible. He got a book called Dinosaur's Divorce and read it to us a whole bunch. I didn't realize until much later in life just how selfless it was for him to make sure we were okay when he had just gone through something extremely painful.

Don: I got Lily a used DVD of "Catch Me If You Can" and the book "Dinosaurs Divorce" btw, sign the fucking papers. Love x-wifey

>https://www.amazon.com/Dinosaurs-Divorce-Guide-Changing-Families/dp/0316109967/ref=cm_lmf_img_2