Reddit reviews Family Shepherds: Calling and Equipping Men to Lead Their Homes

Masculine Mandate by Richard D Phillips
Manhood Restored by Eric Msaon
Family Shepherds and Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham
Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp

Not a parent, but Voddie Baucham's Family Shepherds gave me an idea of what kind of father I want to be one day.

I'm working from memory here, and it's been a while since I've read some of these, so please bear with me.

• The Exemplary Husband by Stuart Scott
  
• Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham - more about raising kids than being a spouse, but still very good.
  
• Family Shepherds by Voddie Baucham - I don't think I've read this one but I generally love everything by Baucham.
  
• My Life For Yours by Doug Wilson. I find Wilson takes a little getting used to. He's perhaps a bit too pithy, and needs sometimes to elaborate his points.
  
• Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson.
  
• Federal Husband by Doug Wilson.
  
• Family Man, Family Leader by Phil Lancaster
  
• Bound for Glory by RC Sproul, Jr.
  
• Eternity in Our Hearts by RC Sproul, Jr. - perhaps not entirely on topic, but still helpful.
  
  I also recommend The Basement Tapes by RC Sproul Jr and others. They are wide-ranging and helped me establish a vision for my own family. They're on like 140-something and I only got through the first 40 (for various uninteresting reasons). Highlands Ministries also does Salt Talks which I haven't listened to, but assume they are similar.