Reddit reviews Family Ties That Bind: A self-help guide to change through Family of Origin therapy (Personal Self-Help Series)
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I think this book could help a lot. https://www.amazon.com/Family-Ties-That-Bind-self-help/dp/1770400869/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=Family+ties+that+bind&qid=1550577416&s=gateway&sr=8-1 it helps people look at what assumptions they make about issues like communication, showing affection and sex based on family of origin.
I noticed in another comment that you have tried using dirty talk to turn on your wife and she wasn't receptive. This sounds like different expectations about what sex should look like.
You could try asking questions like:
What does she think a healthy sex life looks like?
What has made sex enjoyable for her before?
What would help her desire sex?
What is it about certain things that she finds undesirable?
I don't need answers, but hopefully it can get you talking about it. If she's more conservative then try finding conservative sources that talk about sex in a way that would appeal to her.