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u/singulartheyisAokay · 19 pointsr/TransyTalk

A couple thoughts:
-If you haven't already, I would definitely ask in a delicate way what language she prefers for her genitals / chest. For some trans femme ppl, dick or girldick is totally fine, others prefer clit, and some others may use junk or something else. Same goes for chest vs breasts vs boobs vs whatever. It's always best to ask, politely, before you're in a circumstance where you might say something that triggers dysphoria and kills the mood. This can also be a great way to ease into a more general conversation about likes/dislikes
-Even after these conversations, I would still check-in like the day that any kind of sexual activity is happening, just to see what her feelings are on that day. I know for me, some days I love for someone to touch / play with my chest, other days it makes me feel really dysphoric, so I always appreciate someone doing a quick check-in before getting down to it.
-This should be standard for all sex regardless of gender / genitals, but make sure you ask for verbal consent before touching or going down on her!
-Finally Fucking Trans Women is a zine with lots of great thoughts / ideas / advice on sex with trans women, I'd check it out if you are looking for ideas https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

u/KudouUsagi · 9 pointsr/mypartneristrans

I see you said you're with a ftm so this doesn't really help much I guess but there is a zine called Fucking trans women so maybe there are other things around that are similar for trans men.

u/scarlettcrush · 8 pointsr/mypartneristrans
u/ElizabeSock · 6 pointsr/actuallesbians

Similar to some of the others, I identify as gay, and what that means is that I prefer a feminine nature along with the feminine form (not necessarily parts). One without the other won't do. I found this in both of the trans women I've dated (both pre-op at the time), and I am completely open to dating a trans woman again. One of them showed me this awesome zine, which discusses trans sex. I thought I was creative before, but it showed me I had a lot to learn.

u/kaptaintrips · 6 pointsr/sex

Check out this zine: http://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-Volume/dp/1492128937

Written by trans women, it covers a lot more than just how to penetrate someone anally. It's a really fantastic, informative read.

u/JayeNBTF · 6 pointsr/asktransgender

Fortunately there’s a manual! It’s pretty good actually: https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

u/Shikhandini · 6 pointsr/asktransgender

To repeat everyone else, treat it like any other date and her like any other woman. If/when sex comes up don't be afraid to ask questions straightforwardly. Admit your own inexperience and desire to get it right (so hot!). Regarding being bi, others have pointed out the potential to put your foot in your mouth there. Whether or not your orientation comes up, reassure her that you think her parts are beautiful and you're comfortable with them whatever they look like. (Do this especially if she expresses concern that you might do the whole straight dude "does dis maek me gaaay?!" thing.) As others have mentioned, generalizations don't mean much when it comes to individuals, you need to know what matters to her.

Key points I can think of:

  • get enthusiastic consent every step of the way

  • make sure she feels safe at all times
  • are any areas no-go zones?
  • what terms does she use to refer to her parts? (ask this delicately)
  • if her genitals are going to be part of the fun, what do they like?
  • oh and be gentle with her breasts; if she's only been on hormones for a few months they will be small and tender

    Lastly, I recommend Fucking Trans Women as a resource for you now or in the future. Again, its generalizations may not be a fit for every girl, but it's a great manual.
u/key_concept · 5 pointsr/asktransgender

Fucking Trans Women (FTW) (Volume 1) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1492128937/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_SMGQCbCQP6AFX

Should learn how to muff.

Get a njoy fun wand and have anal fun.

Get a Hitachi magic wand.

Have her peg you

u/cantdressherself · 5 pointsr/ask_transgender

I wouldn't worry about your daughter's sex life. It's different for everybody of course, but some children can orgasm before they can ejaculate, and most of us who transitioned in adulthood can orgasm after loosing the ability to ejaculate. Even if she struggles to orgasm, which many women do, she can still find myriad ways to enjoy sex.

She will have the work of self exploration we all go through. Your job as a parent is, I think, to love and support her, and make sure she has the information she needs to protect her safety. She would benefit from general education about consent, and how to spot abusive relationships. You might also read "Fucking Trans women", and keep it for when your daughter is ready, or a more condensed version if you don't want to read the 90 page illustrated zine, Trans woman +sex = Awesome

Your daughter is blessed to have a supportive mother, Good luck on your journey, and I hope it leads you both to your happiness.

u/DatParadox · 4 pointsr/actuallesbians
u/sleepingdr4gon · 3 pointsr/asktransgender

I cannot recommend this publication enough. It may give you some answers and open up new ways for the two of you to have sex. Enjoy!
https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

u/Jessica_Rey · 3 pointsr/MtF

There is this book by Mira Bellwether called FTW I recommend. I know the title is a little vulgar but it has tons of useful information.

u/Lowercasedee · 3 pointsr/asktransgender

Sex is awkward sometimes, what can you do lol. Communication and understanding each other's boundaries is key.

Also this exists:
https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

PS: use "transgender" not "transgendered". It's an adjective describing a type of woman. "Transgendered"?... I just. I dunno lol

u/idontknowhowtolisten · 3 pointsr/asktransgender

Seconded. Being an owner of the book, I hand it off to my partners as a good read so they understand more about me, how things tend to work in my world, and in my favorite chapter, 'communication', Miranda discusses the keys to good communication and good sex with your partner(s), but makes it clear that you need input from your other half to be an effective lover.

OP, what you have at your hands is someone who has a setup that you (from what I'm aware), have no experience with. Communicate with her. Ask her what she likes, what she doesn't like, her type of language that she likes to use for herself, and her limits (or as the book calls them, "no-zones".)

It might be kind of intimidating or confusing your first time, but just start with the basics. Listen to her. Understand her, just the same as you would do with any other love interest.

Best of luck!

totally unstealthy edit: OP, I have the physical book, but the digital copy is $5. If you are tight for money or want to get some good excerpts from it or scans, PM me and I'll be happy to help you out. But seriously give Miranda the $5 if you can afford it. The book is worth far more imo.

more edits:
Link to the digital copy ($5): https://payhip.com/b/hRtK

Link to the printed copy ($10): https://www.amazon.com/dp/1492128937/ref=cm_sw_su_dp

u/ImStillJordan · 2 pointsr/mypartneristrans

May i recommend "Fucking Trans Women" for all your questions and advice on some new things to consider?

https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

u/ThisCritIsBananas · 1 pointr/actuallesbians

Girl, I can relate! Not to sleeping with an ex, but becoming okay with being very much on the lesbian side of the sexual spectrum...similar experience with my wife in terms of sex (she is less than a year down the HRT path), and doesn't help that she is so uncomfortable in her masculine body that it totally kills the mood even when I can deal with the turnoff of her having a girl penis (like, can't she just get her lady parts already???). I'm not much help for advice, but it's kind of nice to know I'm not the only one feeling this way and also feeling guilty/perplexed!!

Sex toys, and I also highly recommend Fucking Trans Women (it's on Amazon for fairly cheap: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1492128937/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1568864457&sr=8-1)

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u/Blackfrosti · 1 pointr/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

I've read online about people having some luck with stuff in this. Never checked it out personally so I can't speak from experience.

https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

It was written by a trans woman for transwomen and their partners.

u/b-at-pce · 1 pointr/MtF

I just posted this on another post, but this author discusses, with drawings and pictures, the many ways that transwomen enjoy their bodies. Vibrators help! Playing with your prostate/g-spot can be enough all by itself, muffing with and without vibrators can feel good...you just have to be willing to not have an orgasm as you experiment. http://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-Volume/dp/1492128937

If you can commit to yourself that you won't stroke it like most guys do, and give each technique a week of regular use, even if you aren't successful in having a traditional orgasm...I'd be willing to bet you'd find something that feels good!

As to whether or not you should release the juice...I don't know if it's medically necessary, but it might follow the "use it or lose it" model, in which case you may still want to play with your prostrate if you don't want it to shrivel too much. Lots of nerve endings there!