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!!! Girl, I GOT YOU. GIRL SEX 101! You wanna study up, this is a great introduction to both wlw romance and sex. I also highly recommend the Sex Nerd Sandra podcast; look through the archives and you'll find episodes focused on specific acts where the host interviews real people about how they experience them.
Good luck and godspeed, my friend!
This is so true. "I'm a virgin so can you have sex with me and teach me everything" is not an appealing offer, it's a to-do list given to me by a person who sees his virginity as his whole identity and needs me to validate his existence. It's all about him.
Whereas, "I noticed you are interested in me, I'm interested back, i love your attitude your intelligence and your butt, btw this is my first time" is not a problem. It makes me feel desired and not pressured.
As far as wanting her to show you the ropes. Don't do that. She can only show you how to please HER- not how to please all women. Each new woman is going to like things the last woman hated. You don't get to just "learn sex" once and be perfect at it after that. Also she's learning you at the same time. I've never met two men who like their dick sucked exactly the same way.
I'm gonna recommend a book- but it's not because I've read it. (I haven't. ) It's because my boyfriend has read it. He is exactly the kind of "experienced" man you envy... but women didn't teach him. He taught himself. And he credits this book.
http://www.amazon.com/Girl-Sex-101-Allison-Moon/dp/0983830959 this book is amazing and also trans-inclusive
Story first, then advice. I got my first vibrator after being with a girl for a year and a half. We were slow. Now I am (very) rapidly expanding my collection. Okay. Here's my basic guide to sex toy shopping, based entirely on my own experience:
For learning about sexuality in general I also recommend the following reading material, post haste!
Highly highly recommend this book. http://www.amazon.com/Girl-Sex-101-Allison-Moon/dp/0983830959 It has detailed descriptions, diagrams, and it's basically the best thing ever written for baby queers.
May I suggest this book? https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Sex-101-Allison-Moon/dp/0983830959/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8
Just fun to read and maybe makes the whole thing a little less scary.
Buy this book, download it, read it cover to cover. Never had gone down on a girl before but came with all these techniques in mind and it really worked well! Of course be reactive to what she likes, but this book really helps.
Also, wine... maybe have a couple glasses and get into it a bit.