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We found 8 Reddit comments about He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys. Here are the top ones, ranked by their Reddit score.
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I understand. Its the feeling of rejection. We want to be loved and admired and when someone says they feel things aren't going right, you feel like something is wrong with you. This is the time to arm yourself heavily with self esteem tools. Take care of yourself and remind yourself that there is nothing wrong with you. That you have much to offer and are a great person. Magnificent. Astounding. Wonderful. If you're experiencing what I am, you might be feeling potential separation anxiety.
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These are some affirmations I am using that could be helpful...
http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Just-That-Into-Understanding/dp/068987474X
He's Just Not That Into You was written by an opinionated jackass(es, technically) who sabotages guys by misinforming impressionable girls who tend to believe what they read as dogma, i.e., Cosmo addicts.
I don't mean to sound mean, but nonsense like this annoys me. On the one hand women want equality, on the other they expect guys doing this for them, especially after reading nonsensical "to [don't] do" books/magazines.
If you like someone, ask them out. That's it.
I don't want to jump to conclusions, but it sounds like if he a)doesn't want to skype with you b)doesn't like talking on the phone much c) turns you down when you offer to drive to see him d) consistently says he doesn't have time, maybe hes Just not that into you
I don't think he is interested in you anymore. Read some random pages from this book online: (click 'surprise me').
http://www.amazon.ca/Hes-Just-That-Into-Understanding/dp/068987474X
Reverse the situation. Whenever someone text you or emails you, wait 1 hour or double as long as it took her to reply to you before responding back.
Let's say you text her something, she replies right away: you wait 1 hour.
Let''s say she responds after one day, you wait 2 days.
Once a girl replied to my email after 1 week. I waited 2 weeks before replying back. After a while she started responding right away, and I did an f-close once we finally got together.
You are always busy, and you make time for the important things in life, they need to become important.
I picked that up from the book: He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys.
That's what some do to you. A little of insiders' information for countermeasure.
http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Just-That-Into-Understanding/dp/068987474X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1331866374&sr=8-1
Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. I sense much fear in you.
Edit:
I thought I should be more constructive with my feedback. I've read a bit of PUA stuff and like others have said there are good parts and bad parts.
But, I specifically remember the PUAs talking about getting comfortable talking to women in general, so that when a woman you find especially "interesting, funny, smart" or hot comes along you'll be able to talk to her. Your point that all PUAs are only about getting the hottest women is just wrong.
Now, I don't think all women can be generalized, and that pressing the correct button will make you attractive to every woman. But there are cultural and social norms that can be learned and discussed. I think you could find a lot of women's self-help books that make just as many generalizations about men.
Finally, going back to my original comment, I think you're only choosing to see the bad parts of the PUA stuff.