Reddit Reddit reviews How to Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)

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4 Reddit comments about How to Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking):

u/MUnhelpful · 2 pointsr/sex

For the non-mystical-bullshit version, you might also try this book. There's self-help-book bullshit instead, but no nonsense about mystical vital energy that you lose when you ejaculate, or chakras, or other things that don't exist.

u/TrailMixAndBananas · 2 pointsr/faimprovement

Congratulations! Honestly my favorite part of your story was actually your false perception:

>A few days ago at a concert, I asked her what her first impression of me was, and she said that I was cuter in person. I was shocked, and told her she looked disappointed when she met me. She said she was worried I would be disappointed. It just goes to show how negative thinking can ruin opportunities.

Personally I think you're made greater progress changing your way of thinking than actually getting laid. A forever alone-r would have taken one look, or one sigh, or one failed joke and use it to justify that they are wholly unattractive to the opposite sex.

As far as lasting 30 seconds, you shouldn't worry about it too much. You didn't fap for 4 days, it was your first time, and you had 4 hours of foreplay and a bj beforehand. Right now I'm reading How to Make Love All Night, a book which will allegedly make you last as long as you want in bed. I'm about halfway through it and doing the exercises. I don't feel like it's helped, but I'm still holding out hope.

One strategy that I found works decent for me is to masturbate as many times on a day when you have a date. That way when you finally get back to a bedroom, your penis has already ejaculated 4 times that day and isn't really too eager to come again. The number of times you should jack off depends on your libido, so experiment.

u/temp2011 · 1 pointr/sex

Others have also written about this. See this paperback-length step-by-step how-to by sex therapist Barbar Keesling: (Amazon link)

u/OhTheHugeManatee · 1 pointr/pornfree

Dude, this is my first try at it. And it's not been easy. Things that help for me:

  • I learned about the physical symptoms of having an addiction craving. Learn your normal resting heartrate, and check your pulse. I get about a 10-15% rise in the rate. When I do that math, and see the rate raise, it's incontrovertible: there's physical evidence that my limbic system is tricking me into wanting it. Then it becomes easier for me to fight it... it's one thing to fap because I want to, but I'm no sucker for my limbic system!

  • I'm not doing nofap. This is another indicator for me... when I'm having an urge, it's OK for me to just go fap while imagining people I know or have seen in real life. And the thing is, 99% of the time I don't end up doing it. It's not as appealing to me, doesn't set off the urge. But being allowed that outlet is key.

  • I have a goal - when I fap, I'm working on the exercises from this book on male multiple orgasm. No idea if it'll work or not, but it means that I'm way more aware of what I'm feeling when I'm fapping... I'm learning sensate focus, which is quite different and better than the stimulation I got from porn.

  • I am active. Holy crap. I take two martial arts now, and between the two of them I have a hard workout at least 4 days a week. I mean come home dripping with sweat kind of work out. I've never been in such good shape in my life, and those make me feel AWESOME. I'm convinced that the dopamine high I'm getting from martial arts is helping me stave off cravings for porn.

  • I'm busy. Really fucking busy. So even if I can convince myself to use MO as a "prize" for finishing a big task at work (I work from home), by the time I get to it the craving has passed and I can decide if I want to use porn. The answer has always been "no."

  • I'm trying to rekindle spark in my relationship with my wife. The extra energy and positivity I feel has been really really good for us, and that makes me feel good, too. So I don't want to lose my momentum there.

    Hopefully these pointers will help. Basically you just have to figure out how to convince yourself that you're having a craving, and get the fuck out of the house to do something for 30 minutes. Go for a run, sign up for a class, go to a cafe and read.... anything.

    Good luck my friend.