Reddit reviews How to Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)
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For the non-mystical-bullshit version, you might also try this book. There's self-help-book bullshit instead, but no nonsense about mystical vital energy that you lose when you ejaculate, or chakras, or other things that don't exist.
Congratulations! Honestly my favorite part of your story was actually your false perception:
>A few days ago at a concert, I asked her what her first impression of me was, and she said that I was cuter in person. I was shocked, and told her she looked disappointed when she met me. She said she was worried I would be disappointed. It just goes to show how negative thinking can ruin opportunities.
Personally I think you're made greater progress changing your way of thinking than actually getting laid. A forever alone-r would have taken one look, or one sigh, or one failed joke and use it to justify that they are wholly unattractive to the opposite sex.
As far as lasting 30 seconds, you shouldn't worry about it too much. You didn't fap for 4 days, it was your first time, and you had 4 hours of foreplay and a bj beforehand. Right now I'm reading How to Make Love All Night, a book which will allegedly make you last as long as you want in bed. I'm about halfway through it and doing the exercises. I don't feel like it's helped, but I'm still holding out hope.
One strategy that I found works decent for me is to masturbate as many times on a day when you have a date. That way when you finally get back to a bedroom, your penis has already ejaculated 4 times that day and isn't really too eager to come again. The number of times you should jack off depends on your libido, so experiment.
Others have also written about this. See this paperback-length step-by-step how-to by sex therapist Barbar Keesling: (Amazon link)
Dude, this is my first try at it. And it's not been easy. Things that help for me:
Hopefully these pointers will help. Basically you just have to figure out how to convince yourself that you're having a craving, and get the fuck out of the house to do something for 30 minutes. Go for a run, sign up for a class, go to a cafe and read.... anything.
Good luck my friend.