Reddit reviews Law Violence Community Athens (Key Themes in Ancient History)

Sounds like you need to go to court! Most historians who study your topic focus on court speeches because they are all about slandering your opponent and airing his dirty laundry so that the jury hates them. The best I can think of for homosexuality (or rather deviant sexuality) is Against Neaera by Apollodorus (although it was attributed to Demosthenes and is sometimes called pseudo-Demosthenes). Have you been looking at the work David Cohen (two separate links)?