Reddit reviews Llewellyn's Complete Book of Correspondences: A Comprehensive & Cross-Referenced Resource for Pagans & Wiccans (Llewellyn's Complete Book Series (4))

I love your dreams. They both seem very feminine to me. I think you might find a more general pagan approach helpful. The symbolism carries on through out all beliefs in slightly different ways but similar core understanding. There's a book I find really helpful, it might be a bit much for a novice but then again it might be helpful too.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0738732532/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1527082760&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=correspondences&dpPl=1&dpID=51-FRJV-cGL&ref=plSrch

The Goodly Spellbook is a good one because it talks about magical theory, not just the spells. I have Judika Iiles' Encyclopedia of Spells, though I don't use it often, it's a good starting point.

I just recently purchased a correspondence book. It's pretty interesting, though I haven't had much need of it just yet. Something like this might help you write your own spells. IME those work much better.

https://www.amazon.com/Llewellyns-Complete-Book-Correspondences-Cross-Referenced/dp/0738732532 is pretty great - cross-referenced and thorough. I don't follow a particular tradition and neither does this book, but you might like it anyway.