Reddit reviews Please Understand: The Interstitial Cystitis Guide For Partners

There is a book meant for the partners of people with IC called "Please Understand" Link to amazon that is supposed to help the healthy partner get it and offer suggestions for both parties to navigate IC. I haven't read it but I know some people who found it helpful for a spouse who can't seem to understand. You might also bring him to a doctor's appointment with you if you haven't already so he can hear it from a doctor, it's shitty but some people take things more seriously when an "authority" person says them. He could also post here, we get that kind of post at least once a month and it seems like the healthy partner learns a lot from it.