Reddit reviews Surgilube Surgical Lubricant Sterile Bacteriostatic Jelly - 4.25 Ounces each (Value Pack of 2)

I bought a set of "anal dilators" (butt plugs used for stretching and training your bum, MedicalToys.com. I bought the semi-flexible ones for about $30). They work great. I started with the smallest and worked upwards by leaving each one in for about 20 min to get accustomed to it before going up a size. I did this from the smallest (let's call it "size 1") to "size 3" for a week, for an hour of play each evening. Then I repeated the process starting with "size 2" and going up to "size 4". After a couple of weeks of regular anal play, I could easily start playing with "size 3" or "size 4" without much trouble. "Size 5" is still a bit snug for me, but I keep taking long breaks from regular anal play...also, "size 5" is roughly 2-inches in diameter, so it's bigger than you need for comfortable anal sex in most cases.

The lube I use is called Surgilube which is water based (it's the same stuff they use in the hospital). I like it because it is more viscous than the stuff I usually find in the adult stores.

Take it slow, and remember if it actually hurts you're doing it wrong. Feeling things stretch is fine, but it should not be painful. Patience is the key.

i dont boil either, wash with soap and hot water before using it and i use surgilube lubricating jelly on sounding tool and on my dick
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you are not kidding I used it before I can't believe I forgot about it.