Reddit reviews The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex: An Indispensable Resource to Pleasure and Seduction

This needs to be higher on this thread as some pretty legit advice. The fact that one can't physically get it in seems to be one (reasonably small) issue in the face of some much larger sexual incompatibility issues.

I hate caps as much as the next person, but this needs to get through: YOUR SEXUAL ISSUES WILL NOT BE SOLVED, EVEN A LITTLE, WHEN AND IF SHE SUCCESSFULLY COMPLETES HER TREATMENT. She will still find most things "icky" with sex. She will still not be interested in it much at all. She will still not be anywhere near that "freak in the bed" that you're interested in.

I was in a relationship with a girl who sounded like yours and had much of the same history. I bought her this:

http://www.amazon.com/Good-Girls-Guide-Girl-Indispensable/dp/0871319349

and, to my surprise, it worked pretty well. Didn't fix everything, but she saw it all in a totally new way. It did a really good job getting her to think about why she thought the way she did, and why it wasn't helping her. And why her parents would rather want her to be happy. You can give it a try.

Or it might not work. But just to be clear: you have other issues, and you gotta work on those.

Anybody know what book Jacobs is reading?

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Edit: My guess is that it's the Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex--you're welcome.

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex, by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Found out about the book after she gave me gave me a BJ, and I moaned like a little bitch.

Needless to say, I inquired. Don't know what's in there, but it's worth every penny of what they're charging.

It's been getting better. We've had quite a few honest talks and she's just a very sheltered good girl type. She thinks that sex should always be romantic and the sticky details are icky. She knows it's important to me and has agreed to try and branch out. At this point if I can get her to try doggy style once and a while it'd be a big step up.

Another redditor recommended this book and my wife said she'd read it, cause from the reviews it seems to be something that would address her issues. So here's hoping.

She really is a very sweet woman and I'm madly in love with her, just our sex life is incredibly boring.

Regarding Question 4: Buy this book

I've bought it for 2 different gf's in the past. It worked wonders for them and their friends, and it will for you too, I guarantee it.

This is going to sound harsh, but you asked for advice...

I would suggest watching some porn yourself and taking notes. If he gets hard while you kiss, he most likely isn't the problem. I have a book entitled [The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex] http://www.amazon.com/Good-Girls-Guide-Girl-Indispensable/dp/0871319349 You may think you're okay in the sack, but this book helps girls to know how to take charge in the bedroom.

Maybe you're more into it than he is, but there's a problem. You two need to talk about it, or you can take charge and fix what you need to fix.

If this doesn't work, then maybe it's time to move on. =/ You have to have good sex in order for it to work.

Well that is good news then!

Try giving her this

While I cannot vouch for it I have heard of many people who have used it to their advantage. The key is get across that sex is not evil, bad, or horrible. Especially if its with someone you love!!