Reddit Reddit reviews Where to Draw the Line: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day

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8 Reddit comments about Where to Draw the Line: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day:

u/sweadle · 7 pointsr/AskWomen

Therapy.

Also check out the book "Where to Draw the Line" by Anne Katherine.

Consider whether you find yourself in co-dependent relationships, by reading on the signs of those.

u/panthur · 5 pointsr/AskWomenOver30

Boundaries. This goes along with /u/rhythmicdancer's answer of simply saying "no" and /u/localgyro's answer of conflict resolution. I am still learning this by the way.

First to know myself better to learn what boundaries I should have, what I should and shouldn't be saying at work, what behaviors I will and won't accept from my spouse and family members and friends. And being able to express those boundaries and not feel bad for demanding respect. A good book for this.
Sigh this thread reminds me of what a hot mess I am right now.

u/ComplexFUBAR · 3 pointsr/Christianity

I think you'd benefit from reading [Where to Draw the Line: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Everyday] (https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0684868067/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8#mediaMatrix_secondary_view_div_1501395026418). It talks about all sorts of boundaries including Time Boundaries and Intimacy Boundaries.

u/Perrythepervypus · 3 pointsr/ABDL

First of all, thank you so much for opening up and sharing your story with us. That takes an awful lot of courage. Second of all, I'm so sorry that you've had to go through so much crappy stuff surrounding your ABDL side. It sounds like you have constantly had your boundaries violated over the years and you've been deprived of the privacy you've needed and deserved to safely explore this side of yourself. It's totally understandable why you'd feel so frustrated, depressed and worried about the future. It's really not easy to cope with what you've been through and I think anyone would feel the same way you do in your circumstances.


I am hearing a sense of hope though which is lovely and will aid greatly in moving forward from all this and discovering that happy little deep down inside of you. It also sounds like you've got a plan in place to reclaim your sense of privacy and autonomy by getting a new job. Keep up with that, you are on the right track there! I'd also recommend seeing a kink-friendly counselor/mental health professional to help you work through the feelings and fears that you have stemming from all the not so good experiences you've been through. I also think it would be helpful to do some research on communication, consent, and boundaries so you can learn skills on how to set boundaries with your family and how to handle things if another person tries to push your boundaries in a sexual way. I'd recommend reading these two books 1, 2.


Lastly, it's never too late to make changes (heh pardon the pun!) in your life, to start a new beginning, and to make up for everything you've missed out on. All the best on your healing journey. You're doing an awesome job so far, you got this! If you ever want to chat, please feel free to pm me \<3

u/AnneOR · 2 pointsr/polyamory

Sounds like you could benefit from starting to set clear boundaries.
That would include telling meta to not share stuff your partner hasn't shared with you and adding to the problems. Venting like you are saying you do is a whole lot of co-dependent. I'd suggest agreeing you both count on Reddit or other poly forums so you don't feel alone. Agree to not talk about your shared partner at all for a month except for in positive ways, and see if you can handle
that.

That would include scheduling time to not be in the same room all the time. Stating you want solo time or whatever it is you need. Don't worry about what they expect, worry about what you want and need, state it firmly, stick to it.

This is a great and inexpensive book that you'd probably find really useful https://www.amazon.com/Where-Draw-Line-Healthy-Boundaries/dp/0684868067

I think you partner is crappy for complaining about you. Meta should say to shared partner "I don't want you to bitch to me about stuff to me if you're not directly telling them they have a problem" Meta is crappy for sharing private talks with you unless they've told shared partner they don't get privacy. You're being crappy if you go behind your partners back to get information they don't want to give you, no matter how much you think you're entitled to it. I hope you are all able to work on communication here!

u/sqqueen · 1 pointr/AlAnon

I really loved this book but there are also many books available on boundaries; probably there's a good one at your library. Good luck.

u/jmuzz · 1 pointr/AskReddit

This book helped me.