Best car seat head & body supports according to redditors

Have you read the amazon reviews? They seem mixed:

https://www.amazon.com/Hugaboo-Infant-Sitting-Snuggle-Months/dp/B00J88O6Y6?th=1

The Boppy Noggin Nest pillow made a huge difference for my son- we had a couple and used them in the bassinet, swing, rock n play, baby gym, pretty much anytime he was lying on his back. Amazingly, we started noticing improvement with his flat spot within a couple of weeks! Here is a link: Link

Very similar to our situation. We got both home on the 3rd after 10 days with just 1. We stuck with the nicu feeding schedule they were on which was bottles on the hours of 3,6,9,12. We have pretty much been able to stick to that, occasionally getting off by a half an hour here or there. I don’t set an alarm for when to wake up to feed them overnight because one of them always lets me know. Even if one is not crying they both get woken up for food and diaper so they stay on the same schedule. I have just recently started occasionally feeding both at once if they both are screaming but i usually just do one after the other. Thankfully our girls eat at a good pace so it’s not an issue if one is crying a little waiting for her meal. During the day our girls like to nap in the fisher price infant to toddler rockers and they go down pretty easy in their cribs at night.

Here is a rundown how my days have been and I should mention we are exclusively formula feeding. I am on maternity leave and my husband works 4 days a week, so those days i do both the 3 am and 6 am feedings by myself and they take around 45 mins between warming bottles, changing diapers, feed and burping. So i sleep between 12-3, 3-6, 6-9, minus the wake time for feeding. I wake him up to help overnight on days he is off. Sometimes we stagger things, for instance I’ll go to bed after 9 pm feeding and hubby will handle the midnight and put the girls down to bed by himself so i can get a more solid chunk of sleep. If they eat every 3 hours and one person can do one by themselves the other person can get a 6 hour stretch of sleep which is all you need to feel like a new person! Anywho days I’m alone...After 9am bottles and diapers they go in their chairs and I get my coffee, this is essential and should never be skipped. Between feeds when they nap or are just hanging out i use the time to restock diaper stations, do some laundry and one time a day i make 24 hours worth of bottles for each girl. Staying organized and on top of little things like always having wipes when you need it can keep you from getting frustrated. My mom has come about once a week to help out, I time her visits with my own dr visits or errands so i can leave the house without the babies.

We have a swing and haven’t even opened the box yet and not sure i want to! They actually go to sleep in their cribs or their little chairs with little to no soothing from us and i’d like to keep it that way. Maybe we will set it up down the road or maybe we will just return it. Here are some things we’ve loved
disposable changing pads to put on our changing pads.
infant to toddler rocker
formula mixer pitcher
flat head boppy pillow
No link for this but cloth diapers have been the best burp cloths, we took a bunch from the hospital and I’m about to order some more, Green Sprouts brand has been pretty good too.
We have been using the app baby tracker to keep track of feedings and diapers.
Time to feed a baby...might add more later!

My guy had torticollis from birth, we saw a physical therapist at 2 weeks for a few months. They showed us stretches to so multiple times a day every day, and it helped.

I would suggest doing this (having someone show you how to do this is extremely helpful) its also possible you will need a helmet (its common with torticollis and flat head).

We also got these banana shaped things on Amazon the physical therapist suggested we used in the car seat and if we were watching him sleep to keep his head straight instead of turned at a horrible angle

https://www.amazon.com/Summer-Infant-Cradler-Support-Medallion/dp/B071XN5YSP/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1526006056&sr=8-3-fkmr0&keywords=Torticollis+cradler