Best everyday bras according to redditors
We found 2,152 Reddit comments discussing the best everyday bras. We ranked the 1,746 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
We found 2,152 Reddit comments discussing the best everyday bras. We ranked the 1,746 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
Have you thought about trying different styles of bras? I have a little mini wardrobe of bras to wear with different things based on how in-your-face I want my boobs to be. In particular I think unlined bras (I like [Panache Andorra](http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Andorra-Balconette-Bra/dp/B003P9WFVU but ABTF can give you lots of shape-specific recommendations) give me a nice shape which is uplifted and contained but still soft so I don't feel like I've got two coconuts on my chest.
I'm trans, but currently have minimal chest development.
I wear a Calvin Klein cotton bralette. I'm not publicly out and no one seems to notice I'm wearing a bra.
It should work for your purposes too.
To me you look like the classic combination of FOB with tall, shallow roots. This makes it tough to get a good fit from bras like the Lucy, which have a rigid top section that won't cling and conform and/or wrinkles when it runs into taller tissue (which is what I think is going on with your strap issue). I have this problem too - you're not alone!
There's a two prong starter approach. First, stretch lace:
Second, half cups:
I don't think you should size down in the Lucy - it looks like you fill out the bottom well, and a 32E would probably be too small.
Edit: Added the Andorra and Clara!
Same. I’m fairly thin but have a larger chest, so I had all but given up on cute little bralettes to wear around the house. Everything looked like Caroline’s sports bra. I used to laugh and say it looks like I’m stuffing sausage into its casing and failing. Then I discovered this Calvin Klein bra and OMG IM IN HEAVEN. She has no idea what she’s missing out on. Well fitting bralettes are perfection.
Caro- Do yourself a favor and buy a few of these. They’re BOMB. You’d probably be a medium like me. (Don’t be an idiot and order it too small cuz you think you’re a smol bean. I’m 5’7” and 115lbs so I’m potentially smaller than you)
I pretty much wore cotton bralettes like those Calvin Klein ones 24/7 when I got my nipples pierced. Sports bras might be too tight and polyester isn’t as breathable as cotton. Try wearing a cotton bralette even to sleep, and just make sure you change into a clean one every day. bralettes
Mine is the Natori Feathers. So comfortable. I wore it while I was pregnant and a size 32DDD(shallow) and then after for a little when I was nursing. Then my boobs and body shrank and I had to get rid of it. :(
I should get another one...
Here is one a friend has. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015QVHYR4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Qj9TCb4XNDSYK
I think this one is cooler looking myself
https://poshmark.com/listing/Pentagram-harness-5af5464d739d486fe7d61033?ad_partner=google&campaign_id=1768614388&enable_guest_buy_flow=true&gclid=CjwKCAjwndvlBRANEiwABrR32Ilx-Nj3HLZjUqASPkZPaH_yPNqnGRkLmXGYuCqHhhekfJ19U2_LQxoCOsAQAvD_BwE&l_con=NWT%2FNEW&utm_campaign=1768614388&utm_source=gdm
Try Hains, or Calvin Klien here's another CK. Target also has some nice simple looking ones one, two, three, four, and there are a ton more just search their website for "bralette."
Amazon, my girlfriend just ordered one.
Jelinda Womens Sexy Goth Harness Strappy Body Caged Bra Black(Style 2-B) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015QVHYR4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_vcNAybV4DM14N
Or
Jelinda Womens Pentagram Harness Strappy Body Caged Bra Black Jelinda https://www.amazon.com/dp/B019F9306W/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_awdb_cdNAybD0DA5QW
Panache Andorra Full Cup
Cleo Maddie Balconnet
I did notice that some sizes were cheaper than others. I guess it depends what they've got in stock? Hopefully your size is as cheap! If not, shop around the other styles. I looked for quite a while.
"Bandless" is a way to describe bras. Bras are either banded or bandless. It refers to if the band goes under the cups, like Marcie (a banded bra) or like Lucy, an unbanded bra. See how on the Lucy, the bottom of the cup ends at the underwire, where the Marcie has more fabric there that continues from the band?
Based on the pictures, 30E/F seems too small. I think your original measurements of 30FF/G sound about right. And I'm actually leaning more towards 30G since I'm 28FF and you seem more than one size bigger than me. Don't worry, it's not as huge as it seems! There was a survey done on this subreddit where we found out that 30F is about average.
As far as brands go, if you really think you're full-on-bottom, Cleo Lucy is a good starting bra.
The first thing that immediately jumps out at me is the discrepancy between your measurements and the bra band size you went with. Sister sizes get gradually shallower and wider as you size up in the band, while having the same volume. Does that make sense? In other words, a 28D/DD or 26DD/E is going to have far more projection in the cup than a 30C is.
It seems like you're experiencing what a lot of us on here did, stuffing our 30DD busts into a 34C and ending up with a fit that sucks. I think a 30 band size is going to be much too large for you given your measurements, and even if CK runs 'small' in the band it's not going to change the mismatch in cup shape, which means the C cup is going to be much too shallow for you.
I'd highly recommend trying something in a 28 band size, if not a 26. I understand that 26 bands are quite hard to find. In my experience 28 is significantly easier to find. What is available to you is probably gonna depend on your geographic area, but ordering bras in your size online to try on isn't a bad idea. Amazon Prime, for example, does free exchanges/returns.
Edited to add: Here are a couple bras available in 28D/DD on Amazon Prime.
Parfait Charlotte, assorted colors
Skarlett Blue Petite Plus Balconnet (I have this bra and it's one of my favorites! I would get it in all the colors if I could.)
Freya Patsy
In my case I originally thought my boobs were shallow, but later found out they are projected, just thin. I'm sure the fact that I wear binders somewhat regularly doesn't help them in that department, heh.
Hey girl! Fellow 30FF 18-year old here. I relate to all of this. There's not much I can say that will help because I'm currently struggling with the idea of a reduction too, BUT I can help with your bra-finding issues.
I searched for months to find cute bras and these are some that I currently own that are supportive, sexy, and not tooo expensive:
here
here
here
this one is my favorite!
I'm half your mom's age, but the way you describe her breasts sounds pretty similar to mine - I'm a cup size smaller than she is at 38E, but I'm also 5'2" and overweight. I've had luck with Panache bras; my favorites are the Tango II balconette and the Jasmine. The Jasmine has stretch lace at the top of the cup, so it's pretty forgiving to full-on-top shapes. I like wearing my Jasmines because they make my boobs stick out further than my stomach, lol!
I really like this bra for exactly that purpose--it fits my (fairly petite) frame, and doesn't "add much," if that makes sense.
I ordered a bunch of these sports bras, and cut 2 holes where the flanges would go in a couple of them. If you have an old sports bra at home, you could use that as as back up!
This one is amazing!
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cts_ap_1_vtp?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_p=2897711222&pf_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&pd_rd_wg=PhPC8&pf_rd_s=desktop-detail-softlines&pf_rd_t=40701&pd_rd_i=B00553XFN6&pd_rd_w=pkFBI&pf_rd_i=desktop-detail-softlines&pd_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&_encoding=UTF8
A-maze-ing!
I'm a 36j and I shove myself into 38h and there is no bounce. May I repeat, no bounce! I do a lot of high impact stuff too.
This is my favorite bra. Bought it nearly 4 years ago, and I routinely wear it under my male clothes. Never been clocked for it other than by my wife when she's hugged me.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YLSQU?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Most of those bras are too big IMHO.
Hettie is the most projected and will be more fob friendly than say lily which is older style and i find a bit more projection friendly.
You might try a cleo lucy/kali in 28g and see how that fits you.
What is crazy is how your fob/fot type changes the fit on bras. Lucy/kali makes ME look "saggy" but makes fob ladies look very perky and cute, while lily/hettie/marcie make FOT/even ladies defy gravity but can make a fob gal look like the girls hang low iykwim.
Id stick with unlined until you nail a bra that fits awsome. Lined/foam are very hard to find in small sizes and with much projection. Ewa and comexim are pretty much your only bet (deco comes in our size range but is shallow as a mofo and if you are center heavy like we are boobs leak inwards) but are never gonna be PERFECT.
Once you nail a unlined bra it will be easier to find a polish bra that may work OK.
Marcie isnt perfect on me but works awesome for me since it hides slight assym and makes boobs defy gravity and often comes up cheap on amazon - so its my goto in a 28GG and you can see how differently im filling it. Yours are def too big but also you have less tissue ontop leaving lace gaping a bit which causes the pointy shape.
https://imgur.com/a/pFvir
Lucy/kali is a bit more your shape and id see if those dont work - go with a 28G in that.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01IAFL4J2/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1499189849&sr=8-2&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=cleo%2Blucy&dpPl=1&dpID=51bJGP%2BrehL&ref=plSrch&th=1&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B004D2RI2E/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1499189849&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=cleo+lucy&dpPl=1&dpID=515DfroOIrL&ref=plSrch
Well it's usually best to measure according to /r/ABraThatFits, so I'd recommend remeasuring according to their standards first.
Other than that, if she really is a 30E, there are plenty of options. This bra in floral and 30E is $22.10
Black Ombre in 30E is $28.29
Fuchsia 30E is $25.89
Plum 30E is $27.34
30E for $20 and amazing cleavage
30E in blue/black for $21.99
30E in black/purple $24, needs to be added to cart to show actual color
30E china blue is $28.93
30E is equivalent to a 30DDD
Malibu blue 30DDD is $21.83
Honestly, if she's spilling out of a 32DD, a 30E probably won't be much better, since the cups are the same volume. She might need a 30F. As I said, try again using the /r/ABraThatFits method.
I understand your heavy chest struggle. This bra saved the day for me when I was training(jogging) for a half marathon. You can customize how much lifting you want the straps to do which is nice. Not my cutest sports bra but definitely my most dependable.
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8
Anyone have a solution to back of bra band bulge showing through clothing? /r/ABraThatFits seems to always suggest tight bands - which makes the problem worse. I found if I wear a less supportive bra (like this - https://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-Cozy-Seamless-Wire-Free/dp/B00L5YKF0A) then everything under my t-shirt is smoooooth, but my boobs don't look as perky. With regular underwire bras, I end up wearing looser tops which probably don't look as good on me, but I can't stand when I look in the mirror at my side and see those bulges on my back. Darker color shirts help conceal it too.
The Cleo Juna has some lace along the top of the cup and isn't too full coverage (but is otherwise boring).
The Deco Plunge is "boring" as far as decoration, but does give nice cleavage w/ less coverage.
The Tango II seems like a fun nude bra, but it's not. It's evil (in this size rage).
I don't think the Natori Feathers comes in your size, unfortunately, because I think it hits all of your points.
The Gossard Superboost lace plunge looks cute, but I haven't tried it (and I think I remember people saying Gossard is weird re shape/sizing?)
The Freya Carys is not beige as in nude color, but is a more neutral color and also comes in longline.
If you want to get this look with a properly fitting bra, I must say the Freya Deco did wonders for me! I have very large, pendulous breasts with what I consider an average root. The Deco keeps them lifted up and creates that rounded look on top without them touching.
I also recently purchased the Cleo Lilly and Cleo Lucy
, and they give me a great rounded look that isn't as intense.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00GBCTSYU/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1473444258&sr=8-1&pi=SY200_QL40&keywords=calvin+klein+bralette&dpPl=1&dpID=51yWBIKTE%2BL&ref=plSrch
That's my favorite one ever! It's a nice thin soft cotton. So comfortable.
Here are some of mine:
Calvin Klein Cotton Bralettes
Retinol Serum
I also got some other boring stuff like a cheap Fire 8 tablet for my kids to use on roadtrips and some cleaning supplies.
http://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-Convertible-Gravel-Heather/dp/B00L5YLSQU?ie=UTF8&keywords=a%20cup%20bra&qid=1465490188&ref_=sr_1_1&sr=8-1
Here you go!
/u/raewild
Both of those are on Amazon. Cleo Lucy and Panache Andorra.
Hey! 34H chiming in! This bra has a million sizes (including yours!) and I absolutely love it! Of course its a personal pref thing, but just in case you need something with good value and good quality-- http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Tango-Balconette-3251/dp/B002MAPJCA :)
Make sure they're not padded half cups, as those are pretty shallow.
Also, I think the Cleo Marcie would work well, but it's not available in your size on brastop right now. It's available in 30DD on Amazon (it runs pretty tight in the band, so you might find that preferable) (here it is in turquoise), figleaves (which actually has it in 28E), barenecessities, and asos.
I was a 34 DD when I went to basic. AF but relevant advice anyways.
Double up on the cheaper, less supportive bras.Also, consider going down one cup size from what you should technically wear.
If you have the money, Glamourise makes this one and Moving Comfort makes this one. Both are awesome but the Glamourise one is my favorite for bounce control and a bit of separation. I trained for three half marathons in the Moving Comfort ones and the Glamourise ones have ended up great for running since having kids/gaining weight and turning into a 38G.
Trust me on the bras.
I'm also in NEPA and a 30FF !! Ok, sorry, I get excited when I see other fellow NEPA'ers here. Anyway! There are absolutely no specialty stores here and it makes me sad =/. My method so far (I have amazon prime) is ordering a bunch online in different brands and styles, then shipping back what doesn't work. It seems like a huge pain to most people, but I don't think it was that bad. Plus with amazon, you can schedule the UPS people to pick up returns at your house. Nordstrom.com also has free shipping, I just found that amazon is cheaper.
Another option is making a trip to NYC or Philly for a day, finding a specialty store and trying a bunch on then either buying there or ordering online when you get home. I'm sort of an even shape with avg. projection and my favorite so far is my panache andorra.
transmasc here -- I wore/wear this one all the time when I needed to not feel my chest. It's very thin and lightweight, good for smaller chests but if you've got particularly noticeable nips it might not hide them with a thin shirt (like those clingy super thin women's shirts). If that's an issue for you I'd look for a stretchy bralette with light padded inserts. TBH I fucking hated underwire and any scratchy material (lace, too many ribbons, etc).
Sports bras as hailed as they are for comfort actually aren't that comfortable when thing are sensitive :(
These are what I wear: https://www.amazon.com/Bali-Comfort-Revolution-Shaping-Wirefree/dp/B009YRM6MK/ref=cts_ap_1_vtp
They're cheap and comfy. I also like that they minimize rather than accentuate my breasts- I always hated that underwires would thrust my tits out like they were on a platter for the world to gawk at. I also hated 'falling out' of them when I got active (and I have a physical trade as well).
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It's one of these. They're AMAZING! Highly recommend. Great support, and really cute, too.
All Natural Bamboo & Cotton Bra Liner (3-pk) No Irritation, Rash Guard https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01K1X7CME/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Q-F3Cb5KABZPR
These should fit under your bra well. If they fall out, your band size may be too large. They are amazing and I haven’t had a rash since I started using them way over a year ago
OMG I totally feel you. I'm 34G, and finding a suitable bra was a major barrier to even trying yoga when I first got interested. I found these bras from Hanes are perfect. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YKF0A/_encoding=UTF8?coliid=I2YTNN96A7GXR2&colid=2QYW9Q32HH72Z
Not super supportive, but they keep the girls from flying all over the place and are extremely comfortable. With boobs as big as mine, they're arguably more comfortable than not wearing a bra because they keep everything in line without the slightest feeling of compression or constriction. AND they're wicked cheap! I buy 2-3 every year or so because they do stretch out a bit over time, but for the price, they're totally worth it.
Cheap cotton sports bras are the best. They breathe, which is super important when you're in a bra 24/7. I was wearing a more lycra one for a bit and got boob pimples. Not attractive!!
I now wear these, and they work great. Hanes Women's Stretch Cotton Low Imact Sports Bras - 2 Pack, White/Black, Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009DJCHWI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_oQ9EzbNPMYBWP
Here you go!
Bam
https://www.amazon.com/Bali-Comfort-Revolution-Shaping-Wirefree/dp/B009YRM6MK
Never looking back
FF is a UK size. It's 1 full cup bigger than an F. UK sizing goes D, DD, E, F, FF, G, GG and so on. I checked bratabase and the Deco has very wide wires. 34FF actually has the same volume as a 32G, but with a looser band. The Cleo Lucy is a good bra to start with if you are full on bottom. Also, unlined bras are much better when you are trying to nail down your best fit/size. It has medium wires. Amazon often has the Lucy on sale for a good price, right now the 34FF is about $31. You might want to try it in the 34F and 34FF.
The difference in size is probably not due to using inches instead of centimeters. It is probably because you pulled the tape more tightly on one occasion than the other, leading to smaller measurements and of course therefore a smaller predicted size.
Your measurements point more to 34G US (or 34F in UK sizing) than 34DDD, to me, especially since you say you're projected. The bras you bought were small in the cups for you, thus your breast tissue had to go somewhere and some of it went in the band which makes the band feel too tight. Meanwhile, your breasts are seeking more room in the cups, so they can push the cup away from your body, giving the appearance of gaping.
Since you say you appear projected, I have to say minimizers won't give you the best fit because they don't suit a projected shape--they're shallow and wide, and so the pull tissue a little closer to the chest and give a slightly minimized appearance. But this works best for fit if the wearer's shape is also shallow and wide, which does not sound like you.
Because you're leery of the 34 band, what I'll recommend you try is the Panache Andorra bra in 36E UK. This is a sister size up to the UK size of 34F (that would be equivalent to US 34G). The cups of 36E hold the same volume of breast tissue as 34F on a larger band, but the thing about the Andorra is that it runs snug in the band, so it's kind of a compromise between a 34 band and a TTS 36 band. Hopefully this explanation makes sense to you, but if you're confused by anything feel free to ask questions.
I like the Glamorise No-Bounce bra that JessPlays mentioned, but I love the Glamorise double-layer custom-control bra.
I get good support from both, but the custom-control gives me a better shape (more rounded and more pushed-up). I ordered a bunch of the custom-control ones, and now I only use the no-bounce ones as a backup. I'm a 38H, so I know how important good support is!
As a general reference, bratabase can be a good resource for bra reviews and suggestions for your particular measurements.
Perhaps you'll like Calvin Klein's?
It sounds like she might be something like a 34J or 36HH? If so, you should be able to help her to find something fairly easily. If she doesn't want them 'up here' in her face, look for something full coverage so she doesn't feel like they are all on show as she might with a plunge or balconnet.
When you've measured, how about trying the Panache Andorra - the lace is pretty stretchy so I think it works for a number of shapes, and comes up to a J cup. You could order it from Amazon or Nordstrom and get free returns - it's cheaper elsewhere but the free returns is wonderful when you are trying sizes.
http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Andorra-Full-Cup/dp/B003P9WFVU
One of cheapest bra in your size range that is halfway decent is the Goddess Keira. It sells for around 40 USD on amazon. Amazon does free returns and I've also seen the Keira go on sale for less. Goddess uses US sizing, order a 34K.
They also currently have the Panache Tango II Balc. on sale in beige for 34 USD. Order your UK size of 34H.
The Cleo Marcie is on sale for 50% off at 28 USD. Again, order your UK size of 34H.
EDIT: Cleo Lucy is also on sale for 35 USD.
Thanks for this! The Marcie (well, at least the one I found on amazon ) looks a little pinky.
Sure!
Cleo Marcie: http://www.bratabase.com/browse/cleo/marcie-balconnet-bra-6831/pictures/all https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00PSFDMHK/
Panache Andorra: http://www.bratabase.com/browse/panache/andorra-full-cup-bra-5675/pictures/all/ https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B003ICM7AS/
Panache Clara: http://www.bratabase.com/browse/panache/clara-full-cup-7255/pictures/all/ https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01IB8SOIW/
Cleo Lucy: http://www.bratabase.com/browse/cleo/lucy-balconnet-bra-5851/pictures/all/ https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B004D2RI2E/
Cleo Kali: http://www.bratabase.com/browse/cleo/kali-balconnet-bra-7561/pictures/all/ I can't find a good Amazon listing for this one, unfortunately, but I can recommend some other sites that should have it if you're interested
Fantasie Rebecca: http://www.bratabase.com/browse/fantasie/rebecca-2024/pictures/all/ https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B007WB4UQK/
Wacoal bras that come in 32H: https://wacoal-america.com/all-bras_wacoal-bras-catalog/ then filter by size. I would expect Amazon would have any of those bras, or you can order right from Wacoal's site
For anything on Amazon, different size and color combinations may have different prices, so if you're not picky about color you may be able to get a better deal. And anything that's Prime eligible (which again depends on size + color combination) should have free returns even if you don't have Prime
I'll also second the bralettes and lounge bras! I don't think it makes much sense to spend a lot of money on expensive bras when you're in your first year or so of HRT, just because you'll probably have growth spurts and end up outgrowing them anyway.
I happen to like these Hanes wire-free bras. They're flexible with the sizing, so you won't grow out of them too fast, and they're only about $12 each. Pretty comfy, too! Just be aware that they're not padded, if that matters to you. They do have front sliders though, which makes adjusting them much less of a hassle than a lot of other bras!
Projected, seamed bras don't have to make your boobs look like cones or cylinders. They can look pretty round (most of my bras are very projected, unlined cups, and give a nice shape). The main problem is that they don't make many bras like that in your size range.
I just looked though, and it seems that they make Panache Andorra in 40D. It is a bra with medium-width wires and medium projection (though I'm not 100% sure how it scales in your size) that suits even top- and bottom-fullness, so it should be a lot more projected than your current bras, but without a lot of danger of being pointy. If you try it, I would suggest not getting the black, because black bras tend to run a bit smaller (something about black dye sometimes makes them less stretchy). Panache bands are typically pretty firm/true-to-size, and since they don't make C-cups, getting a 42 isn't an option.
Post ABTF, and my biggest go-tos are the Goddess Michelle in Sand and the Panache Andorra in Pearl. I don't really care about seams showing through my clothes, and honestly the specific seaming on Michelle is what makes it fit me so well. I'm more bothered about coloured bras showing through my clothes, so I don't wear some of my other bras as often, but I also love some of Freya's half cup bras--they have such cute patterns!
This kind https://www.amazon.com/Antibacterial-Bamboo-Cotton-3-pk-XXL/dp/B01K1X7CME/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?keywords=bra+liner&link_code=qs&qid=1563475428&s=gateway&sourceid=Mozilla-search&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1
I started just wearing socks, but there's a proper product. Someitmes I wear two since I use them for padding more than sweat absortion in winter.
It might shift around during nursing. Thinking about that made me realize though that maybe the gore is too high? The wire doesn't seem too narrow like it doesn't contain all my breast tissue, more like the inner parts of the cup are too sloping. I don't really know how to describe it! Every time I think I know what a well fitted bra feels like it's like a new challenger appears haha.
Before pregnancy etc my favorite bra was the Freya Patsy which has a low gore since it's a half cup.
also on amazon :) with free shipping/returns with prime!
Here's a few links for you:
Freya Faye:
Amazon Link
Freya Siren:
Amazon Link
Cleo Lucy:
Amazon Link
Cleo Kali:
Amazon Link
If you are in the USA, your best bet of trying on some bras in 38HH in a store is Nordstrom. Call your nearest Nordstrom store and have them order in a few bras in 38HH.
I would also phone any lingerie boutiques within 4 hours of you and see whether they have this size in stock. (Chances are high they have one bra, the Elomi Caitlyn in beige or the Goddess Keira in fawn. Or they have one sole bra in 42F and tell you to come in anyway, in the hope of making a sale. Been there, have fallen for that crap.)
I've been through all of this and in the end I just gave up. I order all my bras online. I don't have to drive several hours to a boutique with a shitty selection and pay full price for an ugly bra. Instead I look up the newest collections from Elomi, Goddess and Panache, make a list of what I like and then try to find a good price for those bras. I try the bras in the comfort of my own home without a sales assistant breathing down my neck and telling me how great it looks and I can think a few days whether I really want to keep the bra.
I can also try the new bra with all my shirts and see which shirts it works with. Does the lace show through? Is the beige pale enough to work for my pasty-white skin and not show through my work uniform white button-downs? Is the gore low enough to wear with that new gorgeous teal and silver shirt with the low plunging neckline?
The way I see it, you are not really buying the bra online, instead you are paying a deposit to the online shop so that you can try the bra in the comfort of your own home, maybe even giving it a test drive of around 30 min while you do some light chores around the house, simulating everyday wear.
You only really bought it when you decide to keep it, rip the tags off, give it a rinse to wash the starch out and then put it on for a 10+ hour day.
So maybe consider taking advantage of the amazon sales and order a few 38HH bras through amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003P9WFVU/
https://www.amazon.com/Elomi-Nina-Bra-38HH-Sand/dp/B018Y74DPI/
Since you wanted wire-free:
https://www.amazon.com/Royce-Womens-Sadie-Wire-Free-Comfort/dp/B00INRYP12/
https://www.amazon.com/Royce-Charlotte-Wire-Free-Cotton-Lined-Comfort/dp/B004EKMOCY/
The Elomi Smoothing that you got in 44FF is also available in 38H and might fit you in that size too because it runs large in the cup. It is sadly currently sold out on amazon, the only sizes that are available are 38GG and 40GG. If you want to try it in 38H, you'd need to order it elsewhere.
Here is the desktop version of your link
https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Bamboo-Cotton-3-pk-Discomfort/dp/B01K1X7CME/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=bra+sweat+pads&qid=1566785158&s=gateway&sr=8-1 or similar kind.
Engineered bra: Victoria Secret/Lane Bryant that keeps them off your chest and lifts so there is air circulation, lol.
I also have a rather pronounced tail of spence, and for me shoulder bras work best to keep them in check. I'd recommend the Natori Feathers - I personally haven't tried it, but it's supposedly great for shallow breasts. You may want to size up in the cup though, it's very shallow.
The ones I own are Mimi Holliday shoulder bras - I have several non-padded (narrow wires) and one padded (wide wires). Mimi's rather expensive, but from time to time, cheap ones in 28D-DD and 30C-D pop up on Amazon UK and Ebay. Their balconettes and padded plunges (actually half cups) also have very wide cups.
Okay, if you've tried flirtelle and you think you need narrow wires, and you're full on bottom, I'd say try Cleo Lucy or Marcie. Marcie is more for even breasts, while Lucy tends to work better on FOB breasts. You could also probably try Freya, which also has narrow wires, and most of their models are FOB compatible. The deco may work for you (it has narrow-ish wires), or one of their padded halfcups may do you well. For cleo, you'll probably want to stick to a 32 band, but you may need to go down to a 30 in some Freya's, as they tend to be stretchier.
You should be able to order these all (although, for some odd reason, I can't find the cleos on nordstrom's site even though I know they carry them) for free shipping and free returns (or maybe try them on in store at) Nordstrom. Also, amazon prime, if you've got it.
These other bras are also recommeded for FOB:
Depending on how FOB you are, the CK Entice may also work for you (although, it has been discontinued, tends to work better for even shapes), and you should probably go up one cup size for it, so 32FF.
Do you live in Southern CA? I've heard good things about Jennette's bras as well as Nordstrom/Nordstrom Rack for fittings and bra shopping.
Geez, I didn't even know I was essentially buying the same bra over and over again. No wonder nothing was working. My ignorance of this topic is a little embarrassing! But you're all very sweet and helpful around here, so I'm going to pursue this li'l project. It would really take a surprising amount of stress off my life and add confidence if I could just get it straightened out.
Just to be clear, first try:
and
in which size, exactly?
Also, which Freya unmoulded would you recommend?
It seems silly that there aren't companies cashing in on tapered torsos. To be honest, I didn't even know I had such a thing, but it explains why a LOT of clothes I try on fit weird! :P
I've had a few of these for YEARS and they've held up really well. I'm a 28FF/30F so we're dealing with close to the same volume. Super sturdy.
You and I are apparently boob twins. Same exact measurements and same fit from Lucy and Juna.
Unfortunately I have had little luck finding a molded bra that works perfectly but Freya Patsy half cup works well enough. It is not really padded but gives pretty good nip coverage by using thicker fabric. It is not the softest thing in the world but it might be worth checking out. If you have amazon prime, you'll get free returns just in case it is not to your liking.
Here is a link:
http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Patsy-Padded-Black/dp/B00EM8LXMA/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1462776951&sr=8-1&keywords=freya+patsy
Btw, I was told that Freya bands run large but I got my regular 32 in this one and it worked for me. Just info to help you decide.
HTH and nice to find a twin!
ETA: The Patsy is a bit shallow so it will fit somewhere between Lucy and Juna. Again, it is not perfect for me but it is the best thing I've found short of my ill-fitting VS bras.
This one is incredibly cheap ($20 or less) and has a really wide range of sizes. It is not very snug so would not be for running but things like walking or yoga etc it would work. The top review breaks down their sizing and your size isn't listed so I'm not sure if it would be better to go for medium to match the band size or what depending on the type of support you need. Might be worn a shot for $20.
I'm a 44-46FF/G and got the 3x and love it but don't do high impact stuff. My size wasn't listed either so I took a gamble and ordered a color that was $9, lol.
Better sports bras out there? Sure, but mine was comfy and an unbelievable price and it suits my needs.
Someone who shares the pain! Projection is just so hard to find, I don't really understand...
I usually just wear those built in bra tank tops (the only ones that fit well are the ones from Old Navy), soft cotton pullover type things (similar to these), or the one sports bra that I've found that wasn't a full on top style... I swear, being not full on top is almost as hard as being pendulous.
> will i go crazy from having to constantly wear a sports bra for seven days straight?
If you've never worn one before, yeah. Before the end of day 1.
There are a couple types of sports bras: compression, encapsulation and both. Compression sample
Encapsulation sporting bras look like regular bras: cup for each breast. Sample
A combination sporting bra has separate cups for each breast and an adjustable panel that holds them secure. Sample.
http://www.rei.com/learn/expert-advice/sports-bras.html
> Keep in mind that i just have a very small bit of breast growth, but the whole nipple situation is a problem that needs to be hidden.
A t-shirt underneath a button down shirt works for me. Keep both dark colors so the areola doesn't show through. A single t-shirt works if the material is opaque and thick. I think the compression ones may suffice, but be aware that the band sizes for compression ones may not come in your size, they seem to stop around 38-ish and some brands stop at much smaller band sizes.
I have these and I've never had a problem, though I generally use rubber bands or a bit of string in a pinch. I've never had the clips break (though I HAVE lost a few rubber bands) - just remember to loosen the straps before using anything to relieve some of the tension.
The Hanes Comfort-Flex bras were already mentioned. However, if you're a tall girl (6'+) like me with a really long torso. You might want to look at these other two Hanes styles as the straps are longer:
https://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-Seamless-Black-X-Large/dp/B00L5YL8XS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1487341932&sr=8-1&keywords=Hanes+Women%27s+Cozy+Seamless+Wire-Free+Bra
https://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-Racerback-Black-Medium/dp/B01HRFTTOS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1487341995&sr=8-1&keywords=Hanes+Women%27s+Get+Cozy+Racerback+Bra
They're cheap and super comfy! And while not great for support or the most flattering under clothes (they'll flatten you out, but nothing worse that any sports bra). They're perfect for keep sensitive nips from rubbing against your clothing. Which is where you'll likely be soon. Oh, and in my experience they run true to size (I'm currently a 38B to C. And a large fits me well).
http://www.amazon.com/Parfait-Affinitas-Womens-Charlotte-Padded/dp/B00HJT5KN2
> https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YKF0A/_encoding=UTF8?coliid=I2YTNN96A7GXR2&colid=2QYW9Q32HH72Z
Thank you! These look so comfy. I just ordered two because I'm not sure about size- 34DD isn't included on their chart but I'm hopeful!
34/G/K here. I ended up buying Hanes Women's Cozy Seamless Wire Free Bra, Black, X-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YL8XS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_xraNBb4YYKNA1
I fluctuate heavily depending how engorged I am, and I can’t afford to drop $70+ per nursing bra. These are cheap and do the trick.
Sorry, my pics are messy and unorganized! Here's the Natori Feathers:
https://www.amazon.com/Natori-Womens-Feathers-Contour-Plunge-Bra/dp/B003MQMTZ8
It's the one in the middle in this pic:
http://i.imgur.com/kF8JALZ.jpg
I think AA is unlikely when you've ever been this big but one can hope! You're probably not actually 34D or DD now btw, it is unlikely your band size went up unless you've gained weight in general? Probably the sister size 32E!
Pretty ones are usually nylon and everyday is cotton. I look for two layers at least and get them to fit really tight (almost binding, they're tiny and uneven anyway might as well go for the Tiny Titty Committee look)
Agree with Amazon - for example this bra and these panties have prime shipping available AND free returns if they don't fit her well or she doesn't like them.
Also agree that if you can find the matching panties for her current bras, you'd still be doing very well by her. :)
I got my girlfriend this one but I think op might be wearing this one tiny differences
I had the same problem with the CK Princess and other CK bras. Just recently picked up the Cleo Lucy, and it fits perfectly. I also got it for $35, so that's pretty awesome.
Thanks for the tag /u/crazymusicalgenius96 !
I am feeling you girl! Our shape is a pain and a half. I am going to be totally honest with you. I tried a crap ton of bras before I found what I wanted. Wanna know what I found? Victoria Secret. Its the weirdest thing to me that it it what fits best (still not perfect but literally fits very well when put on well). I also fit well in a self expression by maidenform racerback. I am trying to remember if they run to a 32D/DD but I would not suggest the raceback if you get a 34C/D as you likely will need a rixie clip to help keep it tighter (because the bands are pretty stretchy). I would suggest getting this first and trying this (http://www.amazon.com/Cleo-Womens-Marcie-Balconette-Bra/dp/B00BKZXPZ6/ref=cts_ap_1_fbt) on (suggest 34C/D as their bands are stiffer). It is the only of the UK bras I have had actually fit me, second best was the Freya Lauren padded halfcup. It fit for awhile but as it shifted it was bad for me but it could be good for you (would go for a 32D/DD for sure in that). If you wanna talk bras with me feel free to PM me as I don't want to rant here lol. :)
PS: Padded bras rarely work for us. I am trying to find one now that will work but it isn't healthy to wear them daily anyways so it works out :). I would also like to say that the calculator size is a starting point and you likely will be closer to a 32D than the DD as it overestimates often for our shape.
Ladies! She got it on Amazon for those like me who were wondering where to buy it link
Do you think that a racerback converter might help?
I’ve been a huge fan of these bras for a while, and now that I’m pregnant and my boobs are being weird, I’m so glad I have these bras ready to go! I haaaaate underwire - I have really wide-set boobs, and I never found any structured bras that fit me decently. Finally saw the comfy-bra light and I’m never going back!
These bras are super stretchy, soft, and forgiving, and have foam sewn into the cups to help keep things smooth and un-nippley. (They actually make the same bras without the foam, and I love those too for some outfits!)
I will say, I’ve ordered a few on Amazon that felt like knockoffs - fabric was much stiffer than usual - but if you order from Macy’s / JCPenney or whatever they should be legit.
Going braless is fine, but bras are often vilified in this subreddit, mostly only because they don't fit well. It's not the poster's fault or the bra's fault, but it's not right to do that, and I can't just stand by when it's happening.
30C is designed for the same breast volume as 32B, but it has a tighter band, not surprised it feels tight. It could be that you need very shallow 30Ds with wide wires and not a lot of forward projection - shallow breasts sometimes also need a bigger size than measurements predict. "D cup" isn't huge. Here's a well fitting shallow 30D. And here's another.
Your description of cup fit sounds like too narrow wires preventing all of your breast tissue getting into the cups. It's a bit like a party hat sitting on your head, it is to small, but it's empty because your head doesn't fit in it. The cup isn't too big, it's wrongly shaped, too narrow and too forward projecting.
A good thing about brands with a big size range is a lot of their straps tend to be fully adjustable.
Natori Feathers Contour Plunge is considered one of the comfiest bras out there. Calvin Klein Customized Lift demis are liked by many. Aerie bras by and large are great - you could try a 32C on tightest hooks in store and if it works order 30D online, I don't think they stock 30 bands in stores.
I'm getting a 32F for you, my dear. If you do prefer the 34 band, the sister size would be a 34E (equivalent to a 34DDD in Victoria's Secret). But I do suggest trying the 32 to see how it feels.
For full on bottom/projected/average root, I'd recommend:
These are in order from very narrow and projected to average width and somewhat projected, so you may have to experiment to find the style that's right for you.
If I were you, I'd try the Arabella and Cleo in a 32F, and the others in either a 32F or a 34EE depending on your preference.
Hope this helps! Be sure to post a fit check when you get your bras so we can troubleshoot any potential problems. :)
With the Panache brand bras (including Cleo and Sculptresse) that I've tried so far, I've needed to go up a cup size, so you might want to try a 38F in the Cleo Minnie. How did you find the band on the Minnie, out of interest?
You could perhaps try the Panache Andorra or Andorra Plunge. There's also the Panache Jasmine and Scupltresse Chi Chi/Flirtini/Paradise. I get a little wrinkling at the top of the Scupltresse bras but it doesn't show under bras.
Welcome back!
Averaged MWB and the +4 sister size method both put your near a 38G and 36GG, and these are sister sizes to the 40FF Alegro you linked to which actually looked like a really good cup volume for you despite the loose upper panel.
I would recommend starting with:
Alternatively, you could also scour Bratabase. I currently have the Cleo Alexa in 36GG and Elomi Lara in 38G listed for sale, as well as a Cloe Juna in 34H which I think would fit you pretty decently based off the measurements and the photos you've provided.
I also ordered a few of these and they seem really cozy but they're still a little too tight around my incision site.
Thank you. After reading all the sites, I've decided on Cleo Lucy. It should fit me better since I'm FoB.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0096R11TW/ref=s9_hps_bw_g193_ir02?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=merchandised-search-9&pf_rd_r=18AA09P28FNR294X8C20&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=1865589702&pf_rd_i=2587384011
I think I ordered my first ones when I was about 3 months in. Things were just obvious enough that I figured I probably should, at least to keep things a little less...pointy-looking.
In fact, i still have those bras and still wear them. They're very comfy, and my only real complaint is that I wish they had a little padding, mostly to prevent them from bunching up a little on occasion. But they're still great options for you first bras, because they're "flexible" sizing (S/M/L instead of fitted sizes). They're the Hanes Convertible Seamless Wire-Free bras.
I have the thongs in black and heather grey, and want the two matching tops! Spoil for spoil?
Cost is $37 shipped for both.
In return I'll do a 30 minute vanilla Kik session, no Amazon GC surcharge, which means an $8 savings!
OR
A custom order pair of panties from my panty drawer!
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Having similar issue, be wearing some sports bra's and thought I need something less tight and one wearing now came in today. Fits fairly nice, I don't have much for breast, just keeping my nipples from rubbing.
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00L5YLSQU/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&th=1
Also got a Calvin Klein Cotton Bralette, but have not worn that for more than a couple minutes, so can't vouch for it yet. (But the Calvin probably won't do too much to hide nipples if that's a concern as it seems thin, but the bra I linked In thin, but thick enough to hide nips.)
Thank you.
I will have to head over to nordstroms to try them out.
You said "depending on your shape". Can you elaborate please?
EDIT: I was reading the reviews for one of them on Amazon and people were saying that they are sized to small. Is that just because they ahvne measured themselves properly? Does Cleo's sizing match the number we cam up with here?
http://www.amazon.com/product-reviews/B00BKZXPZ6/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt?showViewpoints=1
EDIT2: Which one of the brands at nordstrom have sizing that matches the numbers here? And which has the 3-part unpadded that you recommended?
Congrats on your weight loss! :) Just off the top of my head, I'm thinking the Natori Feathers in a 30DDD might be a good choice to try. Plus free shipping & returns, yay! http://www.amazon.com/Natori-Womens-Feathers-Contour-Plunge-Bra/dp/B003MQMTZ8