Best incontinence protective underwear according to redditors

It is dangerous for you to go alone. Take these!

Well have I got good news for you (LOL)! https://www.amazon.com/Poise-Impressa-Incontinence-Bladder-Supports/dp/B00ZGZSI80?th=1

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Depends.

No really, Depends.

https://www.amazon.com/Depend-Incontinence-Underwear-Absorbency-Packaging/dp/B004M3CPDG

My favorites are the GaryWear Active Briefs.

Read through your post on relationships too, they brought up some good points. You definitely need to bring it up before you spend a night with them. Be honest with them that you need to wear "briefs" (not diapers) because of an issue - don't get science-y, mention it's been a lifelong condition. If you're comfortable with it, they'll understand.

It looks like you're wearing either an Abena or Tena, which are very absorbent, but very "diaper" shaped too. Have you tried experimenting with a pad and a disposable brief? A Tena pad and Depends should be a suitable pair for going out. It ends up being about $1.60 ish/night, which is a little more expensive than yours, but it's worth a shot, no?

Hope this is the right size.

Sounds like you want some Gary Active wear briefs:

https://www.amazon.com/GaryWear-Active-Brief-Large-Gray/dp/B00B8N8WEY

They're not so much 'plastic' pants as rubber, but they're the best I've used. The interior fabric is a soft stretchy rubber material, while the outside is cloth. Very discreet as they essentially make no noise, and the outside fabric works well under other clothing. I use them if I know I'm going to go #2 in the diaper I'm wearing (helps keep smells limited), or if I sleep in a diaper overnight. I know I've had instances where I've flooded my diaper while sleeping and these contained the leak really well.

They come in pretty neutral colors and aren't easily distinguished from other laundry.

I hear you, but he’s right, and I can say, as someone who also doesn’t love plastic pants either, that I’m finding I really like the PUL ‘plastic’ pants that I’ve tried from GaryWear:

https://www.amazon.com/GaryWear-Active-Brief-Large-Gray/dp/B00B8N8WEY

I tried one pair and liked them enough that I’ve gone ahead and bought a couple more. They really do help a lot with smell, and they come in various colors to suit either of you as needed. I like them both for when I’m concerned with possible leaks, but mainly if I’m going to be wearing outside and I’m worried about having to bend over or if my shirt may come up above my waist line. I’d much rather they see a pair of these in black or blue than see an ABU diaper. :)

Well that Depends

http://www.amazon.com/Depend-FIT-FLEX-Incontinence-Underwear-Absorbency/dp/B008RJV0KK?ie=UTF8&keywords=adult%20depends&qid=1465318289&ref_=sr_1_1_a_it&sr=8-1

Just get one of these and there's no need to go anywhere and no one will want to be close to you after a few uses anyways.

https://www.amazon.com/Tena-Classic-Adult-Diapers-Large/dp/B002DV7BEW

Space or Tykables overnights.

Abena M4's aren't bad and appear to be prime capable
http://www.amazon.com/Abena-Abri-Form-Fitted-Brief-Medium/dp/B004GJOB10/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1457587931&sr=8-2&keywords=adult+diapers+abena&refinements=p_85%3A2470955011

Those might be cloth backed by now though...

> 2. In the US, I think the only place to buy Plastic Backed Abena M4's would be XP Medical?

XP, Amazon (plus several Marketplace sellers), Northshore, KCK and I'm sure others carry them too. You can still get the plastic backed M4s in large part because of the efforts of the owner of XPMedical who campaigned directly to Abena to keep making them but you can buy them in lots of places still...

Thank you kind sir I appreciate the recommendation.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0792PDJ8H/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Od4JBbW29A9F3

This may help you in your time of need 😉

Some of their products can be bought on, and are fulfilled through, Amazon. For anyone with prime, that basically means free two-day shipping, and $3.99 one-day shipping; it's fucking fantastic if you're trying to get supplies ordered sneakily.

Tranquility ATNs

Abena M4s

Sort of comes off as an advertisement, but, really, these guys plus Amazon are incredibly convenient.

http://www.amazon.com/Depend-Adjustable-Underwear-Extra-Large-Absorbency/dp/B000FFAAD2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1302327439&sr=8-1

I bought some of these for "special occasions" where I don't want to have to run to the bathroom constantly. It's like a little sticker that puts just enough pressure on the urethra to keep it closed. Haven't tried working out with it though.

https://smile.amazon.com/Finess-Softpatch-for-Stress-Incontinence/dp/B01438A52M/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1503504092&sr=8-1&keywords=finesse+bladder+control

There's also this - it's kind of like a tampon, but it puts pressure on the urethra to stop "leaks".

https://smile.amazon.com/Poise-Impressa-Incontinence-Bladder-Supports/dp/B00ZGZSI80/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8

Both are really more short term solutions - might be something to try while you work on the PT and get things back to normal.

https://www.amazon.com/Tranquility-Premium-OverNight-Diapers-Medium/dp/B000FCQKIY/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1474694592&sr=1-2&keywords=adult+diapers

I will be ready

https://www.amazon.com/Depend-Incontinence-Underwear-Absorbency-Disposable/dp/B0792PDJ8H/ref=sr_1_7?keywords=adult%2Bdiapers&qid=1574377323&sr=8-7&th=1

Abenas are these: https://www.amazon.com/Abena-Abri-Form-Comfort-Plastic-Backed/dp/B004GJOB10

You order them online. If you're concerned about getting them in the mail and your wife is like, "Honey, what the heck is this?" get a P.O. Box and have them shipped there.

The best you can buy at the store are the Depend Protection w/ Tabs or Walgreens (https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/walgreens-certainty-fitted-briefs-maximum-absorbency-medium/ID=prod3958818-product). I recommend neither, really, unless you're drip incontinence. If you're a "flooder," you're going to leak.

https://www.amazon.com/Tena-Classic-Adult-Diapers-Large/dp/B002DV7BEW

Rearz - Latex Pants fit great, work better than any other plastic pants I have tried, and are comfortable while being worn. They are a bit annoying to put on and to a lesser extent take off compared to other types of plastic pants. You're supposed to use some talc/baby powder on the inside and on your thighs to put them on so they slide on easier and avoid catching your leg hairs. Once you get them on they work great, but they do take a minute or two to put on rather than the 10 seconds or so of the more common plastic pants. They don't have any seams, so there are no pressure points or ridges that catch things and they are entirely latex so no part will wick moisture into your bed or other furniture. I know they come in at least yellow or pink, but I don't know of any in this style with designs if that is important to you. They are entirely latex (or maybe artificial latex), so they should fit well with whatever body shape you are. I've had them for a few months and they haven't leaked yet and they have often caught liquid that came out of my diapers. You can find them elsewhere, but I got mine from amazon. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07F5ZBVSM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&th=1

This is my go-to place when I want to get Abenas for myself. BEST DEAL I'VE FOUND ON AMAZON and you get free shipping. Pretty good deal IMHO

these have always worked wonders for me. Sometimes theres just nowhere else to go

Some do. It all depends on what you get. I used to use these, but they fall apart easily. https://www.amazon.com/Abena-Abri-Form-Comfort-Plastic-Backed/dp/B004GJOB10

Pro-tip

Also, like others have said, maybe hold off on the drinking in the club if it can ultimately ruin/end your night.

https://www.amazon.com/Poise-Impressa-Incontinence-Bladder-Supports/dp/B00ZGZSI80?th=1

Not the most comfortable item - obviously not designed by anyone who might actually have to use them!

I loved those big pads they gave me to wear in the hospital. Now that I'm home(2 weeks pp) I've been wearing these, and they're great.
Always Discreet, Incontinence Underwear for Women, Maximum Classic Cut, Small/Medium, 32 count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KXUW72G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_w.5LzbRZ4J87W

>What are some of my options out there, anyone have an advice for me?

I'll be honest, ever since we've had all of these wonderful companies making ABDL specific diapers, I've mostly used them and thus can really only speak to the cutesy printed stuff. I also don't really use any of the lower capacity offerings, but here it is:


I can say Rearz Safari is, in my opinion the best diaper on the market, incredibly absorbent, quite thick and a darn cute print. They do run a bit expensive and are probably overkill for what I imagine the average bedwetter voids. If it's something you'd be interested in, they also have a darn cute Princess Pink diaper too.


Bambino sells them, as does the official Rearz website.


Bambino:


Safari https://bambinodiapers.com/rearz-safari-c-22

Princess Pink - https://bambinodiapers.com/rearz-princess-c-23


Rearz:


Safari - http://rearz.ca/product_info.php?products_id=1039&osCsid=goffkmlhejs4uoubotapidahc7


Princess Pink - http://rearz.ca/product_info.php?products_id=1253&osCsid=goffkmlhejs4uoubotapidahc7


ABU has the Space/LittlePawz Diapers that are similar absorbancy and a little cheaper. They offer an all white diaper called Simple if you don't want prints. Preschools might also work for you depending on the absorbancy you need.


Little Pawz:

https://www.abuniverse.com/LittlePawz_p_84.html


Space:

https://www.abuniverse.com/Space_p_71.html


Simple (All White):

https://www.abuniverse.com/Simple_p_78.html


Preschool:

https://www.abuniverse.com/Preschool-ClothBacked_p_166.html


I've not tried them myself, but I do find the print awesome on the Tykables Overnight Diapers, but I've heard good things about them.

https://tykables.com/products/overnights

On the medical diaper side:

Dry 24/7 worked well the last time I tried them (Maybe 2 years ago or so?)

https://www.amazon.com/ConfiDry-24-Absorbency-Diapers-Medium/dp/B00MAPONSS/

Northshore's brand did well too (same timeframe)

https://www.amazon.com/NorthShore-Supreme-Briefs-Medium-Pack/dp/B00NI5A2M0/

who needs a toilet anyway?

https://www.amazon.com/Depend-FIT-FLEX-Incontinence-Underwear-Absorbency/dp/B008RJV0KK?th=1

$30 on Amazon for a 2 month supply. You can't get them anywhere else for cheaper.

That depend's

Something for you to consider.

Just say no to the department store brands! Even if you're considering them for solely cost purposes, there are so many better options on Amazon for practically the same price. I recommend starting with something like Abena and possibly upgrading from there.

As far as wearing in public, only wearing super thick padding or tight pants over it will give it away visually, assuming you can conceal any potential waddle. Wearing undies over diapers to compress them can help, but may take away from their absorbency.

If you're wetting, both smells and leaks can be a concern. While plastic pants may seem like a steep investment for someone just dabbling in the kink, they're the best insurance that neither will become obvious in public. Along the same lines, I find plastic-backed padding will keep the smell of pee contained far better than cloth-backed can.

I would suggest a tranquility Premium pull up style diaper. I've worn these in public and I found them to be very quiet. As for absorbency, two medium-heavy wettings are the most I could manage before these start to leak. That said, I'd go ahead and stand for the second wetting to minimize the chance of leaks. Plus it's like $17 for 18 diapers.
Amazon linkage; http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000FCQKIY/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?qid=1396326726&sr=8-10&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70

I will be buying these to get as much out of it as possible.

You could try the goodnites bedmats mats.

https://www.amazon.com/GoodNites-Disposable-Bed-Mats-Count/dp/B007E500KE/ref=sr_1_cc_1_a_it?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1466029492&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=Goodnites+bedmats


Goodnites also has disposable pull ups for older children.

https://www.amazon.com/Goodnites-Underwear-Boy-Large-11/dp/B00IKGBTZG/ref=sr_1_19_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1466029579&sr=1-19&keywords=Goodnites



They also offer a reusable underwear that uses a disposable insert.

https://www.amazon.com/GoodNites-Underwear-Nighttime-Protection-Disposable/dp/B00HJKP4QY/ref=sr_1_8_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1466029579&sr=1-8&keywords=Goodnites



These all can be purchased at Walmart, target or any store really. Pampers also has under jams that are pull ups for older children and then of course each store will have their store brand bedwetting pull ups mileage may vary on those.



As always make sure to consult with a doctor to make sure there isn't an underlying cause for the bedwetting.

https://www.amazon.ca/NorthShore-Supreme-Briefs-Medium-Pack/dp/B00NI5A2M0/ref=mp_s_a_1_16?ie=UTF8&qid=1538630841&sr=8-16&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65

But these have free shipping 🤣!!!
Seriously though, I'm sorry for your unfortunate shipping situation! Maybe northshore Adam will read this and try to expand his market (i can't remember if he is on here or just adisc so I don't know how to tag him). They are defiantly worth a try but you get rearz that offer some great diapers IMO. I hope someday you get to try northshore diapers because every diaper is worth trying at least once! (I hope i come off as joking and not rude, being rude is no where near my intent!)

Good luck!
And happy diapering!

Edit: found his user name, looking for u/NorthShoreAdam to maybe help this Canadian diaper enthusiast.

I have a really heavy flow, and I recently bought these, Always Discreet Underwear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KXUW72G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glA2xbF9MG8MT

They feel sort of like diapers (a little thinner) and are super comfy and absorbent. They help me feel littler on my period, so maybe you'd like them too??

Abena Abri-Form Comfort Briefs, Medium, M4, 42 Count (3 Packs of 14) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004O9GJ2G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_XbhH92KGl5eBG

These are the ones I order.

Pullups are tough for lying down, they work best for standing/sitting. You might have to experiment a bit to get the right product and size. The two pullups I like are Abena Abri Flex and Tranquility Overnight Underwear, both are comfortable and pretty effective for me (although I'm not actually a bedwetter, I just pretend sometimes). Kind of expensive but not as bad as some premium diapers, and both should hold up for a few nights without wetting which helps. Abena is a bit better in that regard, but they're more expensive to start with so it probably evens out.

I looooove these for during pregnancy they go under the bump so they're super comfy. They run really small so size up if you get them.

Postpartum, I'm wearing these sexy things ooo la la!!

Buy this with some fake piss. It worked for me.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07C5DJ1D8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_lwmiDbD1XQJ72

I think you need to keep a pack of these by your spare tire.

That's how.

A bag of plastic backed M4s are down to $18.08 or $1.29 now.

https://www.amazon.com/Abena-Abri-Form-Comfort-Plastic-Backed/dp/B004GJOB10/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1494888063&sr=1-1&keywords=abena+m4

Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B07F5ZBVSM

And they're more for the Nostalgia feel although they are pretty effective they are very snug on the leg bands. Honestly I think plastic pants as they are nowadays are more effective but if you want something old school for fun I would recommend them they are not that much money. I would definitely order based on your waist size though I went a little bigger and the waistband is not exactly snug.

wow, I didn't know they were discontinued ~ they came through Amazon - Link: http://amzn.com/B000FBXFJ2

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B004GJOB10/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1481566177&sr=8-1&keywords=Abena+m4&pi=SX200_QL40

Try this out, fellow patriot:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B004M3CPDG/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1487249884&sr=8-1&keywords=depends+for+men

That's an excellent start, next try

http://www.amazon.com/Tena-Classic-Adult-Diapers-Large/dp/B002DV7BEW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1381554445&sr=8-1&keywords=tena+adult+diapers

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B004M3CPDG/ref=mp_s_a_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1467333574&sr=8-2&keywords=depends&pi=SY200_QL40

I made good use of these

I split a ball and a ton of liquor between 4 people on a Saturday night/Sunday morning and I had a drug test the following Wednesday and I passed. Just drink a lot of water eat plenty of veggies and pray for the best. If you're not comfortable with that buy fake piss and stick it in one of these https://www.amazon.com/Urine-Bag-Underwear-2X-Large-White/dp/B07C5DJ1D8/ref=asc_df_B07C5DJ1D8/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=344089820809&hvpos=1o1&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11707943659163816159&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9057167&hvtargid=pla-698873016129&psc=1&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=68456165919&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=344089820809&hvpos=1o1&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11707943659163816159&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9057167&hvtargid=pla-698873016129

I did find these that two UC sufferers have had success with these adult diapers but the one guy said he put it on backwards which makes sense:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004M3CPDG

Also I've found this site very useful:
http://umm.edu/health/medical/altmed/condition/crohns-disease http://umm.edu/health/medical/altmed/condition/ulcerative-colitis

I use resolve spray for pet stains Squirt it on there, blot up with a damp rag, no smell no mark.

They make incontenence briefs that look like real briefs if that would help.

If he's day trained, maybe some nighttime "undies" would work? These Huggies ones worked really well for us. If your son is big enough, they might be worth a shot. My son was nowhere near the weight listed for the small but we rarely had leaks. Or if it's the papery feeling he doesn't like maybe cloth bedwetter pants? Though those can get pricey... (EDIT) I almost forgot, I did use cloth inserts in the Huggies undies also.

You may need this

Here you go.

Tena Slip Maxi hold about as much as an Abena M3 and absorb very quickly. They're half as thick as well. In terms of what you can buy on Amazon you may want to try Northshore Supreme and Northshore Lite. Northshore supreme are fairly thick for daytime wear. I don't know what your body type is, but I'm 6'1, fairly skinny, and wear mostly skinny jeans and stuff, those wouldn't work for me during the day (Not discrete). Hence why I use the Tena Slip. The Northshore Lite diapers are thicker than Tena slip and hold less.

Northshore Supreme:
https://www.amazon.com/NorthShore-Supreme-Briefs-Medium-Pack/dp/B00NI5A2M0/ref=sr_1_4_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1518211337&sr=8-4&keywords=northshore%2Bcare&th=1


Northshore Supreme Lite: https://www.amazon.com/NorthShore-Supreme-Lite-Briefs-Medium/dp/B017JBY0B2/ref=sr_1_5_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1518211337&sr=8-5&keywords=northshore+care

Depends, seriously ya sikunt get some depends.

In the future, may I recommend Depend, Tena or maybe Molicare?

I'm about 16 hours into the game. It still scary as hell. You're gonna need this:
http://www.amazon.com/Depend-Absorbency-Underwear-32-Count-Packaging/dp/B004M3CPDG/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1413184173&sr=8-2&keywords=depends

And this to calm down after a scary encounter:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QH2-TGUlwu4

https://www.amazon.com/Tena-Classic-Adult-Diapers-Large/dp/B002DV7BEW

This'll do! While you're on it, you might want to order this too.

I find having to pee to be a problem only if I have 3 periods in row. However, if nature calls, then we must answer it! You can always call your AP to pop in to watch your class for 2 minutes whilst you do your business, or have a tag team with a fellow teacher or two who have off during periods you teach and vice versa. And if the shit really hits the fan (pun intended), between periods, throw all the kids into the hall, lock the door and rush. When I've done that, I've managed to pee and wash hands in under 2 minutes, so I'm back to the classroom before the bell. You find a way to work with it.

Most bosses are not going to berate you or freak out if you have to pee. If they do, time to go job hunting. But if the worst case scenario comes up, I am pretty sure these were developed by teachers because of our bathroom hinderences.

When you say Megamax Supreme, do you mean the NorthShore Megamax ( https://www.amazon.com/Northshore-MegaMax-Tab-Style-Briefs-Medium/dp/B07P88X49H/ref=sr_1_2?crid=25OWXBFJEMHDV&keywords=megamax%2Bdiaper&qid=1574731212&sprefix=megamax%2B%2Caps%2C249&sr=8-2&th=1 ) or the NorthShore Supreme Briefs ( https://www.amazon.com/NorthShore-Supreme-Incontinence-Tab-Style-Briefs/dp/B017HZJJF2/ref=sr_1_4?crid=25OWXBFJEMHDV&keywords=megamax%2Bdiaper&qid=1574731212&sprefix=megamax%2B%2Caps%2C249&sr=8-4&th=1 )?

This
https://www.amazon.com/Northshore-MegaMax-Tab-Style-Briefs-Medium/dp/B07P88X49H/ref=sr_1_2?crid=25OWXBFJEMHDV&keywords=megamax%2Bdiaper&qid=1574731212&sprefix=megamax%2B%2Caps%2C249&sr=8-2&th=1

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When shopping for adult dippers cute is hard to come buy. They sell them at most wall marts (in the tampon section) and they also sell them on amazon here. The only thing about these is they are probably just plain white and not "Cute" like you wanted. You might have to look a bit harder to find those.

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Came across this article yesterday. It's a couple of weeks old, but I thought I'd post it in case it'd been missed.

In the spirit of being helpful to those of you who find it difficult to meet women in the normal fashion, here is a useful link.

I just go ahead and buy a few of these: http://www.amazon.com/NOVA-Medical-Products-Male-Urinal/dp/B003U3CJWQ

Last year I used: http://www.amazon.com/Depend-FIT-FLEX-Incontinence-Underwear-Absorbency/dp/B004M3CPDG/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1463676451&sr=1-2&keywords=depends

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008RJV0KK

You can thank me later.