Hi! I’m back!!
Although I thoroughly intend to write my birth story when I’m ready, I just finished my first piece since the baby arrived so in celebration, I’ll pair it with something useful.

I really appreciated posts like this while I was pregnant so here goes:

Things I didn’t know I needed:
(AKA things I have frantically ordered on amazon at or around 2am)

•Bottle Drying Rack This probably seems obvious, but when we didn’t get this from our showers we were like... idk why we can’t just use a towel??

•Safe way to cosleep My husband built a BEAUTIFUL Sidecar Crib, but it was attached on my side of the bed and it took 2.5 weeks for me to have healed enough to climb in bed around it safely with the baby. This way, I didn’t have to bend over to pick up baby or even spit up to check on/soothe him.

•Lactation Suppliment My lactation consultant approved. This one worked well in my breakfast tea.

•Better flanges My poor nipples were so sore and the flames that come with the Medela... well I’m not sure who they’re supposed to fit but not me. My doula practically ordered these for me. GAME CHANGER.

•Pumping bra I was cutting holes in sports bras. This is better.

•Nipple Shells Another kind reddittor sent me in the direction of this AMAZING INVENTION after I posted a photo of ice packs tied to my nipples with a burp cloth because I refused to wear a shirt my nipples hurt so bad. I will be purchasing these for EVERY PREGNANT WOMAN FOREVER. They keep your nipples dry, collect drips, apply counter pressure to keep your nipples shaped correctly for latching, and most importantly omg nothing touches the precious nips and you can wear a shirt!!

•Car mirror

Me: that seems extra, he’s in a car seat and safe why would I need a mirror??

Hormones; HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH YOU FOOL

•Car adapter for my breast pump Cheaper than batteries

•Shade for his side of the car because anything that wakes up my sleeping baby is the devil. This one has a bonus that allowed me to roll the window down and it was HOT in the south

•Better suction for the breast pump Again- just better than whatever they send you

•My Breast Friend we got the boppy but this one saved my back

•Heating pad Turns out I’ll do ANYTHING to keep the baby asleep when I transfer him to his crib including preheat the darn thing (on low!) before I lay home down

•Stroller Caddy You’ll want somewhere to put your keys, phone, and coffee

•Baby K’tan An easier way for my husband to wear the baby.

•Leggings I had a pair of these before, and they are SO COMFORTABLE on my postpartum body that I bought 5 more in different colors!

•Extra pump parts for whichever pump you have

•A hands-up swaddle I found at Target

•Wine.

Anyway, hope this helps! Best of luck to all of you!

If you are breastfeeding/pumping I LOVED this pumping bra. I would pump at night while washing dishes or bottles. Lol. Made life easy. I also agree with the above comments- nose frida snot sucker is amazing and I LOVE my ergo!

Simple Wishes Hands-Free Breastpump Bra, Pink, XS-L https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_0.ayub008Y9KQ

I bought these on a whim because my underwear was all getting too tight and I didn't feel like going to a store and trying to figure out what would last me through pregnancy etc. They are comfy and stay in place, so I like them. I'm not used to wearing full butt underwear, though, and they are which isn't exactly what I was expecting when I ordered them. I still find them comfy, though.

It was for me, the elastic waists became superrrr uncomfortable early on just from bloating and it didn’t get any better as the bump grew.


I got these from amazon and have been very happy with them. Intimate Portal Women Under The Bump Maternity Panties Pregnancy Underwear 5-pk Plain Multicolor Medium https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LYUE444/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_IpVzCbHMGFQ6P

Can't recommend the Simple Wishes pumping bra enough. I just pull up my shirt, unclip or pull down whatever I have on as a bra or undershirt, and zip the bra on. It takes like ten seconds and allows me to get a ton of work done while pumping. It's around $30 and has held up really well for me. They sell the same one at Target (branded as Lansinoh) but it doesn't come with the extra extender thing included like the Amazon one does.

When my SIL had her baby a month after I had mine, she unexpectedly had to start exclusively pumping her first week PP, and I bent over backwards to deliver her one of these bras the day she started. That's how essential it is to me! She bought a second one the next day.

Aside from pumping bras, you could also consider Pumpin' Pals. They allow you to lean back when you're pumping instead of having to awkwardly hunch forward. I haven't tried them myself but I've heard good things.

I’m 10 months postpartum and a 30G and I sooo feel you. That said, here are the two bras that worked for me!

Wacoal Women's Maternity Contour... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06WWHJTG3?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Freya Women's Pure Uw Moulded... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JUPMJPA?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I also recommend this wraparound bra for pumping (it goes over any existing bra or just over your boobs and is super adjustable) instead of a dedicated pumping bra, if you end up doing that:

Simple Wishes Signature Hands... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Good luck and congrats on your baby!!

Hmmm...double pump, electric or manual? If electric, totally buy this...I used it ALL the time at work!!

Have you tried a pumping bra? It holds me up and in place and theres no wiggle room for the flanges.

I use this one. https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Signature-Patented-XS-Large/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?keywords=pumping%2Bbra&qid=1558913714&s=gateway&sprefix=pumping&sr=8-4&th=1&psc=1

I'm so sorry it's been so hard.

I ended up buying these (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072B8X4G2/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_w0.NAb1W3SXR3 ) underwear from amazon based on another thread on here. I have no idea what size your wife would be, but they worked great for me all the way through the end of pregnancy.

Something that can help with the lack of belly support from your dresses is a belly band. Its basically just the support piece of your maternity pants/legging that you can wear anytime. It might help a bit with extending the life of your dresses :)

Here is one I found after a quick search on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B007T993US/ref=mp_s_a_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1474984746&sr=1-5&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&dpPl=1&dpID=41-MkFrEXBL&ref=plSrch

I also had a difficult time breastfeeding so I switched to exclusive pumping. My son is now 13 months old, and I still pump. I have a few tips which might help.

1 - she needs to have a good pumping bra in order to leave her hands-free. I didn't know this at the beginning and spent so much time holding the pump flanges for 20+ minutes at a time, while hurting my hands because you have to keep them still to retain suction. Now, I pump while I'm eating dinner, on the computer, while feeding my son a bottle of pumped milk, or even while traveling in the car. This is the bra that I use and its great. It's got velcro in the back and holds well. I could not have made it without this bra. I can still pump while holding my 13 month old son, using this bra (though its awkward!)

2 - The first 3 months is when supply gets solidified, so be very sure what she wants to do before dropping pumps. Its more difficult to reestablish a supply than continue a good one, of course. But its always an option to supplement with formula, which I did as well.

3 This board is for exclusive pumpers and it is insanely active hah. Any questions posted there will get a very quick response.

Its tough but consider pumping at least twice a day to keep giving your baby the antibodies - apparently if you pump less, the concentration of antibodies is higher.

Spectra hands down. Pretty much any cups will work with the right adapters. Any pump combo can be hands free with a bra designed for pumping (there are lots with specific folds to hold the flanges.
I just put this on top after I loosened my bra and pulled it up: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_lbCkDbN5GX2V5

I don't think Freemie is quite as covert as intended, more so than others, but I wouldn't buy it just to be hands free.

I exclusively pumped for a year! My boy was born at 37 weeks and just wasn’t big enough to get a good latch, so I began pumping when his weight gain wasn’t where it should be. Here’s some tips that kept my sanity throughout that year.

1. Join an exclusive pumpers support group. There are several very good ones on Facebook.
   
2. Invest in a good pumping bra. This was my favorite.
   Simple Wishes Signature Hands Free Pumping Bra, Patented, Pink, X-Small/Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_py8IDbNKRZTJM
   
3. Pump at the same intervals that you are feeding the babe. It will be exhausting in the beginning, but as you drop feedings, you will drop pumps and it will be more manageable.
   
4. Sunflower lecithin is a miracle worker if you get a stubborn clog.
   
   You can do this! Best of luck!

I live in Ontario and we're gearing up for either very cold, or very wet this year too. I have a great jacket as it is so I bought an extender for it from zipusin on amazon. It's great and I don't have to buy a new coat.

Zip Us In Jacket Expander Panel – Turn Your own Jacket into a Maternity Jacket https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B071GRS2QR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_J9kXBbK6FBC4E

This is the best one ever
Simple Wishes Signature Hands Free Pumping Bra, Patented, Soft Pink, XS-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_5KKIAbSGEWVYK

Gah that pisses me off to no end. "Oh here, fight for our country and enjoy your shitty benefits"...

I had the pump in style. Whatever you do, get a double electric pump, and a pumping band. Lets you go hands free while you pump so you can surf the interwebs, etc - this lets you distract yourself from the actual process and relax, letting your milk pump easier.

I use this one u/yourenomatch

Simple Wishes Signature Hands Free Pumping Bra, Patented, Pink, XS-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_8pUZCbEX0NM4Z

these

I’ve lived in these since my last pregnancy. The band extenders come in especially handy since your rib cage will expand. No underwire, removeable cups, nursing access for after baby comes, and they are comfortable enough to sleep in. Cheap too. In my experience they just grow and grow and grow 😳

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We started doing a bottle feeding every night or every other night at about three weeks (that way we were far enough in to avoid nipple confusion). I currently work full time and my husband is a stay at home dad. My baby nurses while I'm home and takes my milk from a bottle when I'm at work.

When you introduce the bottle, make sure your husband is the only one feeding her with it (you're not even around). If the baby sees you, smells you, etc. it might be much more difficult. Have him switch which sides he feeds baby on, and take little breaks so the baby can process feeling full. Only use slowflow nipples (you should never need to use bigger ones).

Here's my pumping and feeding system:

I get up early and pump for about 30 min. while I eat breakfast (I have a double pump with this, it is a big time saver). I get ready for work and then I wake her up to nurse before I leave. She goes back to bed, I go to work, and dad feeds her my pumped milk during the day. (She drinks about 18 oz while I'm gone.)

I pump at work during my lunch hour. When I get home I pump before I feed her. Then I feed her pretty much all evening.

So three prolonged pumping sessions supply her with her daily milk. On the weekends I freeze the extra (just in case it's needed).

I think it's important to pump in the morning--you will probably wake up with lots! Also, pumping BEFORE you feed her can be really helpful--the pump will only get the most readily available milk, and your baby will be able to get the deeper reserves. Plus, that will stimulate increased milk production. I know some moms who get up at night to pump if their baby sleeps through the night. Check out kellymom.com.

Simple Wishes Hands-Free Breastpump Bra, Pink, X-Small-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_0SjzzbVG33MGN

La-Reve Hands-Free Nursing Pumping Bra - Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra- Breastpump Bra - Pumping Bra Cotton - The Perfect Gift for Every Mother,Light Pink,Large Plus https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06ZZVSQZM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_UTjzzbJBKJ5XK

These are the two I have.

My biggest cheap maternity clothes wins so far have come on Amazon.

Fleece-lined tights (basically socially-acceptable sweatpants), 6 for $30. Not maternity-specific, but I'm 25 weeks and still have plenty of room to grow in these. Have literally just rotated through these every day for the last 4 months. Tights link.

Nursing bras, 3 for $30. Got this pro tip from a girlfriend, you'll probably need nursing bras anyway and they're comfy and stretchy enough for maternity boobs. No more underwires near these titties! Nursing bras.

I have these: https://www.amazon.com/Gratlin-Underwire-Non-Padded-Maternity-Nursing/dp/B00D3HUQOC/ref=sr_1_24?ie=UTF8&qid=1505912469&sr=8-24&keywords=nursing+bra+lace

And these for night:
https://www.amazon.com/CAKYE-Womens-Nursing-Sleep-Maternity/dp/B01B9DGSLG/ref=sr_1_17?ie=UTF8&qid=1505912457&sr=8-17&keywords=nursing+bra

Going on a year now wearing both.

I like the Gratlin ones - I wear them as a normal bra now from time to time. It's comfortable, stretchy enough that when your boobs are like really full because the kid is in a 'sleep more' rather than 'eat more' mood or something that the bra isn't squeezing and uncomfortable. Also has held up really well, and I throw it in the wash with my other laundry because I'm super lazy about laundry and then hang to dry.

Definitely both. I also work 3 days a week. My baby only nurses from one side at a time (usually), but I always pump both using a handsfree bra (Simple wishes, https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00295MQLU/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1487347575&sr=8-1&keywords=hands+free+pumping+bra). These days at 10 months, I can often get away with only pumping once during my 8 hours work day. Especially since she always wants to nurse a bunch right when I get home.

So I feed my 3 month old daughter at about 5:30-6:00AM. I usually leave my house around 7:00. I've been power pumping the last few days to increase my pumping output (20 min on, 10 min rest, 10 min on, 10 rest, 10 on, and quit) but normally I would only pump 20-25 minutes. After that first pump of the day I pump at 11:00 for 25 min and then again at 3:00 for 25 min. Those sessions usually get me enough milk for the next day at daycare (four 4 oz bottles so total of 16 ounces). I'm going to start pumping right before bed to maybe work up a little stash! The car pump gets me the most output since it's earlier in the morning.

I have the Spectra S2. I really like it. I think it retails around $300 in the US if insurance wouldn't buy it. If you are committed to pumping while at work I would definitely invest in a dual, hospital grade pump. My pumping bra is this one. When I'm ready to pump I just pull my shirt and bra up and strap on the pumping bra. So far I have no complaints! I have yet to find a pumping bra I would wear in replacement of a real bra.

When pumping make sure to have the correct fitting breast flanges! That's really important. Mine were too small and my supply started dropping just after a week. The correct fitting ones make a big difference in comfort and output.

Umm... DRINK all the water and EAT all the food!

That's kind of a review of my setup :)

I'm the same size as you and these bras from Amazon in size large are perfect:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01EFNPD7W/ref=yo_ii_img?ie=UTF8&psc=1

They're the same style that Motherhood Maternity sells, but much cheaper! And they're super comfy.

iLoveSIA 3pack Nursing Bra https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00YGSECLA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_tVoGybVTPT6V3

Hopefully that link works!

FWIW, I am a 36DD (or larger) and a size Large fits me fine, with room to get bigger. :)

I've nursed my twins for 16 months now (and pumped at work for months 3-11). Here's my thoughts:

Bottles: I got tommee tippee. Medela makes bottles for the pump you can pump right into. My girls loved them, but they drank the milk SO FAST. Even the "slow flow" nipples were way too much. Everyone told me to get so many bottles but we were fine with about 10 between the two of them. I'd get no more than a couple of any brand to try before committing.

Formula: You don't need more than a small can on hand. It goes pretty far if you're just using it to supplement. They also sell these ready to use "nursettes" that just come with a disposable nipple you can screw on. This is probably what they'll have at the hospital. Depending on the hospital you can probably also get them to send a couple of packs of it home if you ask. Super convenient.

Pump: You need a pumping bra. Life changing. I had this and loved it. Also Lasinoh makes great bags that are great for storing/transporting the milk and cheaper and tougher than the medela bags.

Other: You might want to get some of the cheap nursing tanks that you can wear under any kind of shirt. Then you can just wear regular clothes out and about, and lift up the outer layer and pop down the tank without having to expose post-baby stomach.

Other than that, it's kind of personal preference. I never used lanolin or nursing pads, despite buying a ton. I leaked for the first two weeks and then never again. And I ended up liking a throw pillow better than any of the big nursing pillows.

Good luck! The book "Work. Pump. Repeat" is a fun informative read for those of us who like to be over-prepared ;)

Anita makes some nursing bras that might work for you and are available on Amazon. Their sizing is a bit different from UK sizing, so you'll want to try the 32H and 32I, I think.

This one is currently $33 in white/32H: http://www.amazon.com/Anita-Maternity-Microfiber-Nursing-5068/dp/B0011ZX6JU/

Not related to this specific pump but the postpartum nurse at my birth/childcare/breastfeeding/all the things class said to buy a hands free pumping bra like this guy - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_oth_api_7MTeAbVQEZMCY

She also mentioned to bring it to the hospital, not sure if that’s a thing you need to do but thought I would pass the info along. I’m thinking about the S2 as well.

https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Portal-Maternity-Pregnancy-Multicolor/dp/B01M0SRH70/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1564758465&sr=1-1&pi=SL140_CR0,0,140,180_QL70

Not so much to comment on the one side but more your mention of a free hand. I use this (sorry for the crappy link formatting): Simple Wishes Hands-Free Breastpump Bra, Pink, X-Small-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_byB3xb2GRK7WF

It works really well and I feel like one of those stock photo moms pumping and using my laptop at the same time.

I got these "under the bump" style panties off Amazon and I've been really happy with them so far. I only have one baby so I'm sure I'm not nearly as large as you are, especially since I'm not as far along, so YMMV but I've been very happy with these panties. For me they sit enough below my bump that they aren't rolling at the top and such like my other undies are.

Bonus: I could still see myself wearing these undies after pregnancy assuming my weight doesn't change too much and such.

I bought these bras while pregnant and they've served me very well as a BF mom. I wear one to work and unclip it to put my hands-free pumping bra on over it.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00YGSECLA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_I6-XBbWM2E7PS

Start pumping when your baby is about 2 weeks old. Just try to get in one pumping session per day. Some days you won't pump at all and that's totally fine. Goal is to build something of a freezer stash before you go back to work so there's less pressure on you to keep up with the baby.

And take care of yourself. I'm currently trying to figure out how to do this because breastfeeding and working is hard. Worth it, but hard. Currently considering how to work a monthly massage into my schedule... Wish me luck.

My fav bras right now are nursing bras I bought on Amazon. They are super supportive.

Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size L, 3PCS/Pack(Pink-Black-Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_.Tm1Cb68QXZCX

I love my Spectra -- well as much as one can love a machine that sucks your nipples. I started pumping in the hospital with a Medela Symphony, and I get so much more milk with the Spectra.

I exclusively pumped for several weeks while LO was getting the hang of latching, so here are some tips:

I'd recommend getting a power invertor so you can pump in the car if you ever need to. I have this one from Amazon and it works great.

Prepare a "pump bag" to hold all your supplies -- hands-free bra (I have the Simple Wishes bra), pump, storage bags and bottles, permanent marker to label storage bags, a little container of olive oil to lube up my flanges (helps to prevent rubbing), small kitchen rags to wipe up milk, extra pump parts, etc. I use an LL Bean tote bag to transport everything.

In between pumps, I store all my pump parts in a gallon ziploc bag and stick it in the fridge so I don't have to wash them after every pump.

I can't say enough good things about the Bravado Seamless Nursing Bra. The are so comfy and completely hide nursing pads when I wear them. I am one that is self conscious when my nips show through my bra and shirts and this bra makes the ladies look good. :)

For a sleeping bra, I recently came across the Kindred Bravely on Amazon. While I haven't tried it myself, it is nice to see that though it's S/M/L sizing, there is a Regular and Busty option, and it has really good reviews.

Have to use a pumping bra or hold it. This one is great and you can Velcro adjust the size to whatever size you need for it. Stick the breast shields in and then you are hands free.
Simple Wishes Signature Hands Free Pumping Bra, Patented, Pink, XS-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_LZfYCb7DSY7CE

Non-mobile: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005MT0MD4/ref=mp_s_a_1_sc_1?qid=1427799706&sr=8-1-spell&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70&keywords=curaid+pregnancy+support

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Weekend was good -- we are mostly prepped for the big kitchen reno to start on Wednesday! My phone legit died yesterday -- I had to print directions to a super bowl party (still got lost) and MrC worked on it for a few hours but it's dunzo. So another one ordered from Amazon.

Shout-out to whoever recommended these maternity bras on amazon! They arrived in time for me to be in comfort all day yesterday. Hooray! I was a 32DD before pregnancy, the medium works (though I may need to go up to a large by the time I'm done cooking).
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00YGSECLA/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I got these in a size L and think they are great so far. I wasn’t large chested pre-pregnancy, so was more into brallettes and these felt like a good transition. Was 34b now a 36c-d.

Important to note-still pregnant. So don’t know how they work for nursing per se (clip convenience, etc) but they do give good support. I was just too big for my regular bras, didn’t see the point in buying maternity then nursing bras, so I just went straight to the nursing bras.

These are the exact ones I got, they look the same but different brand than your link : https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00YGSEHC4?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf.

Same exact stats as you starting out and I feel exactly the same! I’m 21w and have been pretty active and have still managed to gain 20lbs at this point. Someone told me my face looked thinner, but my chest is huge, like 34I huge...
I’m sure you don’t look as bad at you think! You’re just used to looking different. Just try to keep your head up and stay as active as you can(easier said than done I know!). You’re growing a tiny human and you’ll lose it afterward!

Edit:
Ladies try these, they are decently supportive, comfy, and fit large breasts (34I and able to fit a medium): Bravado Designs Womens' Body Silk Seamless Nursing Bra - Butterscotch - Medium https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000YQJD3U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_BNlKAb6TFZX8M

You mention holding the pumps - have you tried using a pumping bra? Like this one https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-X-Small-Large/dp/B00295MQLU

Would something like this work for you?

Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size L, 3PCS/Pack(Pink-Black-Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_k47CAZ42NSfWs

It's what I've been using. 32 B pre pregnancy, 34 C ish when I delivered/when I'm full of milk. They're pretty comfy and super reasonable. The pads come out if you want. I started with them in but got annoyed with folding them down to pump or let little man eat.

I'm using the Medela Pump in Style and love it. I also got their personal fit shields for pumping because I couldn't get anything out with the regular sized ones. I've even used it in the car on road trips with the battery option so we didn't have to stop for 40 minutes every three hours so I could breastfeed. I use a hands free pump bra too.

You can use other bottles with the Medela pump. When my son was swallowing too much air with the Medela bottles and nipples we got Dr. Brown bottles and I pump directly into those. Most bottles have the same threads on them so you can screw them onto the pump.

I loved this one https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Signature-Pumping-XS-Large/dp/B00295MQLU?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B00295MQLU&pd_rd_r=2RMB5H1JWEQAG9GH5BK1&pd_rd_w=llzKH&pd_rd_wg=hk1WU&psc=1

Not the most delicate thing but great for my size D’s

Ok so there’s this nursing bra hack that works in a pinch, I’ve also heard about cutting holes in a sports bra. I’ve bought this bra from amazon and it’s pretty good. I want to buy the kindred bravely nursing/pump bra when I go back to work though.

http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-XS-L/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=sr_1_31?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1409926284&sr=1-31&keywords=medela

I wear the same size as you, and love these ones.

https://www.amazon.com/Bravado-Designs-Essential-Embrace-Nursing/dp/B00DZU6SNA?ie=UTF8&keywords=bravado%20nursing%20bra&qid=1459199215&ref_=sr_1_5&sr=8-5

Fist - she shoudl 100% get a belly band. the bellaband is somewhat pricey, but offers lots of support. They make one out of thinner material that sells at target for cheaper, adn there are tons of people who make and sell them on ebay.

This is perfect for initial can't-fit-into-pants stage, because you leave the pants unbuttoned, wear this over the top, and it looks like a layered-tank. I also wore them every day during the last trimester, to stop what I called "belly cleavage" where the belly was exposed underneath since my shirt hung straight down. You couldn't see my belly because the shirts were wrong, but its not comfortable to have your stomach be exposed to air at work... it just feels wrong.

Also, these are pretty great for after the baby is born but before you are back in your regular clothes again.

Second, I loved Gap maternity pants, because I wear "longs" and that was very hard to find. I actually got some really great maternity pants on ebay, which I highly recommend. You can get some cute stuff that is in style but people don't want to hold on to because they never plan on wearing it again. Consignment shops also - check the local kids resale shop because those often have a maternity section as well.

Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size XL https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPF20/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_ghJeo9TC6yS1a

These are what I bought and I love them

What maternity clothes have you tried? For pants: the ones with stretch sides might be up your alley. They're the same as pre-preg sizes but have stretchy material for expansion on the sides. Or, you could also try a band like this on your regular pants, unzipped.

For tops, I was wearing maternity shirts with ruched sides even when I barely had a bump (and it's still not huge at 24 weeks). They're still fitted in my regular pre-preg size, but just have room to grow. I have some from Destination Maternity, and others from Target.

Here's a commercial one for comparison https://www.amazon.ca/Zip-Us-Jacket-Expander-Panel/dp/B071GRS2QR/ref=asc_df_B071GRS2QR/?tag=googlemobshop-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=292939677801&hvpos=1o2&hvnetw=g&hvrand=18127474411696935440&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9000907&hvtargid=pla-638683671552&psc=1

I bought this one http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-XS-L/dp/B00295MQLU it is basically one size fits all. It was super easy to put on. Size adjusts by a really sturdy velcro then I could just leave it velcro to my size and take it on and off by a zipper on the front. It has 4.5 stars on Amazon.

I use the Medela Pump in Style Advance (free through my insurance). Are you going to be pumping due to a return to work? The version my insurance provided doesn't include the extras that came with the PISA when my sister purchased hers in 2011 (prior to Obamacare), like the backpack, the battery pack, the cooler bag, and freezer pack. My sister gave me hers, so I use all of these things and would recommend purchasing them or something like them if you will be pumping at work.

I also recommend a Simple Wishes hands free pumping bra. My lactation consultant recommended watching this video to learn tips about maximizing production: http://newborns.stanford.edu/Breastfeeding/MaxProduction.html, and I use these techniques throughout my pumping sessions every day.

I pump twice a day at work - at 10am and 2pm - for 20 minutes each time, not including set up and take down time. I keep my milky pump parts in a gallon ziplock bag in a mini fridge (that I bought on sale at Best Buy for $99) behind my desk after the morning pump session. Since they are refrigerated, I don't have to go rinse or wash them in the communal office kitchen sink between pumping sessions. I take them home every night and wash in hot, soapy water, and then I sterilize them in the Medela sterilizing bags in the microwave. I let them dry overnight on the Boon grass lawn drying racks. I have multiple sets of pump parts and bottles because sometimes they don't fully dry overnight. I also wash and reuse the ziplocks, but I plan on replacing them with PlanetWise clear storage bags (which are top rack dishwasher safe) to reduce waste. I keep one complete set of extra pump parts and bottles in my desk at work just in case I forget something - it's already saved me once!

To stimulate let down at work, I bring a slightly used burp cloth that smells like baby (smell is one of your strongest senses!), I watch videos or look at pictures of baby, and it sounds weird, but I close my eyes and visualize my hungry baby. The visualization plus the smell of the burp cloth does it almost every time.

Please let me know if you have any more specific questions!

ETA: My daughter was 20 weeks when I went back to work and she only took 5-8oz the first week at daycare, but I think that was just her adjusting to the transition. Now she takes between 10-14oz on average. I usually pump about 12-13oz. I built up a small freezer stash before going back to work just in case she outpaces me.

This one worked for me.

I loved these Hofish ones when I was pregnant and also love them now for breastfeeding (although I’ve now replaced the pads in them with some bamboobies pads).

Instead of the Bravado Body Seamless, I'd recommend the Bravado Essential Embrace bc the latter comes in cupsizes instead of S/M/L. It thus fits way better.

https://www.amazon.com/Bravado-Designs-Essential-Embrace-Nursing/dp/B00DZU6SNA/

Apart from that, measureing yourself sounds like a good plan.

Sure! I wanted to wait until after baby was here to invest in good nursing bras as I know my size will probably change so I didn't mind going the cheap route for the last few weeks.

Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size L, 3PCS/Pack(Pink-Black-Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_vTQqzbPRVB3SN

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01B9DGSLG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_d6nLybY7Y0QX1
My MIL bought me these off of my registry, I opened them early and absolutely love them. I'm a 38C, and the large fits pretty well, a little big but SO COMFY.

Elomi Smoothing is the only model I can think of that fits almost all your criteria. Elila has a similar style that starts at a 36 band; but since the major brand review/complaint is their bands run firm, it might work. Freya Pure is a molded nursing bra with flexi-wires that might be worth a try; the Cake Croissant is a similar construction, but both are a bit above your desired price point.

If you're willing to compromise on the molded aspect, the Panache Sophie has amazing support for a wireless. Royce and Cake also offer a plethora of wireless nursing styles.

I like stretchy underwire free bras because the structured ones never seem to fit for more than a day for me with changing breasts. I am a 36 DD and love these. iLoveSIA 3pack Nursing Bra They stretch, are padded, and you can nurse and sleep in them. My only issue is they have a higher neck and I don't love my shape in them. But they make the girls and my nursling happy.

My Panache Sophie nursing bras seem to be quite shallow: http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Sophie-Nursing-Bra/dp/B00FEFYUI4

Simple Wishes Hands-Free Pumping Bra

I used this one I bought on Amazon. ORT22300D - Medline Curad Maternity Belt sizes 4 to 14 (Medium) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005MT0MD4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_jzWSzb4HJMJ7G
It worked for me. There are many other brands that make similar ones that you can choose from too.

Busty, nursing mom chiming in. You actually would have more versatility than I do(smaller cup than me: but these two are my favorite:

Soft French Terry Nursing Sleep Bra for Maternity / Breastfeeding (Medium-Busty, Grey) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01J27DGMU/ref=cm_sw_r_fm_apap_dsQGQXjRbQucz

Royce Lingerie Women's Blossom Candy Stripe Nursing Bra, Pink/Cream, 34G/GG/H https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EV5NOE8/ref=cm_sw_r_fm_apap_EBUYKCFqJPnBV

I'm not sure you can get them on amazon.ca but that Royce bra especially is so awesome for changing bust size. If you love it and can't get it I'd be willing to order it on my prime account and ship it to you at cost.

> It's pretty nice. I have this one. Pretty comfy for an underwire bra, good support, and the inside of the cup seems to be lined with a material that would stop light leaking (though I haven't tested this so don't quote me). I actually got mine on eBay for about half the price (new!).

~ /u/bananasmcgee

My favorite bras are also the stretchy ones from Target. I think the brand was Medela Basics. I tried ordering a different Medela line from Amazon and it just wasn't the same :(

The closest I have come to that nice stretchy Target bra is this from Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPF20/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_2xfsyb5D5FY3A

Honestly, I don't know my bra size anymore, but I was a D before getting pregnant and the XL works great for me. If you take the silly pads out, this bra is very similar to the Target one.

After I did a bunch of research and talked to other full time working Mamas, I ended up with the Medela Freestyle- I love it. It's a double pump electric and a rechargeable battery. So, just my $.02.

But, other advice, seriously La Leche saved me as well, I went to a few meetings before hand and when I had some problems, I had numbers to call and helping voices to guide me through.

The other thing I HIGHLY recommend is getting a hands-free bustier. I got this one (http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-XS/dp/B00295MQLU) and love it. I can work on the computer, walk around my office, whatever while pumping. And, you can just use it over your nursing bra, so you don't even have to get naked in the office. Worth it. Good luck!

Nah, I'm 21 weeks and wearing nursing bras 24/7. This is my favorite. It even comes with band extenders. I also recommending using the bra size calculator linked at r/abrathatfits and measuring yourself if you haven't been professionally sized. I've worn a 36DD for years, turns out I'm more like a 34J. The difference is night and day.

You can buy hands free pumping bras (or modify one of your own bras) to hold the flanges in place.

This is the one that I've used in the past -> http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-X-Small-Large/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1452609659&sr=8-3&keywords=pumping+bra

I bought this Belevation one and like it. I don't wear it a ton because I wear leggings for added warmth under maternity pants and then tank top and shirt and find that's enough layers of support. But if I wear regular sweatpants at home, I wear my band. Might start wearing it at night too when I get bigger.
Belevation Womens Maternity Support Belly Band Medium Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007T993US/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awd_.WGLwb3NKXXGR

I always fed for about 15-20 minutes on one breast and then swapped him to the other and fed for another 10-15 minutes, then pumped both. I found if I didn't, I tended to get uncomfortable and leaky before he was hungry again.

Also, originally I thought it was a waste of money, as they're not cheap, but a good hands free pumping bra is a blessing. It lets you actually do things while you pump, even if 'things' is just play a game on your phone or eat lunch, otherwise you're stuck there holding the flanges on your boobs, which is a pain. I kind of felt like a cow in a milking bay, but the extra 15 minutes I had to do things was so useful I dealt with it. :)

I liked this one from Amazon. I think like most parenting, it's trial and error and trying to work out what works best for you and your baby. There are very few 'right' answers. :)

I got the Mini Cradle from Amazon. I'm a size 16 prepregnancy and have a 49" belly right now (wow) at 26 weeks. I fit into the middle rung on the size M well. I do remember going up to the last set of hooks at the end of my last pregnancy.

This one is the bare minimum (I don't know if it would qualify as having "back support"). However it took a lot of the strain off my lower back. I feel more morning sick if I have too much pressure on my tummy, and this was supportive and the smallest width I could find. It helped a lot, I have a screwy back already from scoliosis so it was great to have less weight on my lower back. I just used the same one through my 2nd and 3rd trimesters.

It's You Babe Mini Cradle, Medium (181-225 Pounds) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000I5UASY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_ds9Izb5QF9KJM

I haven't went back to work yet. However I would recommend trying to start a stash asap. I had one. He had about a 4 day period where he decided he didn't want to latch and I ended up using the stash along with some formula till he decided he wanted the breast again. Also get one of the hands free breast pump bras. http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-XS-L/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1376553134&sr=8-1&keywords=nursing+pump+bra

purchase a hands free pumping bra (http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU) i feel like all breast pumps should come with one, but they don't and it's a must have.

if it's a possibility that someone might bust in on you while you are pumping, get a nursing cover too. i got one as a hand me down and i don't think ill use it while nursing but it would come in handy while pumping.

I always need something to hold them on. Especially if the bottles get kind of full and heavy. Sometimes shoving them in my bra works, sometimes not. This is my favorite style: Simple Wishes Signature Hands Free Pumping Bra, Patented, Pink, XS-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_isiYCbTN4AGSQ

This one is a good style too: LactaMed Simplicity Hands Free Bra Kit - Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JAO6TT8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_yuiYCb4EXTT9V

This one didn't work as well for me when the bottles got heavy: BRAVADO! DESIGNS Women's Maternity Clip and Pump Hands-Free Nursing Bra Accessory, Dove Heather https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NCO9OY8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_duiYCbCP16VSQ

Also cutting holes in a sports bra works, especially if you need one now but it was a pain to get on/off, and I pump multiple times a day, every day, so I got a dedicated pump bra.

The best thing I did was get a hands free pumPing bra. I use this one http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00295MQLU?pc_redir=1395426222&robot_redir=1 and I'm pumping right now. It's still awkward to hold him but not impossible like it would be otherwise.

working moms love it!

I have this one and really like it: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B005MT0MD4/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I just got some a few weeks ago, maybe at 33 weeks and I do not regret it! My current size is on the smaller end of the spectrum for the size I ordered, so I think they should still be good for when my boobs get even bigger. I've started wearing them every day just because they're so comfy and now I realize how much my boob pain was directly attributed to my too small regular bras. I got these ones on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07NL4RHMG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s03?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00YGSEHC4/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s05?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I got these, but a size or two up from normal. They aren't the softest cotton, but they are insanely more comfortable than non-maternity underwear. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072B8X4G2/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

It really depends on the type of problems you are having. Diastases issue? The recommendation is a standard pregnancy belt. If you are having pelvic and sacral instability then an SI belt is probably recommended. They do make a modified verson of the two molded into one such as this one. Hope that helps a bit.

I actually have a form of both. Feel free to PM me if you have more questions.

Glow baby app - for tracking feedings and diapers

Homedics white sound machine - https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00A2JBMRE/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1505880814&sr=8-1&keywords=homemedics+sound+spa&dpPl=1&dpID=41Xw0JM%2BQTL&ref=plSrch

Dock-a-tot - http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/dockatot-deluxe-stage-1-docking-sleeper-cover/4662774?country=US&currency=USD&cm_mmc=google-_-productads-_-35855567173__Mobile-_-11818531&rkg_id=h-30603855272c5233e6ce06142c5dc9de_t-1505880918&adpos=1o2&creative=158291011678&device=m&network=g&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgIPOBRDnARIsAHA1X3SyMFJsYKPwyoh7O1haBK1n2mCEKdU7unwjr1IDaRRjPK6to7BimJ4aAl49EALw_wcB


Skip-hop portable changing station - https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00B7XUVOE/ref=mp_s_a_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1505880850&sr=8-3&keywords=skip+hop+changing+pad&dpPl=1&dpID=51%2BEyoWIU-L&ref=plSrch

Nursing sleeping bras - https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01B9DGSLG/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1505881359&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=nursing+sleeping+bra&dpPl=1&dpID=510iJRvdIUL&ref=plSrch

Seconding this. Also invest in a hands-free pumping bra (I have this one: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00295MQLU). You'll express more when pumping both breasts at the same time than you would if you pumped each breast individually. Plus, what's the point of shelling out for a double pump if you can't us it to double pump?

I also exclusively pump. I do both sides at the same time, because when I was breastfeeding he would eat off both sides each time. I make sure to pump every time my LO gets a bottle. I find that a pumping bra (such as this one) is useful for letting me multitask when pumping. I use a boppy pillow to prop my LO up after feeding (once he was a few weeks old) so he can be next to me while I pump. I can interact with him and make sure he’s happy. He’s not a fan of lying flat on his back.

Feel free to message me if you have any questions!

I have this one: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B005MT0MD4/ref=mp_s_a_1_sc_1?qid=1427799706&sr=8-1-spell&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70&keywords=curaid+pregnancy+support

It's kind of a hassle sometimes and bulky, but it has helped me with both upper and lower back pain, and with pain in my legs. Sometimes I feel like it isn't doing that much, and then I take it off and realize how much heavier my belly feels.

I got these and they are really nice, cute colors, good price, and are well-made:

https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Portal-Maternity-Panties-Multicolor/dp/B01LYUE444/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1485092314&sr=1-1&nodeID=7141123011&keywords=intimate+portal+maternity

The catch is that for these and the other amazon ones already posted, you really need to order 1-2 sizes up minimum. The ones I got were manufactured in Asia and their size 2XL was equivalent to Hanes M or L in my experience. Hope this helps! <3

Motherhood makes a few nice nursing tops. If you have the $$$ to spend, the company Seraphine has amazing nursing clothes. Best peice of advice I can give... get 2-4 very cheep nursing bras like this....

Soft French Terry Nursing Sleep Bra for Maternity / Breastfeeding (Medium-Busty, Grey) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01J27DGMU/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_4hgBybFBDCJFA

Give your body about 2-3 months to adjust, then try something with more structure. Your boobs are going to change a lot, so don't spend money on expensive nursing bras without letting everything settle frist. Also, I would stock up on bamboobies. God they are so soft and don't rip your nipples apart when you're cracked and bleeding the first couple of weeks. Love their nipple cream too.

If these are the ones you're talking about on Amazon, I bought them. They're not particularly attractive, but they're comfortable and supportive. I'm a 36C heading towards D now, for reference- I think if I was much bigger, I would need more support. I also think the pads will get a little bumpy as I keep washing them, but I'm going to switch them out for nursing pads soon anyway so I'm not too concerned. For $25 bucks, they work and like another bumper said, I don't want to spend too much money till my milk actually comes in and my boobs explode.

My chest seems to be going through yet another growth spurt at 32 weeks, so I bought [this well reviewed 3-pack of nursing bras](Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size L, 3PCS/Pack(Pink-Black-Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_FNsAybWFAQS96) on Amazon. They haven't arrived yet, but they look comfy enough to wear for the next two months of maternity and then get me started in the postpartum time. For what it's worth, I started with a 34C pre-pregnancy and am now probably a 38D. My L sized sports bras still fit just fine. I switched to bras with no underwire by week 10 due to boob growth.

Check out the Hofish bras, I'm not sure what size you are, but underwires started to really bother me when I got to your stage in my pregnancy. And then I got the Hofish bras from Amazon and my life became so much better. Plus they were reasonably priced and are also nursing bras! If you aren't crazy massive like me, your boobs will still look amazing in them! My breasts are very large so they aren't spectacular butttttt I don't have uniboob and I'm not too saggy in them!

Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size XL, 3PCS/Pack(Pink-Black-Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPF20?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf

I'm a 34H (UK) and the XL fit very well.

Honestly I am pretty thrifty. But for the amount of time I spent pumping in the first 18 months, spending $25 on an actual hands free, strapless nursing bra was worth triple the price I paid. like this

Try Anita nursing bras then, they are underwired real supportive bras. This one is nonpadded but still supportive and should fit your shape. http://www.amazon.com/Anita-Maternity-Microfiber-Nursing-5068/dp/B0011ZX6JU/ref=cts_ap_1_fbt I have nursed several kids myself and it is the best one I ever used. :) I kept wearing it after I was done nursing because it was just a good bra, until the elastic got old and stopped working.

hahah. This is amazing. kudos to you!

Just wanted to reco bellabands if you haven't seen them. They extended the life of everything I own that zips/buttons until almost the last week of pregnancy.

Yes. It's this one.

It's awesome because it is super adjustable (big issue for me with my smaller ribcage and bigger boobs) and is wider so it actually covers and provides a little support. And the holes are nicer.

[this one](Simple Wishes Hands-Free Breastpump Bra, Pink, X-Small-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_vZPExbD9F938Z)
I heart Amazon
Simple Wishes Hands-Free Breastpump Bra, Pink, X-Small-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_vZPExbD9F938Z

Where did you purchase it? It should certainly be available in that size but perhaps they don't stock it or were out of stock. Another seller should have it in that size, if you want to try it to compare. Amazon has it with free shipping, although no free returns on this one.

My sister recommended these and they are incredible. Way cheaper too than the bravado and other fancy brand name ones but surprisingly great. I've had mine for 7+ months and wash them after every wear, and they've held up beautifully -- I'm actually shocked at the quality. Their sizing is also pretty intuitive and forgiving. I may never go back to regular bras.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_VHRTaHsyxVhYk

These are awesome for me. They come with bra extenders because I don't know how big I'll get. I'm 25 weeks. I'm a 36c pre-pregnancy and got a large. They're so comfortable and the pad helps hide my huge pregnancy nipples.

I like these they apparently don’t have the exact brand I got last time but this style is pretty comfy. I got xl so I’d be sure they’d fit pp and they worked great. I also ended up using the band extenders because of my ribs separating.

The tube is super adjustable from tiny to big. I only used one tank a day. I only had 3. The bambooobies were essential to not leaking everywhere. And they are the size of coasters so you can keep some extra in your bag if you're leaky.

I've been wearing these since week 8 or so of my pregnancy. I'm normally a 32DDD or something ridiculous and I'm filling out a size large. I will say- the boob shape it gives you isn't the best but idk how good my boobs could look right now while still wearing a comfy bra. They are massive.

Simple wishes double pump bra
Simple Wishes Hands-Free Breastpump Bra, Pink, X-Small-Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00295MQLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_rWD5ybC0YKSMS

Congrats :) Here are two to check out. 40 bands with bigger cups. Great brands, too!

http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Sophie-Nursing-Bra/dp/B00FEFYUI4

http://www.amazon.com/Cake-Lingerie-Maternity-Non-Wire-Lavender/dp/B00D834UY8/r

Can you get the bra? http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Wishes-Hands-Free-Breastpump-XS-L/dp/B00295MQLU

I bought these because my formerly VS 34DDD were growing out of control (I ordered a 34G underwire bra in a style recommended by r/abrathatfits from Poland and wound up growing out of it in two weeks). They're firm enough to be supportive but stretchy enough that I think they'll still fit even when my milk comes in. And they have nursing clasps so they should be wearable postpartum, too. And you really can't beat the price!

They're not that cute and they don't push up, but they don't flatten me, either. And at this point, uh, I don't really need any pushing up.
https://www.amazon.com/Lightly-Wirefree-Maternity-Breastfeeding-Pink-Black-Beige/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1496077306&sr=8-1&keywords=nursing+bra

I'm breastfeeding and pumping, so my bra size changes throughout the day. Wireless nursing bras like these have been a godsend.

I bought a three pack of nursing bras from amazon (https://www.amazon.com/Lightly-Wirefree-Maternity-Breastfeeding-Pink-Black-Beige/dp/B01EFNPD7W/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=nursing+bra&qid=1573305338&sprefix=nursing&sr=8-4) as soon as I was popping out of my normal bras, which was at like 8 weeks. I just couldn’t justify buying regular bras for a relatively short period. I’ve loved these. Way more comfortable than the underwire I was used to, supports me well, and I have room to grow.

I bought these and they’re really comfortable!

Women's Full Cup Lightly Padded Wirefree Maternity Breastfeeding Nursing Bra Size XL, 3PCS/Pack(Pink-Black-Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EFNPF20/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_b7zSAbA6VYPKC

It's pretty nice. I have this one. Pretty comfy for an underwire bra, good support, and the inside of the cup seems to be lined with a material that would stop light leaking (though I haven't tested this so don't quote me). I actually got mine on eBay for about half the price (new!).

I got these ones

It looks like they're just soft cups you can pull out and put nursing pads in.

Found a really thorough post about Maternity/Nursing bras over there, thanks!

Clicking a few links led me to this monstrosity. Between that and the pregnancy vagina post, I am officially done for the day.

I didn’t use maternity underwear with #1, but this go round I tried it and I love it. No more rolling up on Nader my bump! These are the ones I bought.

I liked using a stretchy wrap for the first 3 months or so (up to 10-12lbs) and a soft carrier with the infant insert up until she was about 7 months, and without 7+ months.

I was using a solly baby and Juno+. Used almost everyday less maybe a handful of times.

Not sure how cold it gets by you but I’d recommend this with the soft carrier and a larger jacket and/or something like this with the wrap.

I have the prenatal cradle - two types actually, one is just belly and the other is the big one. It helps like mad. anytime I go out i'm wearing it (I started feeling pain REALLY early on and it was recommended to me)

this is the mini - http://www.amazon.com/Its-You-Babe-Cradle-181-225/dp/B000I5UASY/ref=pd_bxgy_hpc_img_y

I got these or something just like them from amazon. They’re great. Last pregnancy I just wore my regular underwear and ruined them and was uncomfortable. Not this time!

Edit: it was these: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M0SRH70/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_HVV7AbN70DFHJ

Bought this nursing one https://www.amazon.ca/gp/aw/d/B000YQJD3U/ref=ya_aw_oh_bia_dp?ie=UTF8&psc=1 and it's currently the most comfortable one I own. No wires and boobs don't get squashed together.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00YGSECLA/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1465344065&sr=8-1&pi=SX200_QL40&keywords=nursing+bra&dpPl=1&dpID=41za-25qjKL&ref=plSrch I bought these and I am amazed. I started off pregers at 36d then I jumped up a size at 3 month. At 5 months I could tell those bras were getting tight. I read the reviews on a lot off bras and these looked promising. They are soooo comfortable. I have never not worn a wire bra. They keep the girls in place while not being too tight or letting the jiggle.

These for sleeping, this for everyday / light exercise and these nursing tanks- 2x works for my 40 H boobs!

If anything for the hospital just soft bras, like a sleeping bra—I honestly went braless most of the time unless we had visitors!

The support belt I ordered was actually just delivered yesterday. I'm ... not sure if I have it positioned correctly? I bought the "Mini Cradle" via Amazon.

If I have it on the tightest setting, it feels like my pants are very snug and it digs in uncomfortably. But if I have it on the middle setting, it doesn't feel like it's of any help. I suppose I'll get the hang of it and/or grow into it. :-/

First go to r/ABraThatFits and make sure you are wearing the right size. I did and I went from 38 DD to a 34GG. This is my favorite nursing bra and it fits perfectly. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0011ZX6JU/ref=cts_ap_1_fbt?pi=SL110&dpPl=1&dpID=41TsfHbjeHL&dpPlWS=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B007T993US/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1457148414&sr=1-1&pi=SY200_QL40&dpPl=1&dpID=41-MkFrEXBL&ref=plSrch


I got this one back in January, I'm expecting twins and this has made a difference on days where I'm walking or standing a lot. It's also really good with unbuttoned pants. I haven't switched to maternity pants yet because of it.

I used a bravado nursing bra from target. It was OK but not great. I eventually shrunk enough that I needed a smaller size and ordered this one: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000YQJD3U. It was fantastic. Much better support and a lower cut neckline so I could wear more tops with it. I didn't have much luck with an underwire bra.
I also used the disposable lansinoh nursing pads and liked them, but only needed them a few months.

Ha! I checked my Amazon order history from 2011 and found this. But there are probably better ones out there by now!

I had two nursing bras when LO was born, plus two nursing PJs. The PJs were garbage because they were too loose, so pads won't stay on my boobs and I leak all over. I also didn't have pads right away, so I leaked a ton and was doing the laundry twice a day until I got pads and 3 more bras. I also have an underwire nursing bra but I don't like it for nursing, it doesn't fold out of the way nicely. I will probably use it mostly after I go back to work and need access to pump, as it does give better structure.

Edit to add:. I bought a set of three nursing bras from Amazon because I also hate spending money on under wear. They work well as the name brand of the same style I bought from outlet mall: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01EFNPD7W/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1481823661&sr=1-1&pi=SX200_QL40&dpPl=1&dpID=41slO5CxWoL&ref=plSrch

I just went back to work but I'll try to help.

I started pumping for a freezer stash at about 8 weeks and I still do my extra session most mornings because I'm worried my supply will dip if I stop. My husband uses the milk for baby's first feed after I leave.

I use this bra and it works well but I have to disrobe and put it on while I'm pumping and take it off when I'm done.

My baby takes every drop I make and my husband has to dip into the freezer stash sometimes so I'm not sure how to help you there. 😕

Don't buy regular bras right now. Have her buy soft nursing bras. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01EFNPD7W/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1574529926&sr=1-1&pi=SL140_SY180_CR0,0,140,180_QL70

Then when she stops breastfeeding she can go back to regular bras. It was a wonderful feeling

These are my favorite nursing bras. They stay put really well and are super comfy (they're pretty close to sport bras) but you'd still need to wear disposable nursing pads. Leaking does suck though :(.

I highly recommend Anita Maternity/Nursing bras from Amazon. You'll have to measure yourself or have your SO help and use the bra size calculator on /r/abrathatfits but I had no trouble finding a style and size I liked (I was in a 32G when my milk came in PP) and Amazon was FANTASTIC about returns/exchanges, and it only took 2 days to get my exchange, so there was no frustrating delays. The first bra I purchased linked here fit perfectly!

Maybe it's worth a shot. :)