Best panties for women according to redditors

Amazon sells a six-pack with assorted colors/designs. I find them to be pretty comfortable and they come in a normal, brown Amazon box.

I like a nice simple cotton bikini cut, which I’m finding increasingly hard to find. It sounds weird, but Amazon Essentials has a multipack that I really like for regular everyday wear.

Well there is this thing http://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK

I've never tried one but the reviews are pretty funny.

RIP your panties. Hydrogen peroxide might help. Or you can just say "fuck it" and get a 6 pack for $6.

I did it with a skirt a few years back. It took about 12 washers (I worked my way up from 5, which weren't heavy enough to stop heavy winds) and it made the skirt hang and move strangely so I removed them. I then found a nice nude slip skirt and did it with that and wore that underneath my dresses for a while which was much better. The weights confused the dry cleaners a bit, haha.

Then I discovered slip shorts and now I wear those under every dress and skirt and try not to worry too much. =/

These! BUY THESE. So excellent. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IB7LY2C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_5oH7AbD3DTGRA

1. Everyone has cellulite.
   
2. Wear white and pastel leggings.
   
3. Work out if you're insecure about your flabbiness. Some weight-lifting will perk you right up, literally.
   
4. And yes, you can turn the media off. All electronics come with an off switch. Use it.
   
5. If the jeans you're trying to wear give you cameltoe and stuff, they're too small. Go up a size and get the waist tailored so they fit better.
   
6. If you want to wear dresses or light-colored leggings but you want to smooth things out, buy a couple pairs of shaping shorts and wear them under whatever you want. They are not restrictive at all, they just smooth out any ripples and rolls. I have a few pairs of these and frankly I wonder what the hell took me so long to buy them.
   
7. If you don't like being pale, go get an airbrush tan or buy some build-a-tan lotion. The former is applied by a professional, and the latter adds color gradually so it's a lot harder to screw up. Or, move up north because we're all pale up here. Either way, when you're older, you'll thank your damn stars that you didn't tan when you see what it did to people who tanned regularly.
   
   I mean really, all your complaints have a solution. If you don't like the way you look, do something about it. It can be as easy as going to the damn store or shopping online for the correct size, and maybe an extra $10-15 to get it altered a little to fit you better. This is literally why tailors and shapewear and shit exist. How do you think everyone else does it? You think they just naturally look like that? NO. So damn, invest in yourself a little. It would obviously be well worth the money in helping you realize that this unhappiness you feel can be helped with some easily acquired products and services.
   

I've been through these cycles of binge and purge so many times over the past twenty years, I can't even possibly imagine how many thousands of dollars of absolutely adorable clothes and accessories I've throw out in shame, only to regret it later. I think I'm finally past that, and while I can't necessarily help you get to that place, can't help you work through the associated cognitive dissonance and cultural pressures, I can maybe at least help you rebuild.

Panties are where I always start back off. Simple, plain, cotton panties. Fruit of the Loom, Hanes, whatever, something cotton and with a gusset. I've become partial to Fruit of the Loom Heathers, both in bikini and hipster varieties. I've tried all variety of novelty, skimpy, silky, frilly, and the tried and true panties that make me feel the most feminine, that I'm actually willing to wear day in and day out are simple and breathable. I've recently given Amazon Essentials a try, fully expecting the worst. I was prepared for them to be the sheisty garbage you'd get eBaying from China, poor stitching and loose threads and you wash it once and it falls apart. Not so! Though not as fantastic as Fruit of the Loom Heathers, I'm enjoying the Cotton Stretch Bikini and Cotton Stretch Thong varieties.

From there, no feminine boy is complete without a pair of shimapan! And naturally from there, you'll need to pair them with appropriate stockings!

Of course, one of my favorite things in the world after panties and stockings are skirts! I was just talking to somebody elsewhere on reddit today here, I'm currently wearing the shorter version of that specific skirt. Go long, go short, either way the material is thick and flowy, perfect for going spinny!

I'm also partial to spaghetti straps, and these are my daily drivers. The color set that I have isn't there anymore, but those are all great too!

The next part requires bravery. I have gone thrifting at Goodwill for skirts and tops exactly once, just a couple of months ago. And while I found a haul and was extremely proud of myself, it took all the psyching up in the world to be able to just go and do it. I got a few looks but nobody said anything to me and I powered through. I want to go again, I will go again, but wow that's going to be another brave journey to work up to.

Nail polish I pick up at Big Lots, usually for about $2 per bottle, nail polish remover too. I get all sorts of stuff there anyway so one or two feminine makeup items never raised any eyebrows. I've been shopping there for years so I figure most of the employees get who I am but not a one has ever given me a single bit of grief over it. You can tell from my personality, from how I walk and talk and present myself - it's not the biggest secret in the world, but holy fuck it's scary sometimes just being open with other people face to face. I'm not big on makeup outside of nail polish, that is to say I'm not very experienced, so the $1 and $2 brushes, mascara, eyeshadow, and eyeliner I pick up there do just fine for me. I imagine if I were more experienced or more than a basic bitch I'd be appalled at the quality therein, but I have the bliss of ignorance right now!

I wish I could be more helpful addressing the underlying problem, the shame and cognitive dissonance, the need to hide and the desire to do away with your secrets in order to feel safe and clean. It took me twenty+ years to be even a little ok with myself, to accept myself for who I am, to finally be past purging all my cute and feminine things, so I absolutely get it. Wishing you the best, the strength and resilience to be who you are, to not have to change to satisfy any outside ego structures, to enjoy what you do, and to recognize your inalienable right to look like on the outside how you feel like on the inside. It's a path, a journey, a long hard road that's tough to walk alone. The only thing you can ask of yourself is to do your best, to be the most genuine you that you can possibly be!

Try these

Jockey Skimmies are the beeest!

ask and ye shall receive

I'm using this brand from amazon. Nothing really seeps out it kind of just bunches up.

https://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK

Here you go

These from Amazon are incredible. They are soft and stretchy, much better than the bins of 5 for 25 at Target that I used to get. They aren't lacy and colorful, but do the job well. https://www.amazon.com/Amazon-Essentials-Womens-Cotton-Stretch/dp/B01N3NOZMT

For starting with underwear, I highly recommend these panties as they are relatively cheap and are made of good fabric. They're soft and stretchy so you really don't have to do much of anything, just put them on!

If you want to go a bit more fancy, I'd suggest xdress as they have some stuff that is quite nice and not overly expensive. They are also cut for the male body so easy to wear as well.

Personally, I love skirts and I bought most of mine off amazon. The ones with the elastic bands are great because you don't have to worry as much about getting a precise fit.

Best of luck shopping! \^_^

Here's a link!

Sofishie Sexy Midnight Bow-Tie Panties - Black - Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0196WCLXQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_7sC3CbGNRNFH9

I bought these Fruit of the Loom Bikini Panties when I was pregnant and never went back. They are super comfortable.

Not exactly exercise related but I am having a serious issue with camel toe from literally every single pair of gym leggings I have. It all started yesterday. My period is due today/soon so I don't know if this is period related FUPA inflammation or what.

Besides wearing a longer shirt, how can I minimize my camel toe with my leggings? 😥 I prefer to not wear underwear when wearing leggings to the gym and this is even happening in my leggings that have a gusset. 😣 I use blood cups during my period so I don't even have any panty liners I can stick on there.

Ninja edit: TIL these exist, lol: https://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B077V26MKM :>

I wear panties every day and own literally hundreds of pairs.
My favorite everyday panties are kalon boyshorts from amazon. these ones feel nice and feminine, are neutral colors, so they look like they could be just underwear, and the boyshorts cut has plenty of support for sissies with big balls Kalon 6 Pack Women's Nylon Spandex Boyshort Panties (Medium, Winter)

Non-mobile: boy shorts

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I've worn Vanity Fair panties since I started. That style works great and have enough material and stretch to hold boy bits in. Buy black and your mom might not think they are women's.

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I had searched too and these never came up until recently! I’m happy with them although they definitely run on the small side

They don’t seem to be in stock in your size at the moment but I bought a pack of these a couple months ago and i’m happy with them.

https://www.amazon.com/Amazon-Essentials-Womens-Cotton-Stretch/dp/B01N3NOZMT?th=1&psc=1

I wear these [https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00VTV4RDU/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1483921389&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=mesh+underwear+women&dpPl=1&dpID=517gWRZ008L&ref=plSrch](Fruit of Loom Mesh underwear) while working out and I really like it!

oh, i got them off amazon

here's a link ~

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06ZZPY17P/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

and lol, yeah my balls are oddly big, considering how small my dick is

I wear boy shorts
These are not the ones I bought, but similar. I loved them and wore them sense a year ago, even before my hormones and practicing dressing/makeup. Used to wash them in the shower.

These fruit of the loom are super comfy! I bought them before giving birth and loved them before and after giving birth and still love them now. I like bikini cut but they have other styles and its the price and comfort of the material that I recommend.

Yeah, Im currently single, but ive definitely thought about what relationships i might miss. What ive decided though, is that if i find someone that really loves me, they will love me no matter what i do, and anything else isnt worth it. (Ik thats so oversaid, but i really think its the right idea)
That being said, it doesn't make it suck any less.

If you haven't talked about it with her yet though, i wouldn't count it out just yet. One of my friends recently went through a similar experience with his girlfriend, and she was totally accepting.

For tucking, i don't have a whole lot of experience, and dont really know what youre referring too haha. but what works for me is using this gaffe with some boyshorts under it because its assless lol.

And yeah, i have mild anxiety so i def understand.

Here is a pair i just got her they dont have the straps but they aren't exact but htey are close: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0196WCLXQ?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00

This pair is a little closer i just bought her these too:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00UGTDE8U?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s01

If you want decent ok don't give a fuck about these panties you can get an entire bundle off amazing for like 25$ for 25.

It's the stock that didn't get sold after clearance. They're not bad just not all of them are like "fuck me panties" and they're cheap so you don't feel bad about ripping them during sex or staining them.

Edit: amazon Sexy Underwear,UWOCEKA Kinds of Women T-back Thong G-string Underpants Sexy Lacy Panties https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0752BSKF3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_ZWsIAbNRQAFVC

I tuck 24/7 and I ware all sorts of bottoms, that don't ade in tucking.

I ware 3 pairs of Sakkas Women's Seamless Stretch Panties / Boy Shorts, they look more like briefs when I do, but I can play hackysack without issue. ;)

-Kira

PS: I have a 34" waist and 39" hips.

These were linked yesterday in the weighted skirt thread, maybe give them a try?

If you get desperate and want to keep the shorts you already own, you could try something like the CamelNot. I've never actually tried it, but it might work!

I too have a not small butt. I've had good luck with fruit of the loom underwear. It's not particularly sexy, but it has enough back coverage that it stays in place well. These stay in place particularly well.

Here's what I used:

Fruit of the Loom Women's 6 Pack Heather Low-Rise Hipster Panties, Assorted, 6 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HUS7C06/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_haW-yb6XV8YRC

https://www.amazon.com/Vanity-Fair-Illumination-18108-Midnight/dp/B0006I4ACU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1493350027&sr=8-1&keywords=vanity+fair+illumination+panties

Throw all your other underwear out, you're welcome in advance :P

Pulled some stuff from my own wishlist for ideas
Hopefully they fit your tastes

Women's Stripe Cotton Comfortable Panties Pack of 6 for 11.99
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MQ5S028/?coliid=I3G42XOKGWUMFY&colid=1JH6T23EXLGAL&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

or
Women's Backless Cheongsam Lingerie Babydoll Nightwear Dress for 5.99
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079QHNSNP/?coliid=I1TI57BP7KN293&colid=1JH6T23EXLGAL&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

or
Kawaii Lingerie Cosplay Anime Cat 10.99
https://www.amazon.com/P-LINK-Embroidary-Lingerie-Underwear-Cosplay/dp/B0761WYYBJ/ref=sr_1_14?s=apparel&rps=1&ie=UTF8&qid=1524696670&sr=1-14&nodeID=1040660&psd=1&keywords=kawaii&refinements=p_36%3A-2000%2Cp_85%3A2470955011

Not quite the same, but I've been quite happy with "Kalon" stuff. Someone else mentioned them here as great for tucking, and I can confirm. I've not used LeoLines, but I've used other gaff panties, and I find these work better than many, and they're cheap.

Boyshort style works best imo, but the hipster panties work well too:
https://smile.amazon.com/Kalon-Womens-Spandex-Boyshort-Panties/dp/B01GK7FENE/
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01GKAECHU/

Not maternity, but I am obsessed with these now and how comfortable they are and work great and sit under the bump https://smile.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00VTV4RDU/

Huh! I have a pulse sized hour glass. So fat a$$ and tiny waist. So all underwear gets consumed between the cheeks, I’m cut up front, terrible. For the longest time I solved this by wearing thongs, least amount of fabric for the CONSUMPTION. They were few and far between though as far as comfort, but our 20’s went about comfort right.
Now I just go for moisture wicking and call it a day

breefs

Thongs

> how did you overcome feeling a host of negative emotions if and when you started presenting privately

For me the negative emotions were from two sources:

(1) Frustration from my masculine features conflicting with feminine clothes.

This is hard, especially if you don't want to go full bore HRT. It tends to vary over time, though, so if presenting femme is not working, maybe don't force it? Do it when it makes you feel good.

I found that moving to androgynous clothes helped. One of the first things I did was order these:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00C11AS9O/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Wearing something more colorful and feminine under my clothes helped. Those are also good for tucking, should you choose to do that. I also switched to skinny jeans, because they felt more feminine, but no one was the wiser.

Also, don't worry if your early experimentation with things like makeup are atrocious, because you will improve.

(2) Shame at being transgender. We all have it to one extent or another, because that's what we've been taught by the culture around us.

That one's hard to stamp out, and it takes time. What helped the most was going to a good support group with lots (40+) other trans people (both men, women, and some nb people). When you hear people from all walks of life talking about the same things you feel, it kind of cements the fact that you were born this way and that there is nothing wrong with it. Meeting trans men helped me extinguish any feelings of it being some kind of fetish and embrace the idea that some peoples brains don't match up with their genitals.

> Do you also have experience with low level HRT?

I don't. I started transition at 44, and found I was eager to make up for lost time.

I have a small (flat) butt however I love these cheap ones off of Amazon. They are so soft, stretchy, and super full coverage: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01MQ2C6ZH/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Emprella Womens Lace Underwear Hipster Panties Cotton/Spandex - 10 Pack Colors and Patterns May Vary, Assorted, Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077V26MKM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_3wIGDbKNNPP1F

I highly recommend this brand as their size chart is accurate and you can get almost a month's worth of panties for fairly cheap.

If you like the short style you might want to try womens boy short panties. These are seamless and short.

https://www.amazon.com/Ruxia-Seamless-Boyshort-Panties-Underwear/dp/B077N4VQHV?psc=1&SubscriptionId=AKIAILSHYYTFIVPWUY6Q&tag=duckduckgo-d-20&linkCode=xm2&camp=2025&creative=165953&creativeASIN=B077N4VQHV

I've ordered these two in the past and the quality isn't bad for the money you're paying and the variety is nice too. They sell assorted packs of thongs that are super cute, their sizing is very accurate.

https://www.amazon.com/jooniyaa-Varity-Underwear-G-String-Panties/dp/B077VK2PP3/ref=sr_1_3?crid=3B7HQ3H9RDJCX&keywords=uwoceka+sexy+thongs&qid=1558677918&s=gateway&sprefix=Uwoce%2Caps%2C157&sr=8-3

https://www.amazon.com/Underwear-UWOCEKA-G-string-Underpants-Panties/dp/B0752BSKF3/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3B7HQ3H9RDJCX&keywords=uwoceka%2Bsexy%2Bthongs&qid=1558677918&s=gateway&sprefix=Uwoce%2Caps%2C157&sr=8-4&th=1

I've ordered from both of these sellers and neither seems bad.

I was the same way. Until I found these.

Nabtos Women Cotton Thong underwear panties https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06ZZLZBG6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_avB4J6cgsdoJt

They are comfy, and I still feel sexy. I don't like the lacy thongs because of my mommy pooch/loose skin that I still have not been able to get rid of.

A tab bit late but here you go!

ExOfficio Women's Give-N-Go Bikini Brief - Small - Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0036S2D9Y/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_iC1azbK840VYJ

OMG read the reviews. These are AMAZING! They have different styles, but I linked the ones I own. They are super breathable, they have a nice wide girth to keep the loose skin in, and while this model isn't the most sexy, it definitely performs well. I usually push my junk inside my body, and then pull the sack back under to tuck. I'm relatively small so that works for me. Once I put the exoficio panties on and get everything into position, I take a pair of tighter fitting swimming bikini bottoms and pull those over everything. It keeps me in place and I am able to wear pretty much whatever I want, including yoga pants. The best part about all that, is that both the panties and the bikini bottoms are breathable and I don't have a sweaty mess later on. I even got my boyfriend to buy a pair of the men's boxers (made out of the same material) and he threw away all his other cotton boxers and said, "never again will I wear any other kind of underwear. These are amazing!"
At least get one pair to try. You won't be sorry.

As for sexy stuff... Try these...

Sofishie Sexy Midnight Bow-Tie Panties - Black - Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0196WCLXQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_YP1azb66WVEAD

You might think I'm joking, but my boyfriend bought me a pair and it drives him wild. They are his favorite pair that I own. They are cute, sexy, go well with thigh highs, and quite honestly, are super comfortable!! They have a nice wide girth which keeps the bits in, but since they are assless, tucking can be complicated. Luckily, you mentioned that you don't really tuck, so they would be perfect! With lingerie, the important part is that you feel sexy wearing them and for me, I definitely feel that way wearing both panties that I linked.

Hope this helps! If you do end up getting either of these, let me know what you think!

btw, that link 404's, here is a correct link: http://www.amazon.com/Sakkas-BS0210PL-Seamless-Stretch-Panties/dp/B00C11AS9O

http://www.amazon.com/Braza-Camel-Not-Camel-Cover-Inserts/dp/B00479YLFK

Those really look like these plain ones from amazon or fruit of the loom like you said.

Sakkas BS0210PL Women's Seamless Stretch Panties / Boy Shorts - Assorted Color 6 Pack - Solid - One Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00C11AS9O/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_A66iwbTNG8JAF

If you need a video on how to tuck (NSFW) go to vimeo and search there. There is one video on there that really helped me.

-edit- here is the video https://vimeo.com/95701148

Some of the most comfortable ones I have found so far have been Vanity Fair Illumination Panties