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Well, I don't know what the brand was, because all the text was in Japanese (which made it even more fun to play with, because every button I pushed was a surprise!) - but I've found some pics on Amazon to give you a sense of the thing.

Imagine a toilet like this

And on the wall beside you there's a control interface like this.

I can't even tell you how enjoyable that potty was.

My favorite setting was a cool seat with a soft, warm mist from tip to taint, and an oscillating jet pulse of slightly warmer water right on the butthole.

Then, you get dried off with a hot blast of scented air.

I don't remember what the venue was, who all the people were at the party, or even what music or food we had - but I distinctly remember that wonderful magic John.

ETA: Also I had the sound set on this ~30 second loop that sounded like a waterfall in the jungle.

The lights were nice and dim and the stall door was wood, and went all the way from cieling to floor with a very sturdy lock that made an affirmative ka-chunk sound.

The floor was clean and there was a coat rack right there in the stall.

The walls were slate-tiled and there was no lingering smell from previous poopers.

It was incredible.

That looks like a lead drain, dont mess with it at all, otherwise you are in for a really really bad expensive time.
Instead buy a repair flange. Bolt it through the existing flange to the floor. Maybe put a bead of silicone between the two. Job done.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000FHBGEC?pc_redir=1412261783&robot_redir=1

I would seriously look into one of these repair flanges. You can see there are six screws holding it to the floor. Use Tapcon concrete screws for the flange and a wax ring and that's probably the best you can do. One possible issue is that the concrete is too brittle from years of being somewhat wet, since those other bolts pulled right out.

http://www.terrylove.com/wc/toto/red_ring_03.jpg

http://www.amazon.com/Toilet-Flange-Repair-Replace-Broken/dp/B000FHBGEC

I have one of these: https://www.amazon.com/Flushmate-M-101526-F31-Pressure-Assist-toilets/dp/B00UPCMPSI It sounds like an airplane toilet. My commode is definitely overclocked.

Toilet is easiest to address by installing something like this.

https://www.amazon.com/Plastic-Oddities-Offset-POF100-Repairs/dp/B017Y1KI6I/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1522867331&sr=8-1&keywords=toilet+offset

Shower is much more complex. While the biggest issue cant be easily fixed, if you replaced the pipe the attaches the shower head to the wall, you could gain some height. The one that you have installed drops probably 3 inches. There are other options that will save an inch or 2. You could try to get a device like this
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003RWSNBG/ref=twister_B009SOJD1Q?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

which would allow you to move the shower head a bit to the left and up (looking at it from the direction of standing in the shower looking at the shower head) This sort of increases the head room.

And lastly, an option that I would not like is to switch to a hand held unit so you can detach to wash yoru hair, and use it mounted to wall to wash your body.

these are old leaded flanges, my experience with cast iron and leaded flanges is rather limited due to my age and region. but the best way would be to replace the lead with newer cast iron if that's possible, or buy new flange plates that bolt to the existing floor.
this is a cast iron toilet flange that are much newer and the standard for cast iron applications :http://amzn.com/B001REGQXI
and this is more of a temporary flange you can use to repair what you have that will bolt to the floor: http://amzn.com/B000FHBGEC

I have something like this in my apartment's toilet. Literally cannot believe more personal bathrooms don't have it, it's magical.

Question:
Is this for 3" or 4"?

Answer:
This tool is for what is known as a "three four" pipe. The outer diameter is nominally 4 inches...the inner diameter is nominally 3 inches. The tool works great and highly advise you watch the YouTube video. Absolutely Make sure your drill has high torque and run it on low speed taking frequent breaks...otherwise the friction could easily melt the pipe...especially if the pipe is the black ABS pipe which melts at a lower temperature than PVC pipe. Do it for 20 seconds. ..let it cool..then repeat. see less
By Patrick W. Donahoe on December 5, 2017

I’m sure there are cheaper ways, but this tool would do the trick


Flange-Off Toilet Flange Removal Tool https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007723KIS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_OmUSDbACBGCK8

the way the toilet sits, (sitting on it), the right bolt goes in a one of the three slots around 3/4 of the circumference, but the left t-bolt has nowhere but the finger-like extrusion.


it seems to be exactly the following:


https://www.amazon.com/Plastic-Oddities-Offset-POF100-Repairs/dp/B017Y1KI6I


the short video on the last image shows my problems, but not how to fix them.

do yourselves a favor and get one of these

soft light that kicks on when it detects motion and it lights up the entire bowl. Screw turning on a light at 4am or risking it in the dark and painting the wall. Your significant other will thank you!

So you think this is all I should need?

https://www.amazon.com/Kohler-Compatible-Canister-Replacements-Equivalent-K-GP1059291/dp/B06XH3D3PQ/ref=sr_1_18_sspa?crid=36FKXV7YYY1PF&keywords=kohler+cimmaron+toilet+seal&qid=1573583202&sprefix=kohler++toilet+seal%2Caps%2C162&sr=8-18-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEyOFNEM0w1WFlRUU1VJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNDk4MTU0MzhFWFNKRTk5RUFBTSZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwODcyMTgwMlA0QkRDMTJTTTROQiZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX210ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=

https://www.amazon.com/Flange-Off-Toilet-Flange-Removal-Tool/dp/B007723KIS/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=flange+remover&qid=1575008286&sr=8-6

Found this, but it's quite pricey and It's made for ABS/PVC. I'm not even sure what material my drain pipe is made of. But the dried-up drops on the inside make me think it's plastic that's been fused together.