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This is a copy of a post I wrote for another woman who asked, so I apologize that it's somewhat woman-centric but, well, NFP is fairly woman-centric.
First off, pick up Simcha Fisher's Sinner's Guide to NFP because it's an amazing resource, very funny, and written from someone who's been "in the trenches." Talks about the good, the bad, the easy, the difficult.
Basically, there are three or four major signs of fertility; women can track as many or as few as they like to determine when they're fertile. These are:
Although just using a calendar is not as accurate on its own (thus the rhythm method came to be known mockingly as "Vatican roulette"), the other methods can be as good at preventing pregnancy as many other hormonal or barrier methods. I'll try and give the quick and dirty on each of the three above methods. (Following is clinical, possibly NSFW, and a little icky.)
You'll see lots of "methods" thrown around (Billings, Marquette, etc) - they're all just combinations of these three tracking methods. My recommendation, beyond picking up "Sinner's Guide to NFP" above, is to download the very excellent app Kindara on the mobile device of your choice. Not only does it have all the tracking tools you could possibly want, but you can also post your charts (anonymously) to other users, who can then help you interpret it until you get the hang of reading your own chart. It comes with a Bluetooth-enabled fancy-pants thermometer called Wink but I use a regular BBT thermometer just fine. The only benefit of getting Wink is that you don't have to fumble with typing anything in at the crack of dawn, as it auto-syncs.
Goodness, this turned into a novel. Yes, starting NFP can be a little squeamish (I mean, comparing bodily fluids to egg whites, let's be honest here). But in the long run, you get used to it and you and your partner will have a much greater understanding of yourselves and your bodies. Plus, NFP can also help catch other gynaecological problems early, as they can often interfere with mucus and cervical position! If you have any other, more specific questions, shoot me a PM or respond here. Best of luck and many prayers!
It is absolutely my pleasure and prayer! You ask awesome questions. And I have some resources for you this time. Let’s start with studying what a “good Catholic marriage” looks like:
On TOB - Theology of the Body – One of the most famous teachings of the church. At a fundamental level, we are called to respect our bodies and others’ bodies and live in God’s divine image.
http://www.foryourmarriage.org/the-theology-of-the-body-according-to-pope-john-paul-ii/
On LOVE – we are called to love like God loves / love in God’s divine image (to the best of our abilities), NOT love how we think we should love.
http://www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/what-we-believe/love-and-sexuality/index.cfm
https://www.dominicanajournal.org/the-four-loves/
http://www.catholiclane.com/fruitful-love-symbolizes-gods-inner-life-says-pope-francis-amoris-laetitia/
https://mycatholic.life/the-my-catholic-life-series/my-catholic-morals/chapter-6-chastity-purity-affection-and-marital-love/
This book was recommended to me the day I asked some similar questions as you: https://www.amazon.com/Good-News-About-Marriage-Revised/dp/0867166193 and it answered more questions than I had.
On VOCATION – we are called to give ourselves to God (in one way or another)
https://www.osv.com/thechurch/humandignityandsexuality/article/tabid/658/artmid/13696/articleid/4394/theology-of-the-body-making-a-gift-of-self.aspx
http://www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/vocations/priesthood/ten-frequently-asked-questions-about-the-reservation-of-priestly-ordination-to-men.cfm
In terms of what holy matrimony isn’t, I encourage you to find the nearest priest and grill him in more detail on this! It’s best to have a conversation and they will do much better explaining than me. I grill them all the time. To your question, it would be really awesome that they are raising a child that would not otherwise be brought up in a loving and safe home. The issue is, again, what’s going on in the bedroom. The guidance is the exact same for my relationship and I run into the exact same temptation and sins in my marriage. I go to confession regularly when I’m not getting things quite right, but why don’t I get judged for the exact same sins? On the outside, my marriage looks great and normal. Right? Again, not acceptable by our standards. This goes back to the good ol Catholic teaching: you should not be judging anyone!!! Matthew 7:1-5. We are all sinners. We all have equal dignity.
On INFERTILITY – I believe there is no purposeful act of withholding oneself. "The male and female bodies are made to be able to procreate together. When infertility is apparent, the challenge is to diagnose and address problems so these bodies can function as they should—and there is no moral problem in doing this, any more than there is in other medical treatments to restore health." (Life Giving Love in an Age of Technology)
http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/marriage-and-family/natural-family-planning/resources/infertility.cfm
http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/human-life-and-dignity/reproductive-technology/begotten-not-made-a-catholic-view-of-reproductive-technology.cfm
Give those a read!
Hoping that didn't feel like an attack because that's not how it was meant. I can understand why you would feel this way, but I truly believe the church has logical and reasonable answers for all your frustrations. Best of luck with coping with these struggles and hope some of this may be helpful to you.
You're welcome! I did wear (a dress like this)[https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0731D7F56/ref=twister_B0731FL6VT] fairly frequently while visiting super conservative areas with either a scarf around my neck or a cardigan, but pants are fine as long as they aren't extremely skintight on the butt. Have a great trip!
I can't vouch personally since I've never read any of his stuff, but a lot of people love Scott Hahn's books. He has one called Hail, Holy Queen about Mary.
Please look into Christopher West and Jason Evert! I'm not sure this would be the best place to start, but Heaven's Song was the first book I ever read based on Theology of the Body and it was mind blowing (and I'm a cradle Catholic).
The perfect is the enemy of the good.