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It's not clear if you are looking for crystals that will help support you in sharing the same space as this person, of if you are looking for general relationship advice. If you're looking towards crystals, Magnesite has a calming effect on emotions, helping you to handle emotional stress. Peridot might also be helpful as it will help to enhance your confidence without aggression and motivate growth. Smithsonite also helps aid in difficult relationships, it helps create harmony and diplomacy. All of these stones and descriptions came from The Crystal Bible by Judy Hall.

I would also think that any stone that promotes your own grounding would be helpful, hematite, black tourmaline, bloodstone, etc.

If you're looking more for relationship advice, I would suggest r/relationships.

I hope this was what you were looking for!

For brand new crystals I do a day/night cycle during a bright moon outdoors, the salt bath, and a sage "bomb". Hey, it might be overkill, I don't know where they've been! The only exception to this rule is when I buy from a certain seller on etsy who pre-cleans the stones before she sends them, in the natural spring water on her property. They just get saged. Everything gets saged at all times. I'm not sure if I am paranoid or I just want excuses to burn sage and am attempting to justify my addiction.

I don't really go in for dyed crystals, so sunlight is not much of a problem (if you have dyed crystals, be careful because it could fade them), but when I do, I put them in white butcher trays because white is nice and reflective, and you can see the colors nicely behind them. When I am not using them for cleansing crystals, they're used for watercolor painting, so I don't specifically have a bunch of trays just for crystals. I just put them on my back deck which gets full sun and leave them out there from noon-noon.

For the sage: I have a tea warmer (this one actually ) that I put sage on charcoal incense every time I need them. So at least a handful once a week get this treatment. If I have to do larger amounts, or really want to make sure, I put a plastic tub (a very large one that is at least 1 foot away from the incense at all times) over top of the mini altar that I do this on, but I think this is specific to the table that I have and I would not recommend it to others (my table can only be described as an antique TV tray from before TVs existed that has a tempered chicken wire glass surface and air slots all around the side of it, so the incense doesn't go out when I place a giant plastic tub over it. It's pretty weird.) I can really get the smoke concentrated in there though, touching all surfaces.

For the salt bath when they have skin oils (except water soluble things like fluorite, selenite, etc). Usually once a month for things I tend to pick up a lot. I use the same butcher trays as I do outside.

For beginners I highly recommend 'The Crystal Bible'

http://www.amazon.com/The-Crystal-Bible-Judy-Hall/dp/1582972400

When you understand a bit more, or simply want some more in depth reading and information, then 'The Book of Stones' is an absolute must ~ this is my goto crystal book these days :)
http://www.thebookofstones.com/

Hope this helps, good luck on your journey, most importantly ~ have fun with them !

Thank you, it’s from Amazon! For the longest I’ve been looking all over for one that was simple, sturdy, and had enough space for my large crystals. I adore it and it was super simple to hang. (:

Here’s the link to it: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071W69XMW?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

is that this but 80 dollars more?

TongYue Desk Planets Handmade Natural Gemstone Celestial Creative Gift Home Decorations https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DVPFNVN/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_FJhODbFZC5HF6

I get advice for my crystals out of https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0962819034/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Sorry no one has responded yet. - I don't know anything about pairing crystals together. I do what 'feels' good. Thought if I responded someone else would have better input and would respond. Good luck. Used respond a lot in this post...

Thanks! I really like it too, and it was pretty inexpensive:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B076H71SPQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_PmSyDbXD9PA1W

A mineralogy textbook would be a good start, this is the one we used when I took the class (https://www.amazon.com/Manual-Mineral-Science-Cornelis-Klein/dp/0471721573). Or maybe this (https://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Mineralogy-William-Nesse/dp/0199827389), although I haven't read it myself.

If you are willing to spend about $20, this book is absolutely filled with information. It's the only crystal book I think I'll ever use, I haven't touched the other two I have since I bought this one. You can also find a lot of information online, this website is one of the better ones.

A travel organizer like this one would probably work!

I'm sure there are more in depth books out there, but I've had this one for a while and it has a lot of info in such a small package. https://www.amazon.com/Crystal-Bible-Judy-Hall/dp/1582972400

Love Is In the Earth

It's actually an ashtray I ordered when I still smoked a few years ago
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00O5JT2BU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_MoHSCbZ6PWZT0