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u/childhoodsurvivor · 30 pointsr/LetterstoJNMIL

Not on my main computer so I will edit this comment later but swiggy actually had an updated book list with more stuff on it that included even more in the comments. I'm sad I can't access it now but here are my contributions to that list (link to swiggy's updated list for if/when it becomes available again):

When I Say No I Feel Guilty is a book about assertiveness training that will help immensely in building that shiny spine.

"I Hate You - Don't Leave Me" and "Stop Walking on Eggshells" (and its accompanying workbook) are 3 great books about BPD (borderline personality disorder).

I also have a link to a free pdf version of The Gift of Fear so I will edit with that later. Here it is.

Another awesome resource is www.outofthefog.website.

If anyone can remember other suggestions or other resources feel free to add.

Thank you so much for putting this together!!

ETA: Personal bill of rights, OOTF's (Out of the Fog) excellent page about JADE, and an RBN post about NC rules

u/soayherder · 5 pointsr/LetterstoJNMIL

Look into getting yourself a travel wallet - carry a decoy purse or the like. Then if it is an ambush like you suspect it might be, you are better prepared to bug out in a hurry.

u/esotericshy · 9 pointsr/LetterstoJNMIL

So, you’ll have taken care of what you can, anyway. Buying a house is expensive, but you may want to consider these, if you can swing them:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B017ISY85O/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1526070576&sr=8-2-spons&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=zosi+security+camera&psc=1

I have these because I’m in a rental & can’t hardwire in a decent system. This has an NVR & no cloud back up, which is not ideal. You also have to plug them into a power source, but they have really long cord. I suspect long enough to cross a tandem garage. It installs super easy. I got them when I lost my DVPO against narc husband. They are pretty affordable.

If she’s on any kind of timeout, and if there is a family tradition or her birthday coming up, she may escalate. If he’s done for good, I expect she’ll escalate.

I know I’m preaching to the choir, but I wouldn’t let her around my kids. She’s abusive af.

u/Black_Delphinium · 32 pointsr/LetterstoJNMIL

(hugs) You got this Crow.


Just a thought, do you think you might get some relief from scratch art paper?