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First, I'd posit that you are probably working off incomplete information. That is to say, that the kind of women interested in relationships with you are not likely to have 'advertised' this to you. Women are often subtle about indicating serious romantic interest in a guy they like.

You also may be looking at the 'wrong' demographic of women for your relationship interests.

Additionally, trying to use economics as a way to determine the logic behind the relationship/sexual choices women make is not going to be very successful for you in accomplishing your stated goal of a loving relationship. You'd be better off studying psychology (which is kind of where the Red Pill is coming from, albeit not very well as some Red Pill premises are inherently toxic).

Another thing that the Red Pill does is teach men is how to set boundaries with women, and give them permission to do so. Healthy boundaries are at the core of healthy relationships! All this discussion about women 'manipulating' men with sex would be moot if the parties involved had healthy boundaries and appropriate ways of communicating those boundaries.

Granted, a lot of this is what I consider to be next level stuff. Hacking an economic theorem for personal relationship dynamics, as appealing as it is, doesn't really deal with the reality of men and women. Also, using your perceptions of your experiences and extrapolating that to "all women" is ridiculous. Obviously, you have a biased sample set, and you've connected with other men with the same biased sample set to confirm and reaffirm each other's conclusions.

We've lost something profound in our culture, and that is the understanding of and respect for maturity and the maturation process. A lot of what you are talking about doesn't happen between grown adults and, when it does, it is because those adults are emotionally immature.

I hope you don't mind, but I'd like to recommend a book to you that I think will resonate with you, and constructively act as a guide instead. David Deida's "Blue Truth" explores masculinity and femininity in a way that is not dehumanizing or denigrating to men or women. "The masculine directs, the feminine invites."

The Red Pill mindset, the stratagems and game people employ, are for boys who want to play with a toy. But look back on the truth you have claimed; you want a relationship, you yearn for connection. The toy won't make you happy, and you certainly won't respect the process, or people involved. I think it goes even deeper, however. The Red Pill appeals to guys who are looking for the path and meaning of becoming a man.

The Red Pill is an exercise in trying to turn back the clock, in scarcity mindset, and antagonistic worldview and relationships. There is a step forward, but it asks for everything you have; your intelligence, your maturity, your growth and introspection. Instead of looking for flaws in the other to make yourself feel better, you'll look to yourself to actually become better.

That said, you are 19 years old. There is absolutely nothing wrong with where you are right now and nothing wrong with you.

I'll bite. So, the last book of many relationship books I read was this one:

http://www.amazon.com/The-Secrets-Happily-Married-Men/dp/0787994146

Standard advice like the majority give: be helpful, attentive, do more dishes, be ok with her taking your labors and not giving a shit about you. Accept that the moon and mercury have to be in alignment for sex to happen. 20 years of doing it the way society says. Nothing.

I got this book in November:

http://www.amazon.com/Married-Man-Life-Primer-2011/dp/1460981731/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1408725149&sr=1-3&keywords=Athol+Kay

December was an excellent month.

Delved further into RedPill concepts.

January was even better.