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1. I drink a large glass of metamucil every morning and night. It makes cleaning out incredibly easier. Also, I never eat foods that I know will throw me off... (chili, buffalo chicken, anything remotely spicy doesn't work well for me)
   
   
2. One trick that I've found, which I still find hard to abide by (because I'm so anal about making sure I'm spotless) is that often, less is more. I've found the best way to guarantee its going to take FOREVER to get clean is to get TOO much water up there. You definitely want to get a thorough cleansing, or atleast I do, so I can relax and enjoy getting fucked, but if you get lots of excess water up in your guts, it can be nigh impossible to get it all out before sex.
   
   
3. Use a toy. I always use a toy the approximate size of my partner as a last check. I get warmed up and then use it on myself pretty uh, well. Enough to simulate what its going to be like getting fucked later. Do this a bit, if you come out clean its about as good of a guarantee as you can get that your ready. If it doesn't... you'll be glad you've done this in the privacy of your shower instead of in the bedroom.
   
   
4. This one I guess is preference, but I use a shower douche, it basically is a little hose with a nice nozzle at the end that fits up your bum. It's much easier to hop in the shower and clean out then to repeatedly fill a douche, use it, expel, refill, etc... Link to example: http://amzn.to/10sMhGQ - This is what I've had the most success with over the years.
   
   I'm only 23, but I've been the bottom in a relationship for the past 5 years and I've not once had an 'accident' following this advice. Of course, there have been many nights I don't have anal sex if I am not 100% sure I'm going to be clean. Practice lots and you'll get a good feel for your body (what are good/ bad things to eat, how long after cleaning will you remain clean etc.)
   
   I have lots more advice, but I think these are the most important pieces of advice I have to offer. I hope this helps! The struggle to be a hygienic bottom is real.
   
   

How have you started having sex but haven’t topped or bottomed?

Planned parenthood does free std testing

Every 3 months is the usual if your extremely active.

If you plan on being that active I suggest getting on Prep, talk to a doctor about it. Also never go bareback unless you trust the person and have their recent std tests. Even then it’s a risk and based on you already needing your mind out at ease without even having sex, id suggest just not doing BB at all unless you have a monogamous partner. Purely for mental health

Bulbs can be bought at legit any store that sells health stuff. Even Walmart. Although I’d suggest a shower Enema kit eventually because it’s healthier in the long run

Shaving or waxing is the best bet for hair

Everyone saying that daily fiber supplements will help you is correct, but some methods/types are much more effective than others. Capsules and powders (i.e. Metamucil) will help, but they do NOT work nearly as well as just taking a tablespoon of plain whole-husk psyllium fiber once or twice a day. I recommend this brand

I find that actual whole-husk psyllium fiber is not really of a consistency to be able to effectively "mix" it in with water/juice etc., so I usually like to mix mine in with yogurt or oatmeal. Coconut yogurt is my favorite to use, because the texture of the fiber makes it seem like shredded coconut flakes.

no problem. Just do your homework first! Not sure where in the world you are but in the US the supplement industry is unregulated (their lobby is pretty powerful) and there are a lot of scams and a lot of expensive junk sold out there so you really have to do your homework.

I did my research first on this site because I wanted bigger loads (the stack there does work, although I prefer L-Citruline to L-Argenine because the latter gave me heartburn). Then I did some more homework and found out about horny goat weed. The brand I buy is from Vitamin Shoppe. I also bought this brand of tongkat ali at Vitamin Shoppe. Tongkat ali is also called longjack.

This is also another site I used to do my homework, although you might want to take it with a grain of salt. Still, the research links were useful.

I got my maca at GNC.

there's all kinds of stuff out there, much of it junk but some of it good, although there's nothing better than testosterone replacement therapy I hear.

Just do your homework before you go throwing money at it! :) Good luck man!

I take the recommended dose every morning. But I would start out with 1 tablespoon to a good pint of water or juice. Do that for a week and then kick up to 2 tablespoons.

From time to time I won't take it for about a week or two just to let everything go back to normal.

These images should give you and idea of what it's about.

I order it from Amazon. But word from the wise, don't waste your time or money with the pills or anything else. Brand is your own choosing, but always make sure it is "Whole Husk". There are also other supplements that I have heard people having better success with as well.

When that happened to me I would do the following:

• I would use my Bidet to clean after each stool.
  
• I would sit in a SITZ bath for about 30 minutes, twice a day. Use Epsom Salts with your SITZ bath
  
• I would use Hygienic Cleansing Lotion after each stool and each SITZ bath
  
• Use a stool softener
  
  In about 1 week you will be partially healed. DO NOT have anal sex yet. Drink half your body weight in ounces in water each day. This is important to keep your poo soft. Eat raisin bran cereal. Eat oatmeal. Eat anything with fiber. You will need at least 30 grams of fiber a day. This is to help keep your poo soft enough to pass through your fissure (Tear).
  
  In about 3 weeks or so you will be fully healed. Please, keep up the routine of fiber each day. Drink plenty of water each day. And for the love of GOD, use Lube. Use lots of LUBE!

I once hooked up with a guy with the same size and he gave me poppers to try. I hadn’t tried it before then but it really helped. It helps relax your hole. Try not to go crazy on them though. I usually only do it once or twice if I need to during sex. Use plenty of lube. Like a lot. I prefer: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000IK2D7U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_OQeTDbBQEMZDY

It sounds like you had an allergic reaction or some kind. See a doctor! Also stick to the advice people/websites/doctors/sexual health specialists give about what you stick up there. If you have a credit/bank card and ten dollars they sell these bulbs that you can fill with water and squeeze into your asshole very comfortably to clean up. I use those regularly and aside from a decent diet of fiber need nothing else. Try something like this this .

I use a Norelco Body Groomer 7000.

Works wonderfully on pubes and body hair in general (including hair around your hole) Can be used wet or dry. I use it dry with no shaving cream and I've never had an issue. Provides a nice clean shave.

The book 'The Multi-Orgasmic Male' has some great information. (Plus, the practice is fun).

https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should-ebook/dp/B000FC12XM/ref=sr_1_sc_1_twi_kin_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1519244063&sr=8-1-spell&keywords=the+multi+orgasmic+male

In my experience, KY Intrigue is the best silicone lube out there. It might be a bit expensive, but worth it in my opinion.


http://www.amazon.ca/gp/aw/d/B000MU9CSY#

https://www.amazon.com/Pipedream-Waterproof-Flexible-Beads-Purple/dp/B000819V2O

I have one similar to this but longer. Flexible so you can curve it to the exact angle you need. It doesn't even need the vibrations, but turn it on and get ready. I usually don't like toys (outside of plugs to loosen up) but this one is a guaranteed, earth shattering, mind blowing, wake the neighbors type orgasm every time for me.

If you're new to douching you should probably start with an enema bulb

Now this is just going to work for your standard, run of the mill fucking. Very deep or rigorous fucking and you may still have a mess. But for the average dick the bulb will do a fine job.

It doesn't have to be this exact one, but they're all basically the same, a compressible chamber that you will with water that attaches to a nozzle that you put into your ass. Squeeze, evacuate, repeat.

This was the one I started with. The chamber has a wide mouth so filling can be pretty easy if you take the nozzle off (course then you're touching a lubey mess of a nozzle). This one, like all bulb enema syringes, are going to leak slightly where the nozzle inserts into the chamber. This is just the way it is. There are ways to manage this, typically involve how much force you compress the chamber with.

The biggest downside is the nozzle itself can be difficult to clean (and you want to clean it). But they're mostly all going to be like that, so it's just the cost of doing business.

You are better off getting a shower shot.

The product called Preparation H.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0028AD6NI/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1419092875&sr=8-1&dpPl=1&dpID=41zgE77LEBL&ref=plSrch&pi=AC_SX200_QL40

I really like “wet”.
Like. Really really!

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000DZL33K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VNVACbV1WACEF

This tube is bigger than it looks btw. And all of them I have ever had have leaked. So store upright or you will find yourself very aroused, naked, staring at an unfixable stain on your carpet, then just disappointed and lonely; I assume anyway. Definitely wouldn’t know from experience. Heh heh.

I use this - it works everywhere and no irritation https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mangroomer-Yourself-Electric-Back-Shaver/dp/B000HQ0L2E

Yes, but it leaves you with a complex about most other penises, everything else looks small, My only other experience with dicks other than my own was porn, which didn't help.

Pre-lubing? Well in the late 90s it was taking the bulb off of a turkey baster, putting a good bit of K-Y Jelly in, put bulb back squeeze out air, insert a few inches and squeeze lube into ass.

These days there are things called lube shooters which are a hell of a lot easier. Do this no more than about 20 minutes before you expect to get started with sex. as always silicone lube lasts forever, but is not appropriate for every situation.