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u/ImYesILeffHisAss2398 · 2 pointsr/domesticviolence

Just as an FYI for you or those reading, we do not allow any fundraising in the sub or requests for donations here. If you are looking for actual resources I recommend you and your Mom check out /r/personalfinance about financial information and options. You can also look at /r/charity and /r/randomactsofamazon for help. You also may not need a wheel chair per se, you may work out well with rolling walker with a seat [like this](https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B01N5DQEUL/?coliid=I10U9OHCWZNHEM&colid=1OX6FEFNF9L3K&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it). Your Mom may want to reach out to a local abuse agency to help with resources and planning. She may want to consider reaching out to social services for help and to file for social safety net programs like medicaid if needed, food stamps, etc. And to figure out her health insurance and whats covered for you with things like durable medical equipment like the wheelchair or rolling cart. I know this is a lot. Its a lot going on. I dont know if you are dont high school or not. You may want to look for ideas on jobs in places like [this](https://www.wearecapable.org/). Maybe a medical transcription, etc. See if that helps. We wish you both luck.

u/Phoenie81 · 3 pointsr/domesticviolence

Hi friend

I'm really sorry that he's done this to you. The strangulation the running in terror it all sounds so scary and awful. I believe you and I'm sorry that others don't...the sad thing is that them not believing you doesn't change the fact that it did. People have a way of believing what they want to believe.

It's still early days and it sounds like you're in traumatic bonding which I'd expect so soon on. You need him to be there to give you hugs and support you're missing that without him and it's so hard. It's natural to want the day side of him you're bound to want that still there was all the good things you were drawn to.

The cars and his friends is really worrying. Can you get CCTV for your house? You can get it for under 100 on Amazon nowadays. Can you get deadbolts fitted on doors and an alarm? If nothing else it'll make you feel safer.

I'm really impressed with your strength here you're doing amazingly. Is there a dv outreach centre you can speak to, can the police refer you anywhere? Have you read Lundy Bancrofts book I think it'd give you great comfort. Don't forget we are here for you no matter what if you need anything just reach out

u/planet12 · 1 pointr/domesticviolence

I'll give you one more recommendation - a book.

"Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You" by Susan Forward.

http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Blackmail-People-Obligation-Manipulate/dp/0060928972

Reading this book, I was going "yup, she did that. Yup, that too. And that. And that. Yep. Yep. Uhuh. Hang on, was she using this as an operating manual or something?!"

It aptly chronicled the techniques my ex used over the years to break me down to the point where I would accept the physical violence from her. It also pointed out how it worked, and why I bought into it.