Top products from r/ldssexuality
We found 12 product mentions on r/ldssexuality. We ranked the 10 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
1. And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment
Sentiment score: 2
Number of reviews: 3
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2. Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love, and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Passionate Marriage Love Sex and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships
4. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Come as You Are The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
6. What Your Parents Didn't Tell You about Sex: An LDS Guide to Sexual Intimacy
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
8. Great Sex: A Man's Guide to the Secret Principles of Total-Body Sex
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Used Book in Good Condition
Maybe try reading "Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships"by David Schnarch. It was recommended to me here in this thread by /u/amalgamator and my wife and I found it exceptionally helpful when it came to incorporating this word into our bedroom fun. You can check your library for it or here's an Amazon link where you can buy it. (not a referral link).
Specifically I recommend looking into Chapter 10. The chapter is called ^(Fucking, Doing, and Being Done: It Isn't What You Do, It's the Way You Do It) and even just the first few paragraphs of that chapter are an excellent read to experience alongside your spouse. Good luck to you!
I read this one a while ago. It wasn’t amazing but I think it’s a good discussion starter. There was another but I can’t remember the name. That one was more about positions and suggestions. I found it helpful. A good amazon search will yield some good books to try.
There's a great book called Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski with tons of great exercises to help you navigate situations like this.
One of the exercises that comes to mind is creating a Yes | No | Maybe list. I made a model of one you can download here that might be helpful.
I think the most important thing is that you are both comfortable with your bodies, comfortable with your own sexuality and are comfortable speaking openly about it with each other. That means, when the time comes, being comfortable to say what you like, what you didn't like, etc. Also, this is a great research based book for understanding sexuality between partners and yourself
It's been a few months since your original post. How's it going? Any improvements? If you haven't read, "And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment." This is a great read for everyone!
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1587830345/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_c14TDbW608SPE
If any are interested here are two books that I highly recommend that explain this phenomenon.
The first is written from an LDS perspective and is my personal favorite. The title is "The Secret of Tiny Cloud". Here is a link to the print copy.
https://www.amazon.com/Secret-Tiny-Cloud-Mr-Woodhouse/dp/1537532049
or if you prefer an electronic copy
https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/the-secret-of-tiny-cloud/id899109849?mt=11
The second is more academic. It is called "Sex at Dawn.
https://www.amazon.ca/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/1491512407
Sure. My top three would be these:
Sexual Wholeness in Marriage https://www.amazon.com/dp/0981957641/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_B8SDCbSKZGE3Z
What Your Parents Didn't Tell You about Sex: An LDS Guide to Sexual Intimacy https://www.amazon.com/dp/1508608873/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_RZSDCbSS6V2V4
And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment https://www.amazon.com/dp/1587830345/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_R1SDCbHVJAKXZ
But the best known book on the subject is this:
Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy https://www.amazon.com/dp/1680476548/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_h7SDCbRA5JWKB
My wife and I have this problem from time to time. We read this book together and it helped her understand me as well as teaching me a few things about her as well.
https://www.amazon.com/They-Were-Not-Ashamed-Strengthening/dp/1587830345