Top products from r/makingfriends
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1. The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are
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You're probably a people pleaser.
People pleasing gets you hated more than being an asshole.
You don't have to be an asshole, but you have to develop a personality, and then stay true to that personality. Even if someone doesn't agree with it.
If someone disagrees with you on something -- so what? Dont agree just to agree and be liked. Again, that's people pleasing.
Another possibility is that you give to many fucks about what other people think.
Honestly, this is going to require some hard work on your part to get over.
Check out /r/howtonotgiveafuck and maybe check out Robert A. Glover's book No More Mr. Nice Guy.
This and this
Also couldn't hurt to dress better, lose weight, and gain muscle.
And my personal favorite, take an Improv class.
Do you mind if I give a bit of an alternative answer/advice?
I recomend you read The Book by the late philosopher Alan Watts. While it may seem like crock, I recommend you keep an open mind and give it a read. It's relatively short, contains many profound concepts, and may give you a new perspective on all this.