Step back and breath. I was just pointing out that the level of this person's usage of facebook is apt for the subreddit /r/oldpeoplefacebook. This is a common practice on reddit, pointing out a comment or post and saying that it would fit into another subreddit.

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Yep, breakups happen. They suck. I had a girl who I dated for 4 years and was living with break up with me. Often times you can use this as a time of introspection to ask yourself questions and be objective with the answer. Asking things like:

Why did this person break up with you?

I can only speculate, but I'll cover some of the most common reasons.

Was it because you, or they, need to grow more as a person?

Your post history says that You're a freshman, I'm going to assume in High School and not college. Regardless, your experience is real and I don't want to dismiss that. You've both got growing to do, I know High School (and even College) seem like they are the whole world. Being obsessed with popularity and the social games that are played.

It's often said that "the best revenge is a life well lived." Grieve for the loss of the relationship, that's normal, but the best way to move on is to show this person (and everyone else) that you've improved on yourself for yourself.

Were they no longer attracted to you?

You shouldn't change who you are to fit into the mold other people want. You should strive to be the best person you can be. If you do that and you remain strong and confident, then people will be attracted to you. When this happens and you find someone who is at their best, you will make great partners to each other. Focus on improving and growing yourself, when you do that people will recognize it.

Did they find some base reasoning that the relationship could not work?

You said that this breakup came after a discussion on evolution. This can be an aspect of a person's core beliefs. If they are religious evolution often goes against their beliefs and make them feel like you not believing the same as them.

If you want to seek a deeper understanding of the evolution v. religion topic I would suggest this video. I would also suggest Bill Nye's follow up book Undeniable: Evolution and the Science of Creation. This should give you more information on what science knows and be able to appeal to a source or existing arguments.

I would also check out the /r/CrashCourseYT series Philosophy. This will help you build logical arguments, so that way you can say what you believe, why you believe it, and why they should agree with you. In addition to keeping an open mind in case they also have information that might benefit you.

Was it because of your actions towards them or others?

Being verbally or emotionally abusive. You can assess your actions by reading this article. People can use your behavior towards them or others to identify if you're a good match for them. Generally showing kindness, even when someone is wrong, is key. If you're nice to others, then this can appeal to a possible mate. If you are cruel to others, then this signals people you might be interested in that you could, eventually, be cruel to them.

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I wish you the best and hope that some of what I have written will encourage you to become the best person you can be.

Edit: fuckin trolled

You should learn to cook! It's not hard! Just buy a few simple cookbooks. My favorite for fast and easy meals is Southern Living Quick and Easy cookbook

Before you start watch a few YouTube videos on kitchen knife handling and how to chop an onion. You'll learn how to make super tasty meals very quick in no time.

Would the quality of such fiction be comparable to the masterpiece of fiction that is Conquered By Clippy?

We had some fun reviewing this book a few years back when someone posted it on reddit.

https://www.amazon.com/Historicity-Jesus-Might-Reason-Doubt/dp/1909697494

As I said it is generally accepted but still debated.

Generally accepted does not mean it is a fact.

There's a fascinating book about the Beanie Baby boom. It goes into what a total kook the Ty guy is and how many people ruined their lives by getting caught up in it. The judge supervising a divorcing couple splitting up their collection one by one is absolutely surreal.

Dat link

This guy also wrote a book about why he sued Taylor Swift for not being his girlfriend. I'm conflicted because I don't want to give this dude money but I really, really want to read his trash book.

https://www.amazon.com/Why-Sued-Taylor-Swift-Frivolous/dp/069297010X

Bro a men's wedding ring is like $10

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B009PFJ1YC/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?ie=UTF8&qid=1503982122&sr=8-10&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=tungsten+rings

I found the original post, and gotta say the stuffed animals is kinda cool

Has anyone tried reading the Amazon reviews for this? https://www.amazon.com/dp/1565546660/ref=cm_cr_dp_d_vote_lft?ie=UTF8&voteInstanceId=R2T4T44VO0POT0&voteValue=1&csrfT=gqbklUkXuIzfPmte%2FRWWhopQwYEZdkuRajzs0moAAAABAAAAAFvrbiFyYXcAAAAA%2B4kUEk%2F7iMGR3xPcX6iU#customerReviews

> I simply can't find anything that fits

https://www.amazon.com/dgp-DP0398-Extra-Small-Condoms/dp/B003ZV1YV0

google is silently judging me

Link? Found it https://www.amazon.com/Inf-way-Necklace-Languages-Projection-Collarbone/dp/B07G88N17Y?th=1&psc=1

Shoe lift kits
https://www.amazon.com/Fuloon-Height-Increase-Taller-Cushion/dp/B00D9FWM9U?th=1

The link to this masterpiece

good looks fam

It is paved.

https://www.amazon.com/Road-Recovery-Paved-Dog-Treats/dp/0981555187

Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence https://www.amazon.com/dp/0313356718/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_SDLmDb5HXN873

(b) in general, women and men perpetrate equivalent levels of physical and psychological aggression,

It isn’t a large difference, but it usually is that women use force more often, but men have a much higher intensity. Basically women scratch you, men send you to the morgue.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2968709/

www.sakkyndig.com/psykologi/artvit/hoff2014.pdf

https://scholar.google.com/scholar?rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS734US734&hl=en-US&prmd=niv&biw=414&bih=832&um=1&ie=UTF-8&lr&q=related:y6gmYDk_Lqb7UM:scholar.google.com/#d=gs_qabs&u=%23p%3D39F4Gc_ZDU0J

If you look at the comment I was replying to, that person specifically said that giving a fake number is useful to avoid awkwardness. The rest of the comment remains the same, whether you're trying to avoid awkwardness or a physically violent situation. I would say if you have reason to believe you are in potential immediate danger, the last thing you should do is stay around long enough to humor them and increase the risk by being blatantly dishonest. I also think that you're assuming a worst case scenario where it isn't necessary. Is there any other scenario in life where it is socially acceptable to exercise full-blown prejudice? What would become of our lives if we took all worst case scenarios and assumed them in any other similar situation? Did you look at the image in the original post at all? Do you think she gave him a fake number because she was in imminent danger? Do you think violent rapes actually start with a guy asking a girl for her phone number? I'm not saying you shouldn't recognize your vulnerability and act in ways to preserve your wellbeing. But from a defensive perspective, that would mean not putting yourself in situations like that at all, wouldn't it? Here is a link to a book that completely changed my perspective on lying, if you're interested. =) Lying https://www.amazon.com/dp/1940051002/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_GYcWzbEFV7NV6
 
Overall, it behooves you and I both to be honest all the time. You can try to make up excuses, be sexist, and exaggerate your circumstances to explain your dishonesty, but it does not help you in the development of your own character.