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Amazon has affordable kids clothing in a wide range of sizes for girls: Dress 1, Dress 2, dress 3. You didn't mention the boys outfits so I'm assuming they're acceptable but Amazon does have suits for boys as well. My particular favorite although that one is a bit expensive.

Edit: English is hard and my meds are kicking in.

It looks like one of those knuckle rings that are usually thin and dainty and come in sets like this.

Not season and location appropriate. This is def a mid-Spring style dress

I would suggest a heavier weight jewel tone dress, maybe similar to this? https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077YGZ1BW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_cUFWDbYG76XE6 or this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N52PH0A/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_AVFWDbF2Q62PC

Char is an an emotionally abusive relationship that's only going to escalate further into other forms of abuse. I'm afraid if she doesn't want to get out, you guys can't help her.

Dick is using the textbook tactic of isolating her from her friends. He didn't have an issue with your ads, he was looking for something to as a stepping stone to isolate someone who loves Char and is looking out for her happiness(in this case, you).

Try to reach out and let Char know you love her and are always willing to help out. It was a great idea to spend that much on wedding gifts. Dick might stop trying to get her away from you and that means Char can still come to you if she needs help. I'm not sure from the info here if you should tell her she's in an abusive relationship directly—you guys were raised by traditional families and Char might get a knee jerk defensive reaction if you tell her her husband is abusive.

I'd suggest you try and read Why Does He Do That? : https://www.amazon.com/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656