Reddit reviews Goody Ouchless Flex Small Updo Barrettes, 2 Count by Goody Ouchless [Beauty]

I don't think I do anything special. It might help that my hair is fine and isn't hard to get through the hair tie. The tie goes around easily three times. If you have more or thicker hair maybe try a larger elastic so it fits through easier? I think it helps that I don't have to force my hair through. Also, I'm not wearing one but I'd really suggest this hair tie. They are rubber so they don't pull your hair out, and you don't have to pass your hair through them. They look a little silly in a high pony but great for a low one.