Reddit reviews Guerrilla Dating Tactics: Strategies, Tips, and Secrets for Finding Romance

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Does California have some sort of a crazy low male-to-female population I've never heard about? "Nice guys" under age 30 normally have a rough time finding female companionship last I checked. You might also consider Alaska if you're seeking a higher male-to-female ratio.

Overall, I tend to think that a woman in her twenties without any kids and of reasonable looks and weight shouldn't have too much difficulty finding a decent male if she's actively looking regardless of where she lives. I recommend reading these two books if you're really having trouble:

Why Men Are the Way They Are - explore the details of male psychology and male/female dynamics, providing valuable and useful knowledge helpful in the search for a mate. Find out why women often have so much difficulty finding a man.

Guerrilla Dating Tactics: Strategies, Tips, and Secrets for Finding Romance - I read this like 25 years ago when I was on the market and remember it's being fun and possibly useful.

Coming to North Dakota for economic reasons makes sense in some circumstances, but I don't think I'd make the move primarily for the purposes of finding a mate. In fact, that's really the only reason to come here - economic reasons. It's a cold, flat and boring state and would probably be a gigantic shock if all you've ever known is California. It might be described as "journey into Ice Hell" in those regards. Long term you might be happier in a place like Colorado or the Pacific Northwest. For North Dakota, you should look at Fargo, Bismarck, and maybe Grand Forks. Also, consider investigating Billings, Montana, Sioux Falls, South Dakota, and Omaha, Nebraska. Have you also considered Minneapolis? That's a very nice city.

Fargo does have a good job market, but a great many of those jobs are low-skilled, low-paying (sub-$15/hour) retail service jobs. We also have a couple call centers here (not sure if they're sub-$15 or what). The competition for jobs requiring a college degree in non-STEM fields should be relatively fierce since the Fargo-Moorhead area is a college town with three colleges pumping out job hungry graduates. If you normally have difficulty finding a better than fast food job then North Dakota might make some sense; it might not be too hard to get a job at one of those call centers and from what I've heard they pay better than fast food.

Wherever you move to, you should definitely investigate heavily over the Internet and come visit in person for a couple days before making a commitment. If you don't have any kids or student loans or other debt obligations then you might be in a great position to pick a place where you'd really like to live that also has a combination of a reasonable job market and cost of living. If you do have debt obligations then economic factors become much more pressing in which case North Dakota might start to make some sense.

Indeed, there's a book, 'Guerilla Dating Tactics' (whoa! it's certainly worth $0.01 + shipping) - it's pretty good; written by a woman, but has psychology and pretexts and .. it's good. I haven't used its advice yet because I'm too .. timid, but it is indeed guerilla and ice-cutting. And not exploitative.