Reddit reviews How to Pick a Spouse

If you think you can come on this sub and find a simple solution to finding a spouse, you're making a terrible mistake. If you think that a group of strangers, Christians or no, can tell you what you're doing wrong, you're making a mistake.

For now, I'm not particularly sure how reading your Bible and praying more to get closer to Jesus are going to help you find a wife. Those things are going to help you get closer to God, sure, but in the privacy of your own home. Get out there and join some ministries––work with other people in as many capacities as you can. Doing volunteer stuff through church is a great way to meet like minded people. That's about the best advice I can offer since I know literally nothing about you.

edit: by "popular" demand, you should read this book. It's actually very helpful for making good decisions. it will not, however, magically find you a girlfriend.