Reddit reviews Legacy Decor 4-Panel Blossom Screen Room Divider, Black
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This Japanese inspired room divider features 4 rice paper panels in a blossom screenFrame is made of wood with black wood veneer finish.Folds flat for easy storage.Hinged sections flex and fold to accommodate for space.Product dimensions: 71"H X 70" Wide
\> How do you maintain privacy?
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It's going to depend on what you mean by "privacy". At one level you are "multicasting[1]" a sex show over an international network, so anyone can watch it, archive it, and etc. and on that level there is no privacy--what you are doing and what is turning you on about this is that you are PUBLICLY having sex and where others can interact with you at some level. That is inherently un-private.
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What I suspect you are really asking is "how do I remain anonymous while do this". Which is a lot easier, depending on a few things.
[1] Technically inaccurate, but the so is broadcasting. However it is accurate enough)
You're probably gonna have to glue stuff to the wall, but here's how you can do it without leaving any marks.
Use these: https://www.amazon.com/Command-Picture-Hanging-8-Medium-17203-ES/dp/B000OF6X48/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1535906789&sr=8-3&keywords=command+strips+velcro
They're basically plastic velcro strips with water soluble adhesive. You put one on each back corner of the thing you want to hang (like a picture, or in your case an acoustic foam panel), and another on the wall where you want to hang the thing. Then you can basically put the panel on and off the wall like a sticky note.
When you move out, just wipe the strips on the wall with a sponge and the adhesive will start to dissolve. After a few seconds, you can slowly remove the velcro strip with no damage to the wall. More instructions come with the package but that's basically it.
If you REALLY don't want to hang stuff on the wall, you can buy some room divider/screen thingies and hang your acoustic panels on them: https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Decor-4-Panel-Blossom-Divider/dp/B0062CEMPY/ref=lp_3734261_1_2?s=furniture&ie=UTF8&qid=1535907125&sr=1-2 There may already be a sound/acoustic product like this, I don't know.
Two more things: I wouldn't bother with acoustic treatment unless you know for sure you really need it, since it's probably kinda expensive and a PITA to set up. As for the neighbors, if you live in a detached home, the walls will do a better job of keeping in the sound than you think. Remember, your neighbors will be protected by TWO sets of walls (yours and theirs). So don't worry. Just make sure to play your music at its loudest during daytime hours only, and maybe listen from outside the house just to get a feel for how loud it will sound to your neighbors. But if it's an apartment or townhouse then you're shit outta luck.
NTA you are not an asshole.
Lots, maybe most, parents feel this way. Don't feel bad about it. However...it might be wise to read some psychology books about the teenage mind...to understand why so many people here are saying that teenagers need privacy and solitude.
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She might be wanting to keep paper journals, but can't be true to herself in her writings, if she knows there is a risk that her parents or siblings might find it and read it. Journaling can be a very healthy tool for a teenager. Sometimes paper helps one think in ways that a password protected word document does not.
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Truth is you could make her appreciate how lucky she is to even have her own room, let alone one with a door on it. There were times in my teens, when my door was not a door, but rather a doorway. My father had removed the door after I broke it one day (it was a cheap plywood makeshift door to begin with). So I went months before he got around to fixing me new one. I actually nailed a blanket up over the doorway at one point....What I am saying is that you could make her appreciate having had a door, by removing the door entirely, and just giving her one of those changing curtains that people used to use in the early 1900s, and still use in Japan. ie: https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Decor-4-Panel-Blossom-Divider/dp/B0062CEMPY/ref=sr_1_8?camp=1789&creative=9325&keywords=privacy+screen&linkCode=ur2&qid=1564416150&s=home-garden&sr=1-8
This would likely cause a big rift between the two of you though, as she would want to rebel more, do drugs more to escape, and may even grow to hate you. This is reality. You can't have your cake and eat it too. When you impose restrictions on another sentient mentally competent human being, they will feel as though their freedom is being tread on. Rebellion will become inevitable. You can try to restrict her and micromanage her or you can try to empower her and support her, and let her live her life. The control is no longer in your hands, and it shouldn't be. One person should not control another.
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Some of us only feel as though we can let our guard down, and relax all tenseness of our minds, when we know that no one's eyes are upon us. Knowing that no one will barge in (here is where the lock comes into play)...is a confidence that affords us comfort to do things like experimenting with our clothing, dancing unjudged, exploring our sexuality, journaling, building shrines of the guy we have a crush on at school (just kidding).
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During high school, as you might vaguely remember (I'm not calling you old, I'm not young anymore either)...well highschool is just a pressure pressure everywhere sort of thing, of constantly feeling like you are being judged from the left and from the right. So much so that teens...they get this mentality of....a sort of continuous fear of being judged...so their desire for a lock on their door can indeed be a sincere rational hope for a little fortress of solitude in their havoc highschool world. A place where they can feel that no one, not even their parents or siblings, will see and thus judge. A parent may not intend to judge, but that does not free the teen from the reality, that they will feel judged.
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Yes, it is possible, that she wants a lock, so that she can stash drugs. However, if a teen wants to do drugs, they will find a way. Whether behind a locked door in the safety of her home....or at a boyfriend's house...where she can be taken advantage of when her mind is off-key because of a drug.
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