Reddit reviews My Dad has Bipolar 1

Talk to them about it as they grow up. Explain the brain differences she has and help externalize the illness as something separate from her and something she experiences. Help them know that her reactions to things they do are not their fault (or hers). Never ignore it or think they won't notice.

My husband was diagnosed when my kids were a bit older. We had them in therapy as soon as he had his manic episode. They may need therapists so they can talk through some of the things to an unbiased person. My kids will continue to go to therapy and I will always encourage it. Mom may be the one suffering internally, but it's a whole family disorder. Allow your kids to always express their true feelings about it in a safe space. It's great that she calms down and apologizes. That's really great! She will have bad moments and that's ok. That's understandable. Modeling apologies and admitting when you're wrong will go a long way. They will be forgiving and understanding. They may also go through periods where they're angry and resentful. Don't dismiss those feelings. Always validate them. They will do just fine if you do!

I also made a kids book because I want other people to start the conversation with their kids too. To normalize it in a way. The book may not be super relevant to what your kids go through because it's based more on the bipolar 1 manic side. I plan to make one for bipolar 2 as well, but am in school full time and it's hard to take the time for the drawings. It makes me nervous to post the link because I don't want to give the impression I'm in it for the money. I make almost nothing off of it. But here it is if that is at ALL helpful: My Dad has Bipolar 1 https://www.amazon.com/dp/1549651420/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_mDeGDbJ05C1CN