Reddit reviews NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children

>Now, I just need to find something that tells me how to talk to kids about race, because I can only find vague stuff about how "remember, everybody's equal" doesn't cut it.

Chapter 4: Why White Parents Don't Talk About Race:
http://www.amazon.com/NurtureShock-New-Thinking-About-Children-ebook/dp/B002LHRLO8/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1398787675&sr=1-1&keywords=nurture+shock

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