Reddit reviews SINY® 3-Layer Shoe Insoles Height Increase Taller Pad Air Cushion for Men Women Black 6cm 2.5 inches

Hey there! Listen, you are totally valid in how you feel and it is okay to be frustrated. I might not be able to do much, but I have a few thoughts that might help.

First things first: height. There are some subtle ways to get around this. There are a lot of things available for trans guys and generally short guys who want to be taller. There are shoe wedges that are designed to go inside the shoe and give you a little boost (also known as shoe lifts). You can find these all over the internet for pretty cheap. Here's one that will give you 2.5 extra inches.

Another suggestion would to be to wear shoes that are slightly taller than the average shoe. This can be anything from platform shoes/boots to most basketball or sport shoes. You can also combine these thicker shoes with shoe lifts for an added boost. My suggestion: if you go looking for thicker shoes, Adidas makes some really nice shoes but I would recommend going to shoe stores and looking for shoes with a very wide base. This will not only give you a slightly extra boost, but will also help with foot posture and prevent your ankles from pronating. Also, they look cool. (I usually go that rout, but I'm currently freaking out over the fact that my feet are small enough to allow me to wear boys shoes, which means I am currently in possession of shoes that light up with every step I take. It's awesome!)

Next up: top surgery. This is a really big concern for a lot of people. Ultimately, the final decision is yours. However, scars tend to heal up pretty easily. If you have parental support, then your scars will actually have a much higher chance of healing up to the point of being near invisible. High visibility of scars typically comes from stretching or overworking yourself too early on. Even so, there are ways of hiding them that range from simple covering up with a shirt, makeup (there are waterproof makeups available), and tattooing. You can also request that the surgeon make your scars uneven or discuss other possibilities with them.

Last but not least: hips. This is going to take the longest to see any changes for. I've been on T for three years now, and I still have a somewhat feminine build. It's really obvious if I'm naked or if my pants are cinched tight at my waist (I wear my pants around my hips for a reason). Now, I started taking hormones when I was 19 and I was never on blockers, so a lot of my problem is in my skeletal build. Not much i can do about that. However, fat placement takes a loooooong time to start shifting. You may not start seeing noticeable results for another year, at least. There are some subtle tricks to get around that, though.

Wearing jeans and pants around your hips helps a lot with the general outline you create. Polo shirts help a lot because of the generally heavier fabric. Hides your actual body shape and creates a pretty clever illusion. Stripes also help a lot, though I would recommend horizontal or slanted stripes. Definitely check this guy out for clothing suggestion: http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/ Please note that you should probably go through that on your own or when you have some privacy. While there's no nudity, there are some sections with guys in their underwear. take that as you will.

It's not much, but I really hope this helps. Good luck and I hope things start getting easier for you soon.

>Are you short (<5'9")?

>Are you skinnyfat or just fat?

>Are you shy/introverted(can only feel comfortable with other Asians)?

>Do you have "soft" facial features(ie weak jawline)?

>In a dead-end career?

The solutions to these problems, in the most simplified form, are:

• wear lifts (pulled this up from my Amazon account, I practice what I preach)
  
  
• up protein intake, drastically reduce carb intake (especially sugar)
  
  
• keep putting yourself in social situations. don't judge yourself if you get panic attacks, extreme nervousness, etc. it doesn't matter. a little birdie told you it will get better with time
  
  
• lift heavy
  
  
• (not really qualified to give career advice, sorry. sure there are people on this very sub that can help with that though)

http://www.amazon.com/3-Layer-Height-Increase-Elevator-Insole/dp/8963293157/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1425982294&sr=8-1&keywords=shoe+lifts

I just got the one that amazon recommended. These ones I think https://www.amazon.com/3-Layer-Insoles-Height-Increase-Cushion/dp/8963293157?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_1

Fixed that for you.

http://www.amazon.com/3-Layer-Height-Increase-Elevator-Insole/dp/8963293157/ref=pd_sim_hpc_7?ie=UTF8&refRID=055QETSMBA022GXN5H8N

And don't give me that bullshit about, oh, it's dishonest. Everything about a woman's appearance is often dishonest. Face paint, high heels, padded bra, spanx.

By the time it's time to take off your shoes and nail her, she'll be too horny to change her mind. Or sit on the bed before you take off your shoes and she won't know until much later.