Reddit reviews Stepmonster: A New Look at Why Real Stepmothers Think, Feel, and Act the Way We Do
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There's a book by Wednesday Martin about being a step mother, which talks about some of the issues you are facing. Obviously, she's writing from the female perspective but it sounds like some of the issues are the same for step fathers. You might give it a read.
https://www.amazon.com/Stepmonster-Look-Real-Stepmothers-Think/dp/1517071380/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1474679527&sr=8-3&keywords=wednesday+martin
I came here to cautiously recommend therapy. My recommendation caused strain on our relationship. It turns out guys don't want you to send constant emails about every therapist within 20 miles who sees kids... If they go to therapy and you're privy to the info, read up on the diagnosis to see how you can help them thrive! I'd also spend less time parenting and more time reading up on step/parenting. Terrible twos often bleed into the threes. Reading was incredibly therapeutic for me.
Stepmonster - popular here, I'm a fan
Single Girl's Guide - never read, well reviewed
How To Talk So Kids Will Listen
The Whole-Brain Child
Subtle Art - best book ever