Reddit reviews Braun Epilator for Women, Silk-epil 9 9-521 Hair Removal for Women, Wet & Dry, Cordless, and 2 Extras

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I’ve seen so many posts on women not enjoying sex and/or on partner incompatibility, so I put together a quick info/resource guide to help a girl (or guy) out! I’m a married woman who’s been with the same partner for 15+ years, and I’ve worked in the women’s health field for a long time. I’ve also taken it upon myself to read, research and discover what works! So let’s get started.

Many people don’t realize that *most women need more than just PIV/penetrative sex to orgasm. Most women need external/clitoral stimulation. This can include things like outercourse (rubbing the penis on the outside of the vagina), grinding, dry humping, vibrators, vibrating cock rings, using the knuckles/fingers/mouth directly on the clitoris, foreplay (massages, lingerie, role play...), and etc.

Here’s some female anatomy info if you need help finding the clitoris: https://badgirlsbible.com/vagina-diagram

Here’s some foreplay ideas: https://badgirlsbible.com/foreplay-tips

A good rule for heterosexual sex is to take care of the girl first (clitoral stimulation or foreplay) and THEN take care of the guy. Penetrative sex alone doesn’t help me orgasm, but it does give a sense of closeness and intimacy with my partner, so I do find it enjoyable. If I can orgasm first, however, then penetrative sex usually feels amazing afterwards and it can potentially help me climax even more.

Podcast on how women can learn to achieve orgasm - great listening!: https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

For women, so much of sex is mental. If a woman cannot let a certain image of herself go, for whatever reason, it can be hard to feel sexy. This TED talk is great at pinpointing this issue: https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship

Certain things can lower sex drive (stress, medical conditions, medications, etc) - this article can shed light on some of these things and give tips on how to increase sex drive: https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-increase-sex-drive

Here are some more in depth guides for oral sex. How to give Oral sex to women: https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-eat-pussy How to give a blowjob: https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob

Here’s are some ideas to spice up your sex life (includes links to different positions, toys, dirty talk, and more): https://badgirlsbible.com/14-incredible-sex-tips

A guide to talking about sex with your partner (if you’re finding it awkward or need help navigating a discussion): https://badgirlsbible.com/sexual-communication

Here’s a great survey for you and your partner to take to see if there’s new things you’d like to try in the bedroom: https://mojoupgrade.com/

A couple more tips: If you don’t already, going bare or almost bare down there really helps to feel things more intensely. Many ladies wax (I don’t for personal and convenience reasons); I shave down to almost nothing with this ladies’ razor (it’s quick, easy, painless to use), and it makes for better feeling sex for both my partner and I. https://www.amazon.com/Braun-Silk-%C3%A9pil-Epilator-Electric-Packaging/dp/B00TI5ZN14

Having lube on hand is always nice as well. It doesn’t matter how ‘wet’ you are, extra lube can help with any friction or discomfort. Put a blanket down if you’re worried about being/getting messy!

If you’re having pain, itching or discomfort with condoms, switch to non-latex condoms - some people have a mild allergy and don’t even know it, and it can make a big difference.

Most of all relax, have fun and enjoy the moment and closeness with your partner! <3

Since there's a bunch of people suggesting epilators, I'll join the party...

Epilate! It's the beeeest. Hurts like hell for a while, but so worth it, and really easy once you've done it for a while.

Also, when I switched from a cheaper ($60) one to a pricier epilator... Life-changing. The difference in pain levels and efficiency is astounding. The more expensive one hurts way less and pulls hairs quickly and cleanly instead of breaking them.

For reference: http://www.amazon.com/Braun-Silk-Epil-Wet-Cordless-Epilator/dp/B00TI5ZN14 (SO GOOD.)

I use this one: Braun Silk-épil 9 9-521 Women's Epilator, Electric Hair Removal, Cordless, Wet & Dry, White/Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00TI5ZN14/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_B8esDb4Z530ZQ

It doesn't leave any shadowing and gets easier with each use because only a few hairs in the growth phase (anagen) pop up at a time and they are much finer at first. I have very dark hair in my underarms that leaves a shadow, but epilation solved that for me. I'd let it grow past stubble a little, so the tweezers have something to grab on to, but it doesn't need much length at all.

I use this one.