Reddit reviews Love & Respect
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I do dislike socially in vogue terms like "microcheating".
It would have been far more productive to say that your behavior was making her feel less important to you.
It might not have been "what" you were doing, but body posture, context, etc. etc. all those things that make an interaction were probably screaming to her that the women you were talking to were receiving vibe "I'm available"... or, if not that strongly, "I'm taken, but I COULD be available"
Either one is a threat to relationship security.
Forgetting your girlfriend's reaction, how did it feel getting that attention from those women? Probably pretty good. And they were sending you signals that you are pretty funny and awesome. YOU know that you have a girlfriend and that they weren't going to get to you, but you didn't establish guardrails of bringing your girlfriend into the conversation or catching her eye and winking, or any other number of things that would scream "I'm taken and crazy about that woman over there" - probably because you were enjoying the attention that they were lavishing on you.
It was enough of a signal that other women in the room read it (note that someone said something to your girlfriend...). They could have had your GFs interests at heart, or they could have been stirring up trouble, but there were enough signals there that it DID stir up trouble... that's a whole different thing that you probably don't want to bring up right now, but keep it mentally on the back burner.
I KNOW you haven't 'cheated', but it's a good time to take a look at things "as if" you had simply as a preventative measure. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xppx5R-AHL4 I think that you'll find it interesting...
I heard someone say once that the person the most at risk for infidelity is the person who things that they aren't capable of it... because they take it for granted and don't avoid risky situations.
Ok, so the why's are out of the way. What do you do now? Take a look at what needs she has (emotionally) that aren't being met. Women are pretty easy emotionally
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