Best shapewear control panties for women according to redditors

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01F51YWBG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_qsxJDbSEFYCH3

NSFW link, obvs, but you can see how it pulls up on the inside and makes that weird unnatural curve.

SOURCE: I’m a girl and I bought a pair but I never wore them in public because it made my butt look weird.

Oh, I had a quarter life crisis about this at the beginning of the year (when I turned 25). I had an event that I needed a nice dress for (but that I also wanted to be able to wear out later), and I could not find anything ANYWHERE. I went to places like Forever 21 and H&M, but I felt like a grandma squeezing into candy-pop clothes. Then I went to Anthro and Nordstrom and felt like a dowdy old woman. FINALLY I found Bettie Page, my new boo. I ended up buying three outfits, but here's the only one I have a picture of.

Dress

Purse

Heels: Thrifted

Bra

Spanx

I have an illusion neckline as well! The dress looks awesome on you! Here’s the strapless I ordered that was recommended by the bridal shop. I have a fairly large chest so I just ordered it in the biggest size they had lol. It’s a little small in the cup on me but the band fits which is good. I would suggest giving it a try!

Dominique Noemi Strapless Longline Bra, 44DD, Ivory https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01G689A50?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf

And since I’m sharing ahapewear haha here’s the bottom shapewear I ordered. I’m normally a 2x but upped to a 3x so I didn’t suffocate and they fit really well.

Women's High Waist Tummy Control Slim Panty Cotton Underwear Plus Size Nude 3XL https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01K6SPGOK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_BJYSAb7DXZAV4

http://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Buttocks-Shaper-Control-Instant/dp/B003OJYFOQ

Well, if you haven't heard of it then it must not exist. Amazon is just fucking with you.

I wear these every single day, give me much nicer curves. They’re cheap and durable, but don’t do much to minimize your stomach. Overall I’ve been really happy with them, though. YIANNA Womens Tummy Control Panty Underwear Pads Butt Lifter Shaper Fake Butt, A1117-Skin-4XL https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075RB8PCR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_mLHYDbJE48821

Yep. Butt enhancing shapewear is totally a thing.
It even has pretty good reviews, actually.

/u/O-fivetwentynine I like the laser edge breathable active undies like this. I feel like they are pretty invisible and they are also wicking so workouts are slightly more comfortable.

Great! They can go with these underwear.

https://www.amazon.com/Vollence-Silicone-Buttock-Shaper-Enhancer/dp/B07BDHPHVG?th=1

The best we can tell it is one of these.

you just need the right gear

You could probably get spanx that sit low if you're worried about your hips and thighs. https://www.amazon.com/SPANX-Thinstincts-Mid-Thigh-Shorts-XSmall/dp/B018X44USW/ref=sr_1_3?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1492102909&sr=1-3&nodeID=1294872011&psd=1&refinements=p_89%3ASPANX

still might be too high though...

These are the ones I have. I have a short torso and the hit right under my belly button.

Innersy Women's Cotton Soft Briefs Underwear Postpartum High Waisted Slimming Panties(XXX-Large, Solid 3 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DL4F8DG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_kSU0DbM07FMVZ

I feel that. I currently have 5 pairs of acceptable panties for high waisted pants. Three of them are Brazilian cut like these and the other two are like these. Brazilian is my fave because there’s no turbo wedgie if you have more voluminous cheeks.

I recently bought a huge variety and these were the hands down winners Classic Black Lace Shapewear... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CRXGOQ6?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

There is always cheating too
Pandolah Women's Lace Butt Lifter Push Up Panty Shapewear Briefs (M, Skin color-3) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0186Z2W60/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_ii49yb0Q3MCY0

I got these ones - only around 20 quid and arrived next day!

Merry Xmas.

2pc Silicone Insert Pads Shapewear Knickers Buttock Backside Bum Padded Butt Enhancer Hip Up Underwear Panties (200g - XL, Low Waist Black) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N2RYVYY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_kjEwybW5E1WRP

Do you want something like this I've never tried one but I saw them on a blog the other day.

That one has mediocre reviews but amazon seems to have a lot of them.

I got it off Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/SODACODA-Boyshort-Enhancer-Control-Cincher/dp/B00G94RVEY/ref=sr_1_1?s=clothing&ie=UTF8&qid=1462875987&sr=1-1&keywords=hip+pads

I had a major myomectomy about 7 months ago and it took me about a full month to feel like myself again. Of course, all our recoveries are different. I know I wrote a lot here, but just wanted to be as helpful as possible. Good luck!

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1. The first week you will have a very hard time getting around. Make sure you are recovering somewhere where you don't have to walk up and down stairs. If you do have to walk up and down stairs, make sure you have a friend or family member that can spot you for the first few days.
   
2. If you're able to have a friend or family member stay with you the first few nights, this would be really helpful, especially if there are any emergencies.
   
3. You're going to get super constipated. Make sure you're eating prunes or anything else to help in that department!
   
4. Because my constipation was really bad, I weaned myself off pain pills and took a high dose of CBD oil in its place (of course, if you feel comfortable doing this). Charlotte's Web has really high quality CBD oil.
   
5. High-waist panties are really helpful at keeping all your bandages in place. I really like these ones.
   
6. It's really important that the wounds don't get infected. I took Dr Christopher's INF formula and Wild Oregano oil every day after I weaned myself off the pain killers. Of course, you don't have to do this, but I was really paranoid about having to go back to the doctor so soon after my surgery. I do believe this helped deter infections.
   
7. The first few weeks I had a hard time getting in and out of bed. What helped me was to pack my sheets really well under the bed, and I'd use my upper body strength to pull on the sheets in order for me to sit upright. Or if you're able to make some kind of "pulley system" on your chairs/beds, this might be helpful too. You want to focus on not using your stomach muscles during recovery and focus on your upper body strength. Of course, having a solid core will help, but you'll be in a lot of pain if you're using your stomach muscles to get in and out of chairs/beds.
   
8. Move around once or a few times a day. Just "baby steps" around your house. I would just walk in an out of rooms for a few minutes. Don't overdo it! Sometimes you'll feel like your pain is gone and you'll walk a little faster and then pay for it later on. Take your time :)
   
9. If you have animals, I highly suggest getting something like this to help deter them from getting near your belly. It's also nice to have to catch up on work and emails.
   
10. I wasn't really able to wear jeans for a few weeks. If you're a leg shaver, you'll have a hard time shaving your legs for a few weeks. While I normally wouldn't care about something like this, I do have to see clients at my job, so I invested in maxi dresses. They have super cute and inexpensive stretchy ones on Amazon. I also invested in some biker shorts to wear under the dress, which helped my belly stay in place, in addition to my high waist undies. Make sure nothing is TOO tight!
    
11. I didn't have an appetite for several days after the surgery. Certain food smells made me ill, but you really need to take food with your medication. Get some saltines or Ritz crackers for emergencies.
    
12. Don't lift anything heavy. If you think it might be too heavy, it probably is. Ask someone for help.

https://www.amazon.com/KIWI-RATA-Seamless-Enhancer-Underwear/dp/B06ZY1HQDL/ref=pd_lpo_vtph_200_bs_t_1?_encoding=UTF8&refRID=0GN48SX766QXVY80TFSY

This should help you out