Best vocabulary books according to redditors

We found 99 Reddit comments discussing the best vocabulary books. We ranked the 33 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.

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Top Reddit comments about Vocabulary Books:

u/whatisthesun · 26 pointsr/FreeEBOOKS

For anybody living outside of the States:

Spanish:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B073Z2YJFT

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B073Z2YJFT

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B073Z2YJFT

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B073Z2YJFT

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B073Z2YJFT

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B073Z2YJFT

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B073Z2YJFT

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B073Z2YJFT

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B073Z2YJFT

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B073Z2YJFT

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B073Z2YJFT

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B073Z2YJFT

French:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B074HDZP3L

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B074HDZP3L

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B074HDZP3L

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B074HDZP3L

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B074HDZP3L

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B074HDZP3L

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B074HDZP3L

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B074HDZP3L

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B074HDZP3L

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B074HDZP3L

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B074HDZP3L

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B074HDZP3L

Italian:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07C1692CG

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07C1692CG

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07C1692CG

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07C1692CG

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07C1692CG

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07C1692CG

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07C1692CG

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07C1692CG

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07C1692CG

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07C1692CG

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07C1692CG

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07C1692CG

German:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07JKG2S5J

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07JKG2S5J

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07JKG2S5J

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07JKG2S5J

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07JKG2S5J

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07JKG2S5J

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07JKG2S5J

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07JKG2S5J

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07JKG2S5J

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07JKG2S5J

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07JKG2S5J

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07JKG2S5J

Portuguese:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

Russian:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MRM7NLM

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07MRM7NLM

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07MRM7NLM

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07MRM7NLM

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07MRM7NLM

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07MRM7NLM

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07MRM7NLM

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07MRM7NLM

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MRM7NLM

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07MRM7NLM

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07MRM7NLM

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07MRM7NLM

English:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

u/seatraveler · 8 pointsr/writing

I do creative writing, mostly poetry, and looking for and applying "weird" methods to help me generate ideas for new pieces is in my blood. Experimentation, having fun, trying to break convention, challenging yourself, and finding new perspectives are all your best friends in the pursuit of “creativity.” There’s standard advice (exercise, meditation, socializing) that works wonders but I’ll avoid those for the purposes of this response.

Note: I've used these various methods to "come up" with ideas but these methods don't account for editing or selecting the "best" ideas. A great quote from Stephen King to keep in mind beyond the idea generation stage: “A writer’s notebook is the best way in the world to immortalize bad ideas. My idea about a good idea is one that sticks around and sticks around and sticks around.”

Word Games

There's Shiritori which is a Japanese word game in which you write down a word and then the successive word you write must begin with the letter the previous word ended with (ex: apple/elope/enormous/sandal) and I've adapted this by coming up with twelve words and trying to make a piece using those words. Playing Scrabble has also helped inspire me.

Inspiration Apps

There's a great app for iPhone brainsparker which provides words, phrases, quotes, and other bits of inspiration. It's similar to Brian Eno's creative thinking strategy known as Oblique Strategies (app 1 and app 2) but what puts brainsparker ahead for me is the ability to set push notifications at a certain time of day so that I can passively get new bits of inspiration delivered to my phone.

Impose Limitations

Similar to the Dr. Seuss 50-word challenge, I have done things like try to make pieces based on sets of words such as the 100 Most Commonly Used Words in English, the lyrics from a particular song, or something from a famous document like the U.S. First Amendment.

Engage the Senses

A very new method I’ve used for at least one piece involves taking a recent situation I want to write about and jotting down how my senses were involved in the situation (the common ones, non-common ones like kinesthetic or hunger, and abstract ones like beauty or humor) and constructing a piece from that.

Wikipedia Rabbit Holes

I’ve found inspiration looking through Wikipedia articles about anything and everything though this can become a bit of a bottomless pit.

Say It Out Loud/Draw It

I’ve done stream-of-consciousness audio recording sessions and free-doodling to come up with pieces.

Become Someone (or Something) Else

I’ve adopted different personas and written from their voice, such as someone who sleepwalks, a preacher, a tyrannical politician. I’ve written from the voice of inanimate objects like an IMAX screen.

Launch a Project

I did a Word of the Day Poem project for a little over 100 days in a row, inspired by the kind of daily practice mentality of that famous Seinfeld anecdote about writing every day, marking an X on a calendar, and making sure you don’t break the chain.

Word of the Day Keeps the Doctor Away

Similar to the project above involves tracking and subscribing to a “Word of the Day” like with Dictionary.com or A.Word.A.Day or even a physical calendar which is what I primarily use now.

Write in the Dark

I’ve tried writing in the dark before, which didn’t really work, but I enjoy mixing up “how” I write and the environment I write in. Using pen and paper if you usually write on a computer, find a giant pen and write with that, write on the back of an envelope, go to a beach or park and write little notes using a stick. Anything you can do to still “write” but in a different way than you’re used to writing.

u/LBUlises · 7 pointsr/boburnham

Thanks, I just bought the book!

u/AnonymousHermitCrab · 6 pointsr/Spanish

I asked Reddit a similar question a while ago. I had someone suggest this book to me: https://www.amazon.com/Spanish-Vocabulary-Bible-Memory-Learner-ebook/dp/B012DSZATW

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I havent gotten the book myself yet because Im a broke college student, but there was a free trial thingy and it appears to have some good examples of this kinda thing in it.

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I cant find the actual website, but I think the main example they used in the description was the relationship between the words "Correr" and "Courier."

u/Craybutt · 5 pointsr/languagelearning

Copied from U/whatisthesun:

"For anybody living outside of the States:

Spanish:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B073Z2YJFT

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B073Z2YJFT

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B073Z2YJFT

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B073Z2YJFT

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B073Z2YJFT

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B073Z2YJFT

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B073Z2YJFT

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B073Z2YJFT

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B073Z2YJFT

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B073Z2YJFT

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B073Z2YJFT

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B073Z2YJFT

French:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B074HDZP3L

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B074HDZP3L

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B074HDZP3L

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B074HDZP3L

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B074HDZP3L

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B074HDZP3L

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B074HDZP3L

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B074HDZP3L

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B074HDZP3L

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B074HDZP3L

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B074HDZP3L

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B074HDZP3L

Italian:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07C1692CG

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07C1692CG

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07C1692CG

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07C1692CG

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07C1692CG

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07C1692CG

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07C1692CG

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07C1692CG

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07C1692CG

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07C1692CG

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07C1692CG

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07C1692CG

German:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07JKG2S5J

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07JKG2S5J

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07JKG2S5J

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07JKG2S5J

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07JKG2S5J

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07JKG2S5J

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07JKG2S5J

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07JKG2S5J

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07JKG2S5J

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07JKG2S5J

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07JKG2S5J

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07JKG2S5J

Portuguese:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07MGNXN3Y

Russian:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MRM7NLM

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07MRM7NLM

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07MRM7NLM

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07MRM7NLM

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07MRM7NLM

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07MRM7NLM

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07MRM7NLM

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07MRM7NLM

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MRM7NLM

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07MRM7NLM

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07MRM7NLM

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07MRM7NLM

English:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

DE: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

FR: https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

ES: https://www.amazon.es/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

IT: https://www.amazon.it/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

NL: https://www.amazon.nl/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

JP: https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

BR: https://www.amazon.com.br/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

CA: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

MX: https://www.amazon.com.mx/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

AU: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07MJ88SDZ

IN: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07MJ88SDZ. "

u/amazon-converter-bot · 5 pointsr/FreeEBOOKS

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u/MiaVisatan · 4 pointsr/languagelearning

My Swiss German links from another thread (some are in English):

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Chunsch druus?: Schweizerdeutsch verstehen Hörverstehensprogramm für Schweizerdialekte (this is a DVD course with a huge book): https://www.amazon.com/Chunsch-Druus-Buch-MIT-Audio-Cds/dp/3194010018



390-page Swiss German Dictionary: https://www.amazon.de/Schweizer-Wörterbuch-Sach-Sprachwörterbuch-Schweiz/dp/3833449209



This highly recommended course (book and audio): https://www.amazon.com/Das-neue-Hoi-Zäme-Schweizerdeutsch-ebook/dp/B01H0ZP0C0



This older textbook: https://www.amazon.com/Schwyzertüütsch-Praktische-Sprachlehre-Schweizerdeutschen-mitenand/dp/3857010029



Die Schweizermacher: A Swiss German Tutorial https://www.amazon.com/Die-Schweizermacher-German-Harald-Fuchs/dp/3034402422/ and the corresponding movie on DVD: https://www.amazon.com/Die-Schweizermacher-Emil-Steinberger/dp/B000051S8A



Kauderwelsch (has audio available): https://www.amazon.com/Schwiizertüütsch-Deutsch-Eidgenossen-Kauderwelsch-Sprachführer-Know-How-ebook/dp/B07FJQTMG2



and the Austrian German version: https://www.amazon.com/Reise-Know-How-Sprachführer-Österreichisch-Kauderwelsch-Band-ebook/dp/B07C53NPN7

u/TeBags · 3 pointsr/Korean

Yes there is! The "Handbook of Korean Vocabulary" is EXACTLY what you are looking for. It completely focuses around Hanja meanings and which words they go into. I find it interesting just to look at even when I'm not studying.

u/CFRAmustang · 3 pointsr/prephysicianassistant

I'm a professional in-person and online GRE (among other things) tutor. It's best to use a recent book, especially since they are typically close in price to older editions. Depending on where you're starting your prep at (take a practice test first), and what score you're aiming for, usually 2-3 months is a great amount of time to prep.

I recommend and use this book with my students - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1259862410

And these flashcards -
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1618656198

u/b_r_u · 3 pointsr/Korean

Easy. Just get a copy of "Handbook of Korean Vocabulary" https://www.amazon.com/Handbook-Korean-Vocabulary-Recognition-Comprehension/dp/0824818156

By the way, I really shouldn't say this but I have seen a couple of digital copies of this floating around the web somewhere...but the paper book is better.

u/GGIsland · 3 pointsr/languagelearning
u/odor12 · 3 pointsr/Korean

"noticing patterns" will be very inefficient with your time. Instead, use this book https://www.amazon.com/Handbook-Korean-Vocabulary-Recognition-Comprehension/dp/0824818156 which lists hanja roots and words based on those roots. It has been very helpful for me to make guesses when I encounter new words and has helped reinforce memorization of words with hanja roots.

u/hypnofed · 3 pointsr/premed

I'm going to let you in on a secret. I've also worked in exam prep. The vast majority of exam prep courses teach you a book. That's all. Nothing more. I tutored students for the SAT for years. Now I got the job because I scored high on my SAT I (1550 in the 1600 days), but we used two books: Barron's and the Official SAT Guide. When I had clients paying up to $180 an hour, 90% everything I taught was in those books. What you got by paying me in addition was someone who was also an expert on the book's techniques and could hand-hold you through them, and also spot what kind of mistakes you were making. But contentwise, books have just about everything you need. The list of things I taught that didn't come from the book were materials I made up myself. The only reason I got away with that was because I was with a small independent company that allowed me to do so. Big companies that offer courses (like Barron's and Caplan) don't allow it at all. Their tutors have a script that they teach from.

I took the GRE a few years ago and got a 1450 Overall + 6/6 Writing. What was my method? I bought this book, this book, and these flashcards. I worked both books cover to cover and all 500 flashcards until I'd mastered every single thing in them. Took a few hundred hours. If you do that, it works.

u/used2bgood · 2 pointsr/IWantToLearn

LOL - I have a degree in linguistics, and my hubs says that I am a master at communication accommodation - which is not so much about linguistics as it is about social adaptation.

There's nothing wrong with learning on the job either, so to speak, so if you have supportive people in your network, let them know that you're trying to do this, and ask if they'd be willing to let you try it out an them, with the caveat that their responsibility is to let you know if you're using the words wrong, or not providing enough context so that they can figure it out. Challenge others when they use a word you don't know, and ask them to explain. Get a calendar and commit!

All in all, best advice I can give you is remember that language is about human connection and interaction - you speak so that someone will hear.

Don't forget to have fun - that's why we have words like flibbertigibbet!

u/rossgeesman · 2 pointsr/korea

I remember getting a lot of mileage out of this book when I first came to Korea. Survival Korean: Basic Grammar Skills The book is pretty simple but it really helped me get my head around the basics of Korean grammar. Also Handbook of Korean Vocabulary is great because it is organized by Hanja root words. It's more of a reference than a text book but once you start to understand the meaning of the various hanja, it really helps when encountering new words.

u/Kakuz · 2 pointsr/Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

Hi there! I actually received my scores today, and I'm no paragon of standardized test taking, but here's what I did:

  • First, check what is more important for your program. For instance, quantitative was more important than verbal for me, so I focused quite a bit on that.

  • Take a test. www.ets.org has a free prep software that comes with 2 tests that mimic the actual GRE pretty well. Take one, see where you're lacking, set a plan and a goal. Downloading the software is mandatory in my opinion, and serves as an amazing free resource.

  • Get a nice book. This depends on what you want to focus on. I used Barron's, which I found more useful for math than verbal. However, they also have a very nice book that teaches you 800 high frequency words for the GRE. I think studying vocab for this test should never be underestimated.

  • Don't overdo yourself. Cramming is a terrible studying technique. I studied for 2 1/2 months, for instance. Set an hr or 2 per day to work on a section of math, and practice some words.

  • Whenever you finish reviewing those topics you think you were lacking in (from the first practice), take another practice test.

  • For writing, I had no idea how to approach it. There's some guides out there, and the topic pool can be found in the ETS website, but it's difficult to estimate results on that one.

    Finally, I would say register early. Many of my smartest friends did not do as well as they hoped the first time. The test can be very tiring, so allow yourself enough time to retake it (just in case).

    That's what I did, and my study process might have some flaws (of course), but hopefully something from there helps!

    Good luck with the process! It sucks, but I think it's worth it.
u/Mikethechimp · 2 pointsr/unca

Great advice with everything besides the part concerning the SAT. I wouldn't take a prep course. If you are not motivated, it will not help. If you are motivated, then you wouldn't need it and it would be a wasted expense. Instead, most commonly recommended are this book for introductory material as well as practice tests and this one for vocabulary. They are very cheap! (You could probably even borrow them for free from the library)

I'm not a good example since I was somewhat obsessed, but through many (many!) practice and vocabulary books like those I improved my score by over 600 points relative to my PSAT results without spending more than $50 out of pocket.

u/archimedesscrew · 2 pointsr/GermanPractice

Klipp und Klar is the book that I used to prepare myself.

u/darknessvisible · 1 pointr/AskReddit

Learn Mandarin Chinese now using Michel Thomas for spoken and Teach Yourself Mandarin for written and grammar - find a native Mandarin speaker in your area and persuade your parents to pay for an hour a day schoolday tuition. If your parents say no, offer a reciprocal arrangement with your tutor (some useful skill you can teach them). Focus on tone and pronunciation.

Start weight training now and develop your body. Get into good habits regarding your diet (not go on a diet, just practice the fundamentals of healthy eating).

Chose college according to how interesting the city in which it is located is.

Don't get married until after you are 30.

Eradicate the idea that a good degree will lead to a safe and affluent future - those days are gone. Also, stop thinking that "work" is something you do for an hourly rate as an employee - learn how to be your own boss and create your own business.

Learn how to build a solid credit history - you'll need to borrow money in the future to make anything happen.


u/ToledoMa · 1 pointr/Prague

If your friend has a kindle, smartphone or tablet, then a nice little extra would be a good phrasebook. The one that I have is perfect and it's just a few euros - this one. It's definitely a perfect book to start with, to learn pronunciation, shopping vocab, directions etc.

Or, to get more in depth with the language... this book goes into detail about the grammar of the language.

u/notadoglover · 1 pointr/teaching

I think any of the comments above are helpful. I absolutely swear by Word Nerds (https://www.amazon.com/Word-Nerds-Teaching-Students-Vocabulary/dp/1571109544). If you're going to continue teaching the vocabulary lesson, it might be worth investing in reading this.

u/bloomindaedalus · 1 pointr/words

As you have seen in the other responses there is indeed a large portion of lingusitics and anthropology and cognitve science and sociology devoted to how language has shaped cultures and vice versa . Indeed, there are many concepts for which some cultures have no words.

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Here's one list of some of the better known examples:

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https://www.rocketlanguages.com/blog/20-of-the-worlds-most-beautiful-untranslatable-words/

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There are somr fun books about this topic

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They Have A Word for It

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Lost In Transalation

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Other Worldly

u/ninnyman · 1 pointr/socialanxiety

Your story is pretty similar to mine so I'll try to share some insights. I have ADHD too and isolated myself and retreated into video games when I was 13 to escape some family issues. (I'm 20 now.) I started to realize the importance of being social when I started college two years ago and have been working on recovery ever since.


First of all good on you for realizing that socializing and making connections is so important. Some folks never realize this and stay shut in for life. Wanting to get better is the first step to improving, so you're already on the right track. Give yourself a pat on the back.


Now I can't diagnose you with social anxiety or anything, only a professional can do that, but in the end, it's not all that important. Being diagnosed and having your problem given a name doesn't change the problem at all. Furthermore, not having a diagnosis doesn't make your issues less valid. They are valid, and they cause real hurt, and you deserve to get better. So I wouldn't worry too much about whether it's ADHD or social anxiety or depression as much as I would focus on working it.


I totally relate to feeling like your peers have greater social intelligence than you. And I used to be the same way with giving one or two word answers. It does get easier with practice, but you have to be patient and keep trying. I find it helpful to remember that whoever you're talking to you can't read your thoughts. They don't know what you see in your head, and they don't know what you're thinking. This is important because when you give tiny answers you're giving them just a tiny amount of information. You might know extra details or have more in depth thoughts that relate to your answer and give it more context and make it more understandable, but if you don't go ahead and mention them, the person you're talking to will never know. So what I'm saying is to start trying to give more detailed answers to questions. You might think, "Oh, they don't care to listen to me." If they didn't care, why would they ask? Another important thing is to ask questions in return after answering. "How's your courseload this semester?" "It's a little light, how's yours?" If you look up tips for making conversations, asking questions is going to be the first thing you read. It's probably the single most important thing you can learn.


I got a bit sidetracked there but going back to how you feel like others have higher social intelligence, and you describe your social ability as being so poor, it's pretty clear that you're having trouble with self-esteem, which is normally linked to depression iirc. Looking down when you walk is an indicator of that too. It might not seem like useful advice now, but dwelling on not being good at conversations is only going to make them harder. If you keep drilling it into your head that your inept at conversing with people then social interactions will continue to be difficult and anxiety provoking, because you'll continue to dread not doing well enough. It's kind of a cycle, telling yourself that you're bad at talking to people will make you more anxious when you do talk to people, inhibit your conversational ability, and thus give you more "evidence" of your lack of skill and reinforce your feelings. You're basically digging your own grave when you do that. Now I know you can't just go "hey! I'm the BEST at talking to people!" and fix it just like that, but it's incredibly useful to reflect on when you do well and feel good about that rather than dwell on doing poorly, even if your good moments seem incredibly tiny. Progress is progress. It takes a long time and I still feel self conscious about myself and my ability, but it does get better.


Anyway, I'd stop playing video games if you haven't yet. It might be hard but you'll come to realize that there's much better things to do with your time. Also, having trouble making eye contact and I'm not sure what you mean by struggling with body language but difficulty making eye contact and reading body language can be a sign of autism. Take that with a grain of salt though, I'm not a professional. A tip for eye contact I've heard countless times is to look at someone between their eyes, right above the nose. It's apparently indistinguishable from regular eye contact, but I don't have any experience doing it. Even with that tip in mind, you should practice holding it more than usual. It might feel weird and uncomfortable but if you're struggling to hold it chances are what duration feel weird are actually pretty normal for everyone else. Just remember to practice. If you're finding it hard to read body language, there's plenty of resources on that you can study from. I've heard good things about this book. There's way too much to say about body language and eye contact than I can type here.


As for other books, How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie is one the everyone recommends. I've read it and it's great, but just reading it won't help. You really gotta go out there and practice it, (true even if you don't read anything) and be willing to pay attention to what works and what doesn't, refine your approach as necessary, and make new discoveries for yourself. When you do that, you'll start to really understand what the book is saying, well after you read it the first time. Books are useful, but they can't plant the right state of mind into your head, that's something you need to figure out for yourself. It takes lots of time and attention, but that's what you need to do. And that's what everyone else has done, book or not, while you, to be frank, were busy playing video games. It will be worth it.


That's all I can think to say right now. Again, good job asking for help, and I wish for you nothing but the best. Good luck!

u/Morning_Star_Ritual · 1 pointr/AskReddit

So strange, wife and I just discussing this--I actually feel sick when I witness the misfortune of other people. I know that Schadenfreude is perhaps the opposite,not quite, but close. . .?

There is a great book here it is but I am sure what the op is talking about is not there.

If there is a word for it great, but if not why does the hive mind not come up with one?

u/TarBallsOfSteel · 1 pointr/IWantToLearn

Few bits of advice.

  1. Start reading. Every good writer is well read.
  2. Speaking of reading.. Here are some books I'd recommend for learning writing skills.

    https://www.amazon.com/Eats-Shoots-Leaves-Tolerance-Punctuation/dp/1592402038

    This is a great book explaining everything you need to know about punctuation in a fun way.

    https://www.amazon.com/Vocabulary-Cartoons-Learn-Minute-Forget-ebook/dp/B00FBL1GL0

    This book is how I learned a bunch of vocabulary words. You'll never forget them with the help of the fun cartoons that help you recall the words.

    https://www.amazon.com/Brysons-Dictionary-Writers-Editors-Bryson/dp/0767922700

    Bryson is a great author and this book can be helpful to you as well.

  3. Start Journaling daily. This is a great skill to learn because it helps focus your thoughts after a long day and it will help you organize ideas quickly in your mind as you write them down.

    4.Finally, practice writing. I don't know what field you are studying but I would recommend learning about academic writing. Find journals (through your college library) that are about your field of study and try reading an article or two and take notes on them. The goal is to try and connect a topic from your classes with an article or some other writing (you can find articles online from reputable sources other than journals) . Then you can try writing about your own perspective on the topic in a research style paper. This way you will learn more about what you are studying and see how other professionals write about it. Also, look for books about your field as they will be great resources for your writing.

  4. If you would like more information about academic writing and how I personally organize notes and go about researching topics to write my own papers just comment or pm and we can talk more.
u/LanguageManiac · 1 pointr/ChineseLanguage

Anyway I think you understood my question wrong, I was referring to this book http://www.amazon.com/Complete-Mandarin-Chinese-Two-Audio/dp/0071737278 . Thanks for the comment anyway

u/[deleted] · 1 pointr/languagelearning

For sure this textbook. There's several levels to it, and it also has traditional versions. I also have this. And this book us great to help with grammar, etc. As for online, the first textbook comes with an online website here for listening practice. Also, Duolingo is going to have Chinese soon I believe. I can't much help with online. You could try Livemocha. I really enjoy this program for the computer.

Around 16 months? I'm not so sure, however, Mandarin is a language where immersion for at least a year is key. So for that 16 months, plus some time in China or Taiwan you'll be fluent I'm sure!

u/balimoon · 1 pointr/Korean

Totally doable. Here's how I did it:

Watch Korean dramas (Netflix has a small selection that's good enough to get started; otherwise, try viky.com): Great so you actually hear what Korean sounds like. The idea is to learn passively. I promise it works

Check out [Naver's dictionary] (http://endic.naver.com) when you stumble upon new words

Read bilingual news on [Joogang Daily] (http://koreajoongangdaily.joins.com/news/list/list.aspx?gCat=060201)

Invest in good reference books. My favorites for:

-[Grammar] (http://www.amazon.com/Korean-Grammar-International-Learners-Bin/dp/8971415541/ref=sr_1_1_twi_unk_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1449545300&sr=1-1&keywords=korean+grammar+for+international+learners)

-[Vocabulary] (http://www.amazon.com/Handbook-Korean-Vocabulary-Recognition-Comprehension/dp/0824818156)

Try Sogang University's free online courses

STUDY UP!! Korean is very different from Western languages, so be regular in your studies and you'll be fine.

u/TMills · 1 pointr/Korean

If you're interested in this kind of thing more generally, I found this cool book at my local library: https://www.amazon.com/Handbook-Korean-Vocabulary-Recognition-Comprehension/dp/0824818156/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1521745556&sr=8-2&keywords=handbook+of+korean+vocabulary

in which you can look up words or morphemes and it tells you their derivation and what other words they are in.

u/bkkc · 1 pointr/Korean

Over 60% of Korean vocabulary descended from Chinese. So that should really help you with words. Some Chinese (Sino-Korean is the term used) roots are the basis of dozens of Korean nouns, and nouns are turned into verbs, adverbs, modifiers, etc. in a very systematic way. Many dictionaries show the Chinese character when the root is based on it and I suggest buying this book to get you going: http://www.amazon.com/Handbook-Korean-Vocabulary-Recognition-Comprehension/dp/0824818156/