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The Blank Slate: The Modern Denial of Human Nature - evolutionary psychology, behavioral genetics. (probably most interesting from a Freudian perspective, deals with many of our unconscious instincts)
Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces The Shape Our Decisions - Unconscious decision-making, behavioral economics, consumer psychology. Fun read.
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion - Most popular book on the psychology of persuasion, covers all the main principles. Very popular among business crowds.
Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships - Social neuroscience, mirror neurons, empathy, practical stuff mixed with easy to understand brain science.
Authentic Happiness - Positive Psychology, happiness, increasing life satisfaction.
Feeling Good - A good primer on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Also widely considered one of the best self-help books by mental health practitioners.
The Brain That Changes Itself - Neuroplasticity, how experience shapes our brains. Some really remarkable case studies that get you wondering how powerful our brains really are.
The Buddhist Brain - The practical neuroscience of happiness, love, and wisdom from a Buddhist perspective.
That should give you more than enough to chew on.
I'd suggest this book
It's a real study on happiness
Martin E. P. Seligman
Authentic Happiness: Using the New Positive Psychology to Realize Your Potential for Lasting Fulfillment
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Your comment appears to have absolutely nothing at all to do with Positive Psychology. These psychologists did not invent the "law of attraction", that was a group of new age hippies who believed that if you just think positive things, then good things will happen.
Positive Psychology, on the other hand, is the idea that clinical psychology has focused too long on mental illness and behavioral abnormalities, and that given the information we currently have on the human condition, we should be trying to use our scientific knowledge to help otherwise healthy and "normal" individuals become happier. So rather than waiting for someone to develop a mental disorder before helping them, Positive Psychology suggests that we should reduce the chance of these people developing disorders in the first place, and we should help work with things like self-esteem, satisfaction, social skills, etc, even when they are not in the "abnormal" range.
These psychologists do not suggest that thinking "positive thoughts" will make your problems go away, and they do not suggest that a failure to think positively is a mental disorder that needs to be treated.
Here are some resources you might find useful:
Positive psychology (Wiki)
Authentic Happiness - Seligman
The Happiness Hypothesis - Haidt
I understand why people confuse Positive Psychology with woo-ey beliefs like 'telling yourself you're beautiful 20 times a day will improve your self esteem!' and the law of attraction, but Positive Psychology is actually a valid field of science which is based upon solid empirical findings. I just wish the researchers in the area would stop using such flowery language to describe their work because it causes this confusion - they're like damn hippies with PhDs.
I think your question is great - the kind of question that philosophers should grapple with, but seldom do anymore. It's a "big picture" question that relates to how to organize your thoughts so that you're not unwittingly working against your own long-term interests. In ancient times, the stoics and epicureans were concerned with these kinds of questions of how your mental outlook can influence the quality of your life.
It may help to imagine in detail what sort of life you would like to have, say, 5, 10, 20 years down the road. This future person will be a different "you" with slightly different interests and priorities, but many things will remain the same: you won't want to be starving or homeless, you won't want your kids to be crackheads, you'll want to be healthy, and so forth. Imagine an ideal "you" and then consider what you need to do to become this person in terms of adjusting mental and physical habits, what you need to achieve to be feel your life is well-lived, what work needs to be put in to get where you want to be, and so on. This isn't something to think about for 10 minutes and then forget; it needs to be lurking in the back of your mind and revisited frequently.
You may find Martin Seligman's book Authentic Happiness helpful. He's a psychologist by department, but I see this book as a modern evidence-based expansion on Aristotle's attempts to explicate the notion of a flourishing, well-lived life.
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>“the scientific study of what goes right in life [and] those things that make life most worth living,”
That is an odd way to define Positive Psychology but I guess it's a fairly accurate summation. Positive Psychology was a reaction to the large amount of attention that has been paid on abnormal psychology- essentially what is "wrong" with people and how to fix it. This leads an absence in what people can do to better themselves beyond the realm of mental illness. How can we improve and enrich our lives, starting from a neutral baseline.
I actually find it very funny that I'm reading an article on religion and positive psychology as I took issue with Martin Seligman's position on religion in his book Authentic Happiness which is the primer for studying this branch of psychology. I don't have anything against having religion in your life (obviously) but I also don't feel like it's necessary. I align more with Daniel Gilbert's approach that you can get the same results when you fill your life with the same things that religion provides you regardless of whether or not you ascribe to any religious practice. A strong passion in something shared by others, closeness with a community, etc are components of religious practice that can enrich your life with or without religion.
All that being said, I do agree that Positive Psychology and Judaism go hand in hand very well together. I would say that as of the last time I really studied positive psych, the research was largely done on Buddhists. I'm very excited to hear about the merger of positive psych and Judaism which is another reason I'm excited to study Mussar.
If you would like to get acquainted with Positive Psychology, I will leave some recommendations below:
As I stated earlier, Authentic Happiness is the primer for learning about this branch. I do take issues with certain elements of the book but I still think it's an incredibly worthwhile read.
I would also recommend to you Stumbling On Happiness as it explores the more scientific approach to the study.
*I would also recommend you start studying it by studying yourself. Martin Seligman is still conducting research to this day. I would recommend taking a look at the Questionnaires section of his website. There's a ton of tests and surveys you can take but I recommend you start off with the Signature Strengths VIA Survey. Note, you do have to make an account but it's worth it. Once you've determined your top 5 character strengths, you can start trying to strengthen those traits and make them more prominent in your life.