Reddit reviews Look Into My Eyes: How To Use Hypnosis To Bring Out The Best In Your Sex Life

I always recommend the following resources for people exploring hypnosis:

• Erotic Mind Control Podcast -- this is a now-defunct podcast that had the best introduction to erotic hypnosis. It covers everything from theory to practice, includes sample inductions, and talks about how to make sure how to avoid problems. You can find a copy of it the episodes here: http://www.sendspace.com/file/2xuvxj
  
• Look Into My Eyes -- A good (if outdated) book on erotic hypnosis. I've heard bad things about the theory sections of this book, but it does cover hypnosis in sexual situations.
  
• Busman's Holiday -- A hot porn story that also happens to be a complete primer on erotic hypnosis, written by a practising hypnotherapist.
  
• Warp My Mind -- Lots of free hypnosis MP3s. The inductions aren't great and you're guaranteed to find things that creep you out, and 95% isn't worth downloading. The 5% of gold on that site makes it worth it though. Look up the Confusion Induction and anything by Blink. PM me and I'll send you more suggestions for good files.
  
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I'll just add an echo for Mind Play - A Guide to Erotic Hypnois by Mark Wiseman

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There are a number of erotic hypnosis groups on Fetlife. Which is a route to finding events near you and other people doing hypnosis.

For books I also like to recommend:

Monsters and Magical Sticks. There's no such thing as Hypnosis by Steven Heller

Trance-Formations Neuro Lingustic Programming and the Structure of Hypnosis by Richard Bandler & John Grinder

Specifically the Exercises I, II and III :)

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Before Mind Play came along and became the Defacto community standard this was my go to recommendation:

Look Into my Eyes by Peter Masters

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Your wife will know you are both new at this. One common bit of advice is to "Be The Hypnotist". Which is to say have absolute confidence that what you are doing will work.

The moment you have success - and with a willing partner like this there is no reason you won't - it gets easier to build on that.

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Humans have a habit of rationalizing. Which means afterwards they say "I was just playing along" or "I didn't feel hypnotised", which can be one of the hardest parts to overcome. Having some experience and being pretty damn sure they were hypnotised it got easier after convincing them they were.

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There are set pieces out there that utilise an induction and the 'convincers'.

In the UK Anthony Jacquin or Jonathan Chase present similar training material for Street Magic.

Here's there set piece.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1i90iXhELM0&index=9&list=PLLOptAK72kDrJAOkMD-sNKBTfYs0WNot5

Here's there inductions and if I got the link right there should be a whole series in the playlist.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x85prwKYgOQ&index=1&list=PLLOptAK72kDrJAOkMD-sNKBTfYs0WNot5

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(If you want to look into that more then "Reality Is Plastic" by Anthony Jacquin )

But that's not erotic or in the bedroom. His style is chatty and sharp and he might have picked the volunteers from the audience.

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So how do you do this in the bedroom?

It wouldn't hurt to "do a roleplay". In which she imagines she is the best hypnotic subject ever and for want of a better explanation, plays along.

It can be that simple.

Before, During and After try and get your partner to talk about her experience.

Remember the way she describes things - because if you use similar language it will work better.

(That's what the exercises in Trance Formations cover).

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On the subject of audio files. It may help you a great deal to study how others talk. Hypnotists have 'a voice'.

You can also listen to them without going into Hypnosis and you can skip through parts.

May a few minutes of induction and then to half-way through to get to the 'content'.

Your wife may listen to a few files and just find them very erotic - in which case you can use the suggestions that they are using as material to hone in on what she likes to hear.

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