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I'm going to go out on a limb here and do this one off the cuff before I try to do any research:
Now, I went online:
I highly recommend reading: https://www.amazon.com/Stupid-Things-Mess-Their-Lives/dp/0060929448
*OW was good at this... she loved giving gifts, but her husband's careful budgeting through the years had ensured that both their home and their cars were completely paid off, so their salaries, combined of over 100k, were basically spending money so she could appear somewhat generous while not sacrificing a thing - the gifts were never lavish - in line with what people their age would typically give (until she thought she might not win WS - and he suddenly started getting very nice gifts) but when I gave similar, I knew I wasn't going to be eating lunch for the week - for her, it wouldn't even register in her pocketbook. And she gave time to help with projects, but only when she didn't have anything better to do - and in hindsight I realize that everything she started to do, she needed my help with and I realize that I actually did all the work that she got credit for from my WS - he has since given me credit, but at the time... With kids, and two jobs, I always had something I needed to be doing so everything was a sacrifice).
Ok, this one will surprise the readership here.
Get this book. Do it now. Find it at a used book store. I don't care.
https://www.amazon.com/Stupid-Things-Mess-Their-Lives/dp/0060929448
I hate the author. But she's not wrong here.
Do an internet search for Knight in Shining Armor Syndrome. There's a lot of information about it.
Also, Dr. Laura addresses this in the first chapter of her book 10 Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives. She calls it "Stupid Chivalry... By getting involved with the wrong woman (weak, flaky, damaged, needy, desperate, stupid, untrustworthy, immature, etc.) you think that your love will save/transform them."