Reddit reviews The Lowdown on Going Down: How to Give Her Mind-Blowing Oral Sex

This book is mostly about cunnilingus but the first part is all about kissing. Different kinds of kisses, how to escalate from the peck to full on making out, all of it. It is the absolute best kissing manual I have ever come across.

Anyone who's into guys and reading this, try the partner book Blow Him Away -- same first portion with kissing, but the main course focuses on fellatio instead of cunnilingus.

Listen. I can't post this enough. If you are serious about developing your cunnilingus skills read she comes first and the low down on going down (especially the tongue exercises in the second).

If you're serious. DO IT!
edit: everything in this article is amazing by the way.

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Also a great book to read. I've had many rave reviews about the things I learned from this.

Be sure he has not eaten anything like right before he goes down on you, and know that it is not the end of the world if you don't like it. I would not rule it out without trying a few different things. Have him start really slow and ensure he does not have a lot of saliva build up as the enzymes in spit can desensitize the clitoris.

When I was first getting into the whole sex thing I read plenty of books on the art of felacio. Have him pick up a book or two and get to reading. I am not talking about the books that tell you to do the ABC's or something like that, but more the effects that certain foods can have on the vagina if eaten close to going down. Facts that are very useful and good to know when the time comes.
Best book I have read on the subject

Remember that everyone is different and you might like it done a certain way. Its all about what makes you feel good.

Check out The Low Down on Going Down or She Comes First

To be frank, what positions have you tried? Do you ride him? If you control the motion of the ocean a lot of his awkwardness may be eliminated?

Seems like the dexterity issues need to be treated via physio maybe, but try getting him to read books by Marcy Michaels https://www.amazon.com/Lowdown-Going-Down-Give-Mind-Blowing/dp/0767916573.

She is a speech therapist, so she has literal exercises to improve control if you will.

I haven't looked through this, but my boyfriend read it and whatever it told him to do works. He gives me ejaculating orgasms within a minute or two.
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