Best sanitary napkins according to redditors

These ones ....

https://always.com/en-us/shop-products/menstrual-pads/ultra-thin-pads/always-ultra-thin-size-5-pads-extra-heavy-overnight-with-wings




Or these if you Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Amazon-Brand-Flexi-Wings-Overnight-Absorbency/dp/B07B4SRSF9



And y'all are going to think I'm crazy but
... when you're sleeping, take your ultra thin pad and give yourself a wedgie with it, front to back. You'll never have an overnight leak again.

Yes! All this.

Sanitary napkins with wings

Tampon variety pack

Hair ties (get the ones with no metal joiner)

Makeup remover (get the individual packs)

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Now here's what I think you should do: Take all of these things out of the original boxes and put them in a basket. No girl wants to see a pack of 20 makeup wipes with only two wipes left; we know you weren't a virgin when we met, but keep it classy.

There are the pads I use.

I find that they stay put, hold a lot of liquid, and aren't too annoying to to care for. After i'm done using one, I rinse it till water runs clear and then I set it aside to dry. At the end of shark week, I typically throw them all of them into the wash for an additional rinse and then dry them out in the sun :)

edit: I accidentally linked the medium flow version when I bought the heavy flow version so i changed the link!

I love my clothes pads! They're a touch bulky (I wear lots of snug jeans/yoga pants) but it's super easy and cheap, and they're comfortable. I just throw them in the wash.

These are the ones I have: https://www.amazon.com/Sanitary-Menstrual-Heart-Felt-Absorbency/dp/B00RMNEQLW/ref=pd_m_ba_rp_of_13?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=HMA5FZCTDS2JP0A160FB

I found period panties too light for anything but the last day when I think my period is over. I do wear them with reusable pads at night for an extra sense of security...and because I spent a fair amount of money on them. (edit - I have very heavy periods and when I leak, it tends to be at night and only from the back of my pad. I could have a pad that goes up the entire length of my spine and I’d still end up with a drop of blood at the top...right where the pad ends.)

I picked some reusable pads from Amazon (link below) and when I wear them it’s like fluffy angels are coming down to rest in my panties and allow me to have the closest experience to a tampon commercial I’ll likely ever have. If you haven’t tried them, you are MISSING OUT. So soft. So luxurious. I canceled my Kotex subscribe-and-save and just ordered an extra set of reusables. The local women’s shelter will be getting most of what’s left of my stash.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07B4TDJBM/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_i_0yaQCb6AAHWG6

Like the cups, amazon has a lot of relatively economical options for reusable pads. It's where I ordered all of mine.

Check these out.

The brand I use is called Teamoy. But I just searched for 'fabric panty liners' on Amazon and picked up the cutest, lmao. Here's a link to the ones I bought (from amazon.ca)

https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07H57YTFB/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_I4NADb454EJMS

I bought these more than six months ago. They're holding up really well (aside from the one my dog nibbled on, yuck). I just rinse them out when I'm done using them and throw them in the wash with my other laundry. Easy peasy. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B078S6KRX2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1

They do alright. The ones I ordered came with double sided tape, if needed, but I wear them with snug undies like bikini cuts and boyshorts. They stay put pretty well on their own, but sometimes I adjust them a bit when I hit the bathroom.

Plus, I only rely on them completely for light days. Otherwise they're just a backup for the menstrual cup.

So sorry to hear about losing your mom, no little girl should have to grow up without that special relationship, understanding and support. We do our best though even though men are a pretty poor replacement for a mom. Some of us struggle a bit more with the role than others I guess.

Also, since there seems to be a discussion on the pads, this is what works well for my daughter:

https://www.amazon.com/Kotex-Tween-Pads-Pack/dp/B07LCRD5J1/ref=pd_sim_121_7?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B07LCRD5J1&pd_rd_r=0731424c-639b-11e9-9f49-5707d913d0fd&pd_rd_w=EEWc1&pd_rd_wg=iO5FQ&pf_rd_p=90485860-83e9-4fd9-b838-b28a9b7fda30&pf_rd_r=XK8J2QD6WX5TAYX460JV&psc=1&refRID=XK8J2QD6WX5TAYX460JV

Really tough to find in a store though so we keep an extra box or two around. There's also a "teen" variation of this product.

OP, my experience is way different from yours but if you ever think my perspective might be a benefit, feel free to shoot me a DM.

Always and Kotex generally offer free samples. Won’t help in the short term, but they’re good to have on hand.

As someone else recommended, it might be worth investing in a few reusable/cloth pads as well. That way you know you’ll always have backup.

ETA: I’m in Canada so it doesn’t make much sense for me to buy them, but these look like a pretty good deal.

This is the Amazon seller I got it from. They have panty liners up to heavy flow pads, so make sure that's right before purchasing! I still have yet to try them out, so you might want to look through the reviews. Good luck!
https://www.amazon.com/Menstrual-Reusable-Washable-Charcoal-Simfamily/dp/B07B4TDJBM

I got these pads for the first few days that are super heavy. I still have some left, I only needed such a heavy pad for the first week. After that I was able to use these regular sized ones. The wings are really helpful in getting everything to stay put, and also the longer ones are good for night-time when you may be moving more. You can also get these pad ice packs, they gave them to me at my hospital and I loved them, but you could also buy some more to have on hand.

1. Picking the right size can depend on how much you want the pads to absorb. I have a couple of different sizes, you can get a variety for overnight, heavy flow, med flow, or light flow.
   
   
2. I got my first cloth pads from Amazon because they were cheap and great as a trial run. I'm in Canada, but these are the same ones I have on Amazon.com: Link to variety pack and Overnight size
   
   
3. You change them like you would disposable pads, depending on your flow. They will feel damp but they absorb really well and are superior for wicking away moisture in comparison to disposables. I'd suggest paring them with period underwear or a menstrual cup if you are worried about leaks, some people wear two pairs of underwear to keep them in place. They don't have a sticky backing so it can take some getting used to. Overall they're way more comfortable than disposable pads.
   
   
4. A decent price to pay depends on what you're looking for. The ones on Amazon are cheap but they function well. When you want to upgrade consider if you want something made from organic materials, cotton, bamboo, hand-made off Etsy, etc. They will affect the prices.

Basically they are a layer of waterproof PUL (also used for cloth diapers) and then layers of bamboo or cotton for the absorbant pad area. You can get ones with or without snaps to secure them around your underwear. They are thicker than regular pads but softer and less irritating.

Example from Amazon: 6Pcs Set Menstrual Pads Reusable Washable Charcoal Bamboo Layer Heavy Flow 13 inch Sanitay Pads with 1 Cloth Mini Wet Bag by Simfamily https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07B4TDJBM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_7dyDDbKE5Q6Y0

They are excellent. Just started using them. Just rinse em out and throw them in the washer/dryer. Very comfortable and the reviews are great for one ones I got here. For 25 bucks it's a steal
https://www.amazon.com/Teamoy-Menstrual-Super-Absorbent-Comfortable-3pcs%C3%9711-6/dp/B078S6KRX2?ref_=ast_bbp_dp

I but mine through Amazon. Brand doesn't matter to me just function.

I have some for light days, regular, and over night.

Simfamily 7 Pieces Set Including 1 Piece Mini Wet Bag +6 Pieces 8 Inch Charcoal Bamboo Panty Liner Mama Cloth Menstrual Pads Reusable Sanitary Pads https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071ZFH5WF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Vt.WBbRD68S6R

Pretty sure the one I am talking about is bigger if you are talking always brand. They have wings spread out wide over your buttcrack area. Longer in the back than the front by at least 100%

http://www.amazon.com/Always-Extra-Heavy-Overnight-Flexi-Wings/dp/B002KAL6NI

You might try adding cloth pads to your regular underwear if you're just looking for some extra absorption.

I'm so sorry. I'll let other people give you advice on the surgery issues -- and I'll read it quite closely, as I'm getting a major surgery soon, too. My surgery is related to uterine ridiculousness, so, on that note, I can spreak to your question about pads with maximum coverage. The absolute best amazing why-did-I-only-just-find-out-about-these pads I've found are these: http://www.amazon.com/Always-Extra-Heavy-Overnight-Flexi-Wings/dp/B002KAL6NI

(I used to love and adore the super thin ones, but I can't use 'em anymore.)

Ibuprofen. And might appreciate a couple of heavy duty cloth pads for wearing at night, something like this - https://www.amazon.com/Sanitary-Menstrual-Heart-Felt-Absobancy/dp/B00VJNPOTE?th=1

They're reusable (no more garbage for the landfill), comfortable (can be less irritating to sensitive body parts), and come in a variety of designs and colors which helps to destigmatize a naturally occurring process. You just rinse with cold water right after use and then throw in the usual warm/hot water wash. Easy peasy. And seriously money saving in the long term.

Honestly, they've been amazing for me. There are lots of different brands out there, I have some of these which are super absorbent (they feel a little 'bulky' at first, but honestly, you get used to it very fast). Another benefit is that they don't move around much at all, and if they do shift in your underwear you can definitely 'tell'.

I also have these for 'lighter' days (which honestly still aren't that light for me). Plus I've had both sets for nearly two years now, and they're still perfectly fine, so I've saved money too!

The brand I have has gone out of business. You want something like this with the little wet bag. I've never dared to empty my cup in public/at work but have changed cloth pads many times

Hey! Ugh, that sucks, sorry to hear that you have to stick with it for the time being due to financial reasons. I bought this kind on Amazon, which I actually even use during my period (and only have to change maybe 3 times a day during the heaviest times of my period?) So for my flow, they have more than enough absorbency for spotting/light flow. I would DEFINITELY recommend the kind with bamboo fleece for absorbency -- I have another set that doesn't have an absorbent core, and they are less comfortable and more prone to leakage.

I love my cloth pads! These are the exact ones I use. Dutchess Cloth Menstrual Pads - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00UZL0WCK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_6ojYzb18444PZ

These panty liners (great for every day discharge or as a cup backup)

https://www.amazon.com/Bamboo-Charcoal-Menstrual-Reusable-Sanitary/dp/B0736YKRRG/ref=sxbs_sxwds-stvp?keywords=cotton+cloth+pads&pd_rd_i=B0736YKRRG&pd_rd_r=74c3ac68-3fab-4884-82d0-82bae8dea656&pd_rd_w=Gwed3&pd_rd_wg=IPTvm&pf_rd_p=d006b618-5fac-44e6-850d-a0fdd19f7847&pf_rd_r=ZHXQT1HB9XD1V5BER6A2&qid=1568563155&s=gateway

Or these interchangable cotton pads
https://www.amazon.com/Reusable-Natural-Sanitary-Napkins-Menstrual/dp/B01N07PV67/ref=mp_s_a_1_12?keywords=cotton+cloth+pads&qid=1568563060&s=gateway&sr=8-12

Are also affordable options.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07K68G39T/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=babybellykell-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B07K68G39T&linkId=0e0bdb40126d1425f510fc9214808168 these cloth pads are pretty good my sister uses them.

I prefer period panties as my backup I use this brand
https://ilovegenerationme.com/eco-friendly-family-products/evawear-period-panty

For dealing with nighttime leaks, I have found a foolproof leak-proof method. These pads + biker/volleyball/spandex shorts. And I have a waterproof allergy protective cover thing on my mattress. Never leaked at night again.

For daytime, I wear these pads plus black pants that have stretch to them. I also make sure to take ibuprofen throughout the day to help with not only the cramps but I seem to get less clots on days I take it around the clock.

Also, frequent bathroom trips.

I've had them for years so the original listing isn't up. They kind of looked like these though.

Could've saved you some effort if you've ever been in a womens bathroom: https://www.amazon.com/Sanitary-Napkin-Tampon-Dispenser-Metal/dp/B07C84J9KX

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haha

There are a few pads I would suggest for your sister. One package for every day use such as Always with wings and an overnight pad , which helps when we sleep. The directions are on inserts in the packages and she'll be just fine :) If she's cramping I advise advil or motrin over tylenol. You're doing great, big brother!

The only time I had leakage with cloth pads was in the first two months learning what size I needed for my flows. Other than that I love them! I have loads of recommendations.

Pink Daisy by Blueberry Diapers
https://blueberrydiapers.com/collections/pink-daisy?sort_by=title-ascending

I use the ones biggest ones on my heavy days and overnight. Never had a problem with leaking.

Charlie Banana
These are super soft.
https://www.charliebanana.com/collections/women-1/feminine-pad

Charcoal Period Pads
This type does a good job if you are worried about smells.
Heart Felt Bamboo Reusable... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00VJNPOTE?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share


Just be sure to wash them before you use them. Otherwise they won’t absorb the way they were designed.

If you have any questions about how to wash them let me know. I’ve been using cloth pads for over 10 years now and love them.

You can search in amazon for some cloth pads as well. I just have the issue of one bad buy. The pads were made with very wide wings so the bad spins around in my underwear. I can send you a link of those ones so you can see how their are designed so as to avoid buy that shape. Otherwise if I double check the shape of the pads before buying I haven’t had any problems.

Etsy can also be a good place to buy some as well.

In use cloth pads as backup on my heavy days & I really love them! They are thicker than the disposable ultra thin pads I used to use, and that took a little getting used to. I was worried they would show through my pants, but they don't. But they feel so much better against my skin! They are so easy to take care of, just rinse out in the sink & toss them in the washer with your laundry. I just bought the cheapest set on Amazon I could find (here's a link if you're interested. I bought both the pantyliner & the overnight versions. I'm sure there are thinner options out there if you are willing to spend more.

I switched to reusable pads, which made a huge difference during my time of the month. I have been using the diva cup for a couple of years now, but I always use a pad for backup protection, and I've been loving the reusable ones I bought. I've also found that they're a lot more comfortable than disposable pads.

I also bought some canvas grocery bags and reusable produce bags. I'm so excited to go grocery shopping again so I can use them! I'm so sick of accumulating plastic bags. I have a massive collection of them, and I'm sure they will still accumulate because of my roommates, but at least I know I won't be contributing to it anymore.

Washable/reusable sanitary pads are also a great option, when you are able to get some cash. I think mine cost about €1.70 each on Amazon, at the time, though they did come from China and not a local organic shop or anything (am in Europe). Much more comfortable than throwaway pads or tampons, cheaper, and better for the environment.
Something like this:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B017D8IVJ8/ref=sspa_mw_detail_6?ie=UTF8&psc=1&th=1

I bought the off of amazon for like 13.00$ for a five pack. I love them for at night especially. I may try another kind for daytime though. And I just wash them by hand with Castile soap, but I have run them through the washing machine. I just don’t like letting them sit dirty haha.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B017D8IVJ8?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image

Anyone who commands another to calm down is self projecting.

Here's a link to a $4 cup which amounts to about the same as a SINGLE box of tampons. "Get a clue"

https://www.amazon.com/Bodybay-Menstrual-Registered%EF%BC%8CBest-Alternative-Protection/dp/B07FMF2H4V/ref=sr_1_14?keywords=menstrual%2Bcup&qid=1562035337&s=gateway&sr=8-14&th=1

Here's a link stating soap and water will be sufficient. "Get a clue"

https://divacup.com/how-it-works/care-and-cleaning/

Here's another "Get a clue"

https://caringpanda.com/sterilize-menstrual-cup-without-boiling/

Here's a link to reusable pads that amount to a periods worth of tampons. "Get a clue"

https://www.amazon.com/Menstrual-Reusable-Washable-Charcoal-Simfamily/dp/B07B4TDJBM/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=reusable+pads&qid=1562035689&s=gateway&sr=8-5

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The majority of homeless are clustered in urban areas where public restrooms with the necessary sanitary items are abound. "Get a clue".

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The SINGLE USE aspect is what is taxed. There. I used caps so your tiny eyes can see it. I'm assuming this because your tiny eyes must match your tiny one track brain.

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The three states I listed with a condom tax entirely debunks your own point about how condoms ARE NOT taxed and present the possibility for a condom tax to be present elsewhere. (Had to capitalize, tiny eyes, tiny brain.) and my points about sustainability are sound reasons, in my opinion, for the tax to continue. Additionally, you are right. Condoms aren't a necessity. Just like the single use convenience. You're also right about resources not being abundant, hence the REUSE of the materials and the subsequent SAVINGS for poor women to butter sustain themselves.